Topic: Background checks
ybcat1's photo
Thu 07/14/11 10:12 AM
Edited by ybcat1 on Thu 07/14/11 10:15 AM
Would you do a background check on someone you were dating or in a relationship with?

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 07/14/11 10:13 AM
no

capri01's photo
Thu 07/14/11 10:36 AM
quicker then you could ask the question lol

drinker

no photo
Thu 07/14/11 10:47 AM
How do you do a background check? and does it show anything useful?

Totage's photo
Thu 07/14/11 11:13 AM

Would you do a background check on someone you were dating or in a relationship with?


No, but they've been done on me. I don't hide it from them. I don't brag about it either though.

Totage's photo
Thu 07/14/11 11:16 AM

How do you do a background check? and does it show anything useful?


Depends on what's on your record. You can look up public records of anyone for free. You just have to look them up in every state, city, and county they have ever lived in. You can also pay for a report.

Dict8's photo
Thu 07/14/11 11:17 AM
I think a psychological profile would actually be more beneficial.....

:tongue:

Teditis's photo
Thu 07/14/11 11:24 AM
Depends on how good or bad your own intuition is.
But I'd say if you feel the need for all that on a chat site... just keep it to chattin'.
If they ask for your financials or home address... run.

no photo
Thu 07/14/11 11:33 AM
No, not unless something about them made me feel suspicious. Good that we can do it for free. There's a well-known uk newspaper that harmed a lot of people doing that. So i'm cautious about whether it's acceptable.

ybcat1's photo
Thu 07/14/11 12:58 PM
A gf of mine recently did one on a man she has been seeing for over 2 two years, found out he had previous DV reports and a felony. It explained a lot of his ways in which he acted towards her. Old habits hadn't changed.

ybcat1's photo
Thu 07/14/11 01:23 PM


A gf of mine recently did one on a man she has been seeing for over 2 two years, found out he had previous DV reports and a felony. It explained a lot of his ways in which he acted towards her. Old habits hadn't changed.


whats a dv report?


Sorry, Domestic Violence.

EquusDancer's photo
Thu 07/14/11 01:53 PM
I'd be inclined to anymore. I really should have done it with the one long-term relationship. Found out later most of his stories were BS, including his military stuff.

amaraii's photo
Thu 07/14/11 06:28 PM
Only if I'm gonna marry the guy. With dating and relationships, I just stick to my instincts, and dump him the moment I feel something suspicious is going on. My instincts are pretty good.

RKISIT's photo
Thu 07/14/11 06:37 PM
just make sure you check they are in the background before doing one.just sayin