I sometimes wonder how good those who worry about such things are themself,,,

what they are basically saying is 'I know thats the best he/she is gonna ever be, because this is the best IM ever gonna be, therefore this is how it will always be together and we are incompatible'

I know I have learned ALOT from when I was first sexually active to now and Im much BETTER than that first time and still improving

What makes people see sex as such a stagnant and unchangable variable, I will never understand

its a skill, it can improve if there is effort and interest

i believe anything condemed by bible is condem by God and anything condemed by God is not right.

ehhhh man let's share individual veiw and not continetal veiw ,this what can make us one here.

ehhhh man let's share individual veiw and not continetal veiw ,this what can make us one here.

It's a personal decision. My mother was one of those people who told me when I was getting older, "Honey, you can do drugs, drink, anything you want. But you must accept the consequences."

Having this told to me basically made me think of when I finally DID it, I'd thought it over, and such, and it was a personal decision. I did it for love, and when the relationship dissolved, I didn't regret it.

As for marriage, I think the religious aspect of it is getting out of hand. Thousands of dollars poured into a wedding ceremony, dress, food, blah blah.

As for me? Potluck for my wedding.

I been lookin for a driver who is qualified...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=up7pvPqNkuU

If we are not machines why does my gf call me a sex machine?

In the ideal world I think it's best to wait till someone comes along thats decent and loving. If I could turn the clock back I would have waited till mariage.

you were made by frigginmachines dotcom?

SO-----THATS HOW THAT STARTED!!!!!!


we seemed to have had rather BIG OUT-BREAK OF THAT HERE,,back in the 60's to present!!!!



Its SOOOOOOOOOOOooooooooooo VERY WRONG,,,
but feels SOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooo,,,very RIGHT!


Personally after what I have been through WITH THIS, in my life.

I WILL STAND BEFORE GOD ON MY JUDGEMENT DAY,,and HE SHALL KNOW MY HEART AT THAT TIME OR AT THE TIMES THAT I FELL WEAK TO DO THIS!

And I am GOOD WITH HIM and ME...

IF a woman wanted me to wait,,because we were ALL THAT,,it would depend on that length of spam,,for me to KNOW if coud or would be good,,,,lol,,with trying to wait,,WE ALL ARE only HUMAN.

But,,I would except her thoughts,,as to my own,,

BUT TO BE REAL HERE,,,,,and very honest,,,I would have to have a great sense of HER sensuality,and sexuality,,,and ALSO,,,toknow she is very much a woman and with no hang-ups with having sex?

With THAT said,,,,many areas of life can be exposed w/o really getting into sex as in making love,,,,it would be MUCH,,in how she feels and believes and IF,,she was wanting to share life with me or not,,I am not as good a person as I should be when it comes down to DOING the right thing,,,at that time,,,,and I KNOW THIS,, but it doesn't make me less a Christian,,,just a weak Christian,,,,lol

lovely hindsight....

That really great i appreciate you guies

May be u r having sex with just MOTIONS & not EMOTIONS (JK)
Thats the major difference in man & machine

I'm not gonna post such a private answer on here.

WOuld you buy a house without living in it first?

which means it should be after marriage, I love that man.