Topic: need an amswer!!!
stuartneedlove's photo
Sun 07/24/11 03:25 AM
DO YOU KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO BE LONELY , TO WAKE UP AND FIND YOURSELF ALL ALONE IN THE WORLD AND NO ONE TO CALL YOUR OWN?

FLYINGSCOOTER's photo
Mon 07/25/11 02:04 PM
yep, I've been down that road a few times.
It gets better though.

kissablekiss's photo
Mon 07/25/11 02:28 PM
fills you up with emptiness, makes no sense but really describes it. i tend to stare at things for a while when i am being depressingly reflective. i look at the tiny things in life, imagine what life would be like in that microcosm of whatever stupid thing i am staring at. tonight, it was my soup. potato soup. i watched the starch particles cycle in and out of the bottom of the pot, watched some cling to the sides in a desperate but futile attempt to free themselves from the heat. i watched the identifiable particles of food, the onions, the carrots. i remembered back to cutting them, imagining which ones were which and trying to see the resemblance of individual cuts i had made. i watched the steam pour off of the pot, examining the bubbles as they popped and looked to the bottom of the pan in their vacuum. i almost felt guilty for eating it afterwards.
i guess by looking at things at that level in that detail makes me feel small, invisible, and able to hide in spaces myself. for some reason, isolation relieves the loneliness. when i am with others, i have no excuse for being lonely.

highflyer14's photo
Thu 07/28/11 03:34 AM
I used to be lonely. Drowned the feeling in booze and women until Christ found me. Now we are happy together. It's the best thing that ever happened to me.

no photo
Fri 07/29/11 12:25 AM

fills you up with emptiness, makes no sense but really describes it. i tend to stare at things for a while when i am being depressingly reflective. i look at the tiny things in life, imagine what life would be like in that microcosm of whatever stupid thing i am staring at. tonight, it was my soup. potato soup. i watched the starch particles cycle in and out of the bottom of the pot, watched some cling to the sides in a desperate but futile attempt to free themselves from the heat. i watched the identifiable particles of food, the onions, the carrots. i remembered back to cutting them, imagining which ones were which and trying to see the resemblance of individual cuts i had made. i watched the steam pour off of the pot, examining the bubbles as they popped and looked to the bottom of the pan in their vacuum. i almost felt guilty for eating it afterwards.
i guess by looking at things at that level in that detail makes me feel small, invisible, and able to hide in spaces myself. for some reason, isolation relieves the loneliness. when i am with others, i have no excuse for being lonely.

WOW kiss- sweetie, THAT was deep.

AndyBgood's photo
Fri 07/29/11 02:44 PM
I am not letting my heart spill out on the floor on this one!

Loneliness makes me make mistakes!

boredinaz06's photo
Fri 07/29/11 03:27 PM


You're only alone if you allow yourself to feel alone.

AndyBgood's photo
Fri 07/29/11 06:33 PM
I got my pet lizard!




That is what My attitude problem looks like.

kre8karma's photo
Fri 07/29/11 07:54 PM

DO YOU KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO BE LONELY , TO WAKE UP AND FIND YOURSELF ALL ALONE IN THE WORLD AND NO ONE TO CALL YOUR OWN?
Probably---otherwise we wouldn't be here--right? Welcome to Mingle Lonely Hearts Club! You are not alone here.

Rusty_Knight's photo
Fri 07/29/11 08:11 PM

DO YOU KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO BE LONELY , TO WAKE UP AND FIND YOURSELF ALL ALONE IN THE WORLD AND NO ONE TO CALL YOUR OWN?


certainly... that's why I joined dating sites. I started to feel alone even in a roomful of friends.

BUT... you will soon find out that you are NOT alone *here*.

Many, many fine people here to laugh with, cry with, and even occasionally butt heads with. (and I'm fairly new as well)

Welcome to Mingle2 and the forums... cheer up and dive in

:banana: it's partay time!!!

mightymoe's photo
Fri 07/29/11 08:58 PM


DO YOU KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO BE LONELY , TO WAKE UP AND FIND YOURSELF ALL ALONE IN THE WORLD AND NO ONE TO CALL YOUR OWN?
Probably---otherwise we wouldn't be here--right? Welcome to Mingle Lonely Hearts Club! You are not alone here.


I thought it was Sargent Peppers Lonely Hearts club band? it's certainly a thrill...

kre8karma's photo
Sat 07/30/11 11:30 AM



DO YOU KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO BE LONELY , TO WAKE UP AND FIND YOURSELF ALL ALONE IN THE WORLD AND NO ONE TO CALL YOUR OWN?
Probably---otherwise we wouldn't be here--right? Welcome to Mingle Lonely Hearts Club! You are not alone here.


I thought it was Sargent Peppers Lonely Hearts club band? it's certainly a thrill...
Oh yeah, there's that too.:tongue: It's wonderful to be here.............. by the way, the OP deactivated already- note to self---don't become too attached to Mingle-ites.

kre8karma's photo
Sat 07/30/11 11:30 AM



DO YOU KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO BE LONELY , TO WAKE UP AND FIND YOURSELF ALL ALONE IN THE WORLD AND NO ONE TO CALL YOUR OWN?
Probably---otherwise we wouldn't be here--right? Welcome to Mingle Lonely Hearts Club! You are not alone here.


I thought it was Sargent Peppers Lonely Hearts club band? it's certainly a thrill...
Oh yeah, there's that too.:tongue: It's wonderful to be here.............. by the way, the OP deactivated already- note to self---don't become too attached to Mingle-ites.

Teditis's photo
Sat 07/30/11 12:45 PM
haha... you are a quick learner!!
waving

kre8karma's photo
Sat 07/30/11 07:03 PM

haha... you are a quick learner!!
waving
Hi Ted: Yep. I have excellent teachers, it would appear.

pennyg281's photo
Sun 07/31/11 04:24 AM
welcome to mingle. keep active in the forums makes some friends. it helps the long lonely nights.