Topic: The Dreaded Stalker
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Fri 06/17/11 10:31 AM

I have had a stalker & NO its not easy at all to get rid of them.

Blocked phone numbers & they figure out how to get at you from another number.

Change number they come to my home, around the corner or what not.
Traded in my car for a different model...he saw it sneaking into my garage and came back with a knife thinking there was another mans car in my garage!

I live on a main street and he has alot of friends and family all whom I have completely cut ties with, yet they always report back to him on any changes to my house. If there are any lights on, if there is a car parked out front etc....

Restraining orders are hard to get unless there has been a direct threat or actual violence. HE said she said doesnt work here. And like I said, he can stalk through other people.

The only thing that made it stop was him finding someone else to bother.

If the economy wasnt so horrible, I would have sold my house long ago and been long gone out of this county.

But, PLEASE dont ever minimize the victim of stalking. You have been fortunate enough not to have been vicimized. That is great...but dont think it is an easy thing to rid your life of. Its not!


Why was he so paranoid, and angry?

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Fri 06/17/11 10:55 AM


I could use some new ones. Maybe I'll start taking applications.














You Really have some great ones, Loving it!!:laughing:

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Fri 06/17/11 10:59 AM


I could use some new ones. Maybe I'll start taking applications.















There needs to be a clause about doing my laundry.


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Fri 06/17/11 11:01 AM



I could use some new ones. Maybe I'll start taking applications.















There needs to be a clause about doing my laundry.




okay.agreed..:wink: :tongue: :banana:

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Fri 06/17/11 11:03 AM

I have had a stalker & NO its not easy at all to get rid of them.

Blocked phone numbers & they figure out how to get at you from another number.

Change number they come to my home, around the corner or what not.
Traded in my car for a different model...he saw it sneaking into my garage and came back with a knife thinking there was another mans car in my garage!

I live on a main street and he has alot of friends and family all whom I have completely cut ties with, yet they always report back to him on any changes to my house. If there are any lights on, if there is a car parked out front etc....

Restraining orders are hard to get unless there has been a direct threat or actual violence. HE said she said doesnt work here. And like I said, he can stalk through other people.

The only thing that made it stop was him finding someone else to bother.

If the economy wasnt so horrible, I would have sold my house long ago and been long gone out of this county.

But, PLEASE dont ever minimize the victim of stalking. You have been fortunate enough not to have been vicimized. That is great...but dont think it is an easy thing to rid your life of. Its not!

I know what you say here. I had to do some of the ugliest things that I've ever done to just HOPE that she would go away, nope?? Even tried the reverse psychology thing(where you are really into them too) all that did was make her miss me. Sometimes IT really isn't love but some infatuation with the sex or something, but they all need to get a life of their own.

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Fri 06/17/11 11:15 AM
i want one,she can give me rides to the store so i can save on gas,we can cuddle outside by my truck after she's done using shoe polish to write "i want you" on my windshield,hell just think of the ego and self esteem boost you can get from someone who wants you so bad.oh my and the gifts too.

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Fri 06/17/11 01:04 PM









OOOHH Can I borrow this one?

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Fri 06/17/11 01:12 PM

i want one,she can give me rides to the store so i can save on gas,we can cuddle outside by my truck after she's done using shoe polish to write "i want you" on my windshield,hell just think of the ego and self esteem boost you can get from someone who wants you so bad.oh my and the gifts too.


RKISIT, Is that all it takes, Springhill isn;t THAT big you know.
noway laugh laugh laugh

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Fri 06/17/11 01:36 PM
Stalkers are easy to get rid of, little garden lime and lots of trash bags.

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Fri 06/17/11 01:38 PM

Stalkers are easy to get rid of, little garden lime and lots of trash bags.



garden limesurprised

and I went through all the trouble of cutting mine up in pieces, and boilingslaphead

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Fri 06/17/11 01:39 PM

We all hate them, so why are there so many? I really don't get what people get out of stalking someone? frustrated
However it is always fun to hear stories of your stalker Experiences. I'm not sure if mine is done yet, so I'll let you tell me about yours first.
Have funpitchfork


Yeah, there are some disturbing fetishes out there.

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Fri 06/17/11 01:40 PM
laugh I was only joking..noway rofl

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Fri 06/17/11 02:01 PM
Here I come @2kids laugh ..,jk

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Fri 06/17/11 02:36 PM


I have had a stalker & NO its not easy at all to get rid of them.

Blocked phone numbers & they figure out how to get at you from another number.

Change number they come to my home, around the corner or what not.
Traded in my car for a different model...he saw it sneaking into my garage and came back with a knife thinking there was another mans car in my garage!

I live on a main street and he has alot of friends and family all whom I have completely cut ties with, yet they always report back to him on any changes to my house. If there are any lights on, if there is a car parked out front etc....

Restraining orders are hard to get unless there has been a direct threat or actual violence. HE said she said doesnt work here. And like I said, he can stalk through other people.

The only thing that made it stop was him finding someone else to bother.

If the economy wasnt so horrible, I would have sold my house long ago and been long gone out of this county.

But, PLEASE dont ever minimize the victim of stalking. You have been fortunate enough not to have been vicimized. That is great...but dont think it is an easy thing to rid your life of. Its not!


Why was he so paranoid, and angry?


I dunno, you would have to ask him.

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Fri 06/17/11 02:44 PM



I have had a stalker & NO its not easy at all to get rid of them.

Blocked phone numbers & they figure out how to get at you from another number.

Change number they come to my home, around the corner or what not.
Traded in my car for a different model...he saw it sneaking into my garage and came back with a knife thinking there was another mans car in my garage!

I live on a main street and he has alot of friends and family all whom I have completely cut ties with, yet they always report back to him on any changes to my house. If there are any lights on, if there is a car parked out front etc....

Restraining orders are hard to get unless there has been a direct threat or actual violence. HE said she said doesnt work here. And like I said, he can stalk through other people.

The only thing that made it stop was him finding someone else to bother.

If the economy wasnt so horrible, I would have sold my house long ago and been long gone out of this county.

But, PLEASE dont ever minimize the victim of stalking. You have been fortunate enough not to have been vicimized. That is great...but dont think it is an easy thing to rid your life of. Its not!


Why was he so paranoid, and angry?


I dunno, you would have to ask him.


Since that's impossible, I'm going to take a wild guess.

1. He's a guy, you're a girl.

2. He'd like to think you're his.

3. This did not come to fruitation, so the obsession began.

4. Instead of punching him on the nose, you hid away from him.

5. He ran a riot around you. Like an indian around a camp fire.

:)

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Fri 06/17/11 05:32 PM


I had a real life stalker once.
He died, it's really weird when your stalker dies....

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Fri 06/17/11 05:35 PM



I had a real life stalker once.
He died, it's really weird when your stalker dies....


The one that used to bully me at school is dead.

It does feel odd...

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Sat 06/18/11 12:39 AM

Here I come @2kids laugh ..,jk

I do so hope you're kidding. That is exactly what my stalker would sayscared sad tears devil noway embarassed explode huh frustrated what surprised slaphead ill

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Sat 06/18/11 12:41 AM



I had a real life stalker once.
He died, it's really weird when your stalker dies....

think drinks rofl

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Sat 06/18/11 12:49 AM
The weird part is that I truly don't think I'm stalking material?! I'll never put all my effort into a first night ever again.:banana: