Can you ever date a guy from africa,if yes/no what are reasons so that others can learn from you

I guess I could, but I'm not really interested.

Supremekizz...very few can overcome the various obstacles of trying to start and maintain any type of relationship with the main one being in different countries. I, personally, wouldn't, but it wouldn't have anything to do with race, if that's what you're asking?

aw c'mon, give em a chance

be nice

i actually know a guy that was a student here in oregon
that was from nigera and his dream was to become a film director
and guess what hes doing that now
he didnt scam anyone to get where he was going

"Can you date or marry a guy from africa"

no, no i can't!

I agree . . but i wound not date someone who lived outside the united states. I want someone i can be with spend time with do things with. long distance relationships just dont work for me.

So, this guy only starts topics asking questions that might allow him to learn what people are looking for. And then, he doesn't bother to share his own views at all???

SCAM!!!

(Trust me, dude. In the words of Jack Palance in "City Slickers"....I crap things bigger than you.)

Hands up those who are Christian? Now, what is it they say about judging?

Not everyone from Africa is out to scam you.

Not that i, in any way, shape or form, give a damn.

I asked simply because i want to know the level of racism outside the country towards africa.Because we african we love strangers.If this topics i raised was to be given to an africa man about dating an america,you will see the way they will answer it with love an respect.But most of you guies have showed me and made me belive that you guies still believe in racism which is very bad.Am a structural desiner i have a job that am doing so why will i do such a thing.Who are you to judge me when you don't know me are you God? please am only tring to be friendly with you guies that all,please don't make me feel rejected i beg of you.Please you guies should stop giving bad imprenssions about me or my country.there are also good people like you guies here in africa thanks i love you all.

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If he were living in the same state and I had feelings for him, I would. If not I'd be willing to be his friend. But if he didn't live anywhere near me, I wouldn't, because I just don't want a long distance relationship.

it has nothing to do with racism
for i was not brought up to be that way
it has to be where your from
for many and including me have been confronted by a few online not on here but on messenger and they have tried to scam
i know a few that were scammed
so this site is our 2nd family and we tend to try and stick together and protect one another

Also it is not racism because you said from Africa. That is your nationality not your race. Any race can be born in Africa. In fact lots of South Africans are of European decent. You are asking about strictly from Africa so you are asking about nationality. I think the answers are pretty clear. If the two people are not living in the same country then its a no. I am sure if you asked the same people about another country that they didn't live in the answer would be the same.

thats because you have not given it a trial.Me i have not either but i intend to give it a trial ,because i have passion for white ladies i respect them alot.Their is this thing about them that i really love that is why i want to give it a trial,but guies here are mistaking me for somthing else and it makes me feel rejected,in a corpole of week if thing didnt work out i will just accept my fate and leave everything for God.Thank for your nice comments you have given me the corrage to move on thanks alot

thats because you have not given it a trial.Me i have not either but i intend to give it a trial ,because i have passion for white ladies i respect them alot.Their is this thing about them that i really love that is why i want to give it a trial,but guies here are mistaking me for somthing else and it makes me feel rejected,in a corpole of week if thing didnt work out i will just accept my fate and leave everything for God.Thank for your nice comments you have given me the corrage to move on thanks alot

I have absolutely no interest being in a relationship with someone who lives on another continent.

Dude because they don't need to. If they want to date someone of African decent they can do it in their own country. There are Africans in America, Canada, Europe, Australia, etc. They don't need to date someone from Africa to experience that. Also there are white people in Africa. Ever tried dating them?

I have dealt with a lot of scammers myself. They have been from England, France, and Belgium....Ghana, Nigeria, and South Africa....and some from China and Australia. The vast bulk are from Ghana and Nigeria. They ask for things like laptops which they can sell for good money. They are in a hurry to get married, just so they can get into the U.S. They give sob stories of how they were scammed, and now all they cannot access their money because it is locked away in a securities house. I have talked with scammers just to learn how they act. I have waited until they tipped their hand, revealing their scam.

I have also known a number of Africans - in person. Malawi, Ivory Coast, Ghana, South Africa, and Kenya. I met all of them in the U.S. My own cousin was actually born in Kenya. Generally, the Africans I have met here are good people. However, online....well, there are many who try to use that to get you to trust them for their scam.

My mother was a human resources director for a home nursing business. Many Africans came to her looking for jobs. I would hear both the good stories and the bad. Sometimes an ex-bf or ex-husband would stalk an African woman over the phone, asking for personal information which the company was not allowed to divulge. He was looking for money from the woman because he viewed her as his property like a slave.

What it boils down to is, if you cannot meet an African in person here in the U.S., then you just do not trust them. Visiting them in Africa really isn't an option. If it's a scam and you go to visit, then you may not return....or you may be stuck in a country where money cannot be wired from the U.S. after you are robbed of all your cash.

It has nothing to do with race. It's about protecting oneself. The burden of proof is upon you to prove you are not one of the scammers. That is why I posted what I did previously, and which the moderators deleted. We have reason to be distrustful, and your words and actions, until confronted by this, only fit the mold of a scammer looking for a few new tricks. Now the subject has been broached. It's up to you (or anyone else from Nigeria) to prove they are trustworthy....and that can be mighty tough to do online.