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Topic: BEEN HURT BY A UNFAIR MAN?
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Fri 07/15/11 11:06 PM
noway :angry: YES,,,he was having sex with a woman I was engaged to,,and he knew that......but GUESS WHAT?
IF a dude can do that with HER,,,then WHO DOES SHE REALLY HAVE THERE BETWEEN HER LEGGS,,,,,a DIK-HEAD ONLY,,,and no heart of life to live,,,so DID I LOSE,,,,,NO,,,,DID HE,,,,,YES...
IS HE A UNFAIR MAN,,,YOU DAMN BETCHA,,,,but DO I CARE,,NO!

we move forward and look past,,,,what we didn't do..or make happen.

Good luck knowing EVERY DUDE,,IS NOT an azzzzz hole...and time will get you through this..:heart:

Tatilove's photo
Fri 07/15/11 11:17 PM
We've all been hurt by someone. The best thing to do is learn from the experience and better arm ourselves later. Everything is a learning experience really. I've learn to never give a second chance to a cheater.
Like I said, we learn from every experience.

irishrose1987's photo
Fri 07/15/11 11:27 PM
im been hurt by the same person twice and each time forgave her

actionlynx's photo
Sat 07/16/11 12:46 AM

Yeah having a relationship with a unfair man/woman sucks and it hurts like hell but we all need to know that in life there's no "perfect person" therefore there's no "perfect relationship" too. Everybody got hurt by their own imperfect attitudes toward each other. It's better to look for a person who's willing change for you and for the sake of a better relationship... bigsmile oops scared


P.S.
First you need to look into and ask yourself the same thing "am I a fair person?" cause the changes start from ourselves. If you don't start to be a "unfair person" he/she wouldn't be unfair to you as well.:banana: We do need to consider that in every actions there's always a reason behind.


Damn, you wise for your age. Very well said.

After checking your profile, I can't tell if you are from the Phils or China though. I had an ex-gf from the Phils who had a similar look, and I had to ask her about it. Turned out her region had a European-Japanese-Filipino mix. Saw pics of her father and grandmother....Dad looked European/Filipino while grandma looked Japanese/Filipino. If I had to hazard a guess, I would say you are a Filipina with a similar mix. Maybe I'm wrong?

I only checked because you were a new face...

Chrispm84's photo
Sat 07/16/11 12:48 AM
Nope... Been hurt by many unfair women... Does that count? frustrated

nObOdys_wiFe_JM's photo
Sat 07/16/11 12:52 PM
Edited by nObOdys_wiFe_JM on Sat 07/16/11 12:55 PM

nObOdys_wiFe_JM's photo
Sat 07/16/11 12:54 PM


Yeah having a relationship with a unfair man/woman sucks and it hurts like hell but we all need to know that in life there's no "perfect person" therefore there's no "perfect relationship" too. Everybody got hurt by their own imperfect attitudes toward each other. It's better to look for a person who's willing change for you and for the sake of a better relationship... bigsmile oops scared


P.S.
First you need to look into and ask yourself the same thing "am I a fair person?" cause the changes start from ourselves. If you don't start to be a "unfair person" he/she wouldn't be unfair to you as well.:banana: We do need to consider that in every actions there's always a reason behind.


Damn, you wise for your age. Very well said.

After checking your profile, I can't tell if you are from the Phils or China though. I had an ex-gf from the Phils who had a similar look, and I had to ask her about it. Turned out her region had a European-Japanese-Filipino mix. Saw pics of her father and grandmother....Dad looked European/Filipino while grandma looked Japanese/Filipino. If I had to hazard a guess, I would say you are a Filipina with a similar mix. Maybe I'm wrong?

I only checked because you were a new face...





Thanks actionlynx.. It is all base on experienced and of course with an observation and gathering info helps a lot too. Basically you just need to fill the 2 "W" (why & what) and then move on.

Yes I am mix actionlynx but only with spanish blood from both mother and father side. And you are correct I'm new here actually I'm already a member here since last year or 2 years ago I can't remember but I wasn't that active like now.wink

nObOdys_wiFe_JM's photo
Sat 07/16/11 12:56 PM

Nope... Been hurt by many unfair women... Does that count? frustrated


of course it does waving

Chrispm84's photo
Tue 07/19/11 11:32 PM


Nope... Been hurt by many unfair women... Does that count? frustrated


of course it does waving


Lol, I don't know why... But, I'm getting the feeling that you're somebody's wife... Don't know why, lol.

nObOdys_wiFe_JM's photo
Wed 07/20/11 11:20 AM



Nope... Been hurt by many unfair women... Does that count? frustrated


of course it does waving


Lol, I don't know why... But, I'm getting the feeling that you're somebody's wife... Don't know why, lol.


haha! I'm getting there Chrispm84 ^____^ any way, I'm not in a hurry though

misty_57's photo
Wed 07/20/11 11:36 AM
I had an unfair man who took the piece of birthday cake that had the big flower on it and I wanted it! rant grumble

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