When it comes to a relationship, if you had to choose between the two options below, which would be your preference and why?

A.To love?

B.To be loved?

was a time i would say to be loved...
all about me, what i want

over time i've seen the reward of
loving others much more rewarding

to love

One without the other seems senseless to me... idk.

I want both or none.

Sine this is just hypothetical, have fun with it and play
along

Sorry, I have to agree with the guys ... either one is bad. I've loved when I wasn't loved in return; it's horrible. To be in a relationship where you're loved without returning love would be equally terrible.

So I choose all or nothing.

To love and not be loved is not love, and to be loved and not love is not love. Love is two ways, not one.

I agree with Tedi and Snuff

LOL I think most would agree, it’s all or nothing, but I purposely left out the "C" option just to add a degree of difficulty.

Cheers

I pick answer D

we can't love without expecting something in return?
well, that just isn't real love then is it?
love has no expectations
love makes no demands


i guess in my other post i was thinking more of a generic love
for the higher good sort of thing, than a love/romantic kind of way.

Me too

Can't have one without the other.

Both..

why?

This is completely wrong. I was once in love with my Japanese tutor but she told me she was just using me to "fulfill her needs". I loved her and she didn't love me "though at one point before she knew I loved her she thought she loved me" it was all very complicated. Moving across the country is what saved me from almost a year of repeating heartbreak lol.

Thus I would just to be loved over loving if I can only choose one. Its easier to be the heart breaker than the heart broken.

Have you people read the forum rules? http://mingle2.com/topic/show/249138

Please do, we will not tolerate bashing of other members. I will be removing some of these comments.

Thread locked for cleaning.

Guys, please do keep it civil. Thanks, Mark

OMG my thread had to be cleaned! LOL

Thank you Mark!

Not sure what I missed....dang!!!!


I want to give and get love just like I want to give it. If thier love is anything less than the equal that is what you will give.....it is a one sided love.



We all require all the aspects of love.

(I am confused at how anyone could turn the original topic into a fight????????)

lol stranger things have happened no doubt, I'm just glad we're back on track Yiiiipppeeeeee!!!!!!!