Whats up with people who join dating sites to date , but then never get past being pen pals? If I wanted a pen pal on a dating site, i would go back to summer camp! Every time I try to get any further, I get a cryptic message that i am supposed to figure out. I suppose the answer is slapping me in the face. This dating site stuff is not for me. Any thoughts?

I've actually met people from this site. You'll get a lot of people that don't really want to meet as well though.

I do have OL friends as well, but if I had the opportunity, I would definetly meet them in RL. My OL friends are not only from this site, but other unrelated sites as well.

people are people so why should it be you and i should get along so awfully so we're different colours and we're different creeds and different people have different needs it's obvious you hate me though i've done nothing wrong i've never ever met you so what could i have done i can't understand what makes a man hate another man help me understand now you're punching and you're kicking and you're shouting at me i'm relying on your common decency so far it hasn't surfaced but i'm sure it exists it just takes a while to travel from your head to your fists