Topic: Friend requests.
thewaterbearer's photo
Sun 06/12/11 07:11 PM
If I know people here in the forums than yes, I will send a friends request or accept one, now outside the forums, no I won't, and as for facebook, all my friends that are here in the forums are over there so its all good, but I have to know who they are first.happy

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Sun 06/12/11 07:12 PM

If I know people here in the forums than yes, I will send a friends request or accept one, now outside the forums, no I won't, and as for facebook, all my friends that are here in the forums are over there so its all good, but I have to know who they are first.happy


I've noticed lots of people from here on facebook adding everyone. It's fine if I know who they are and have actually chatted with them and gotten to know them outside of the forums. But I don't add anyone on facebook who I've never talked to outside of the forums.

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Sun 06/12/11 07:22 PM
:thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

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Sun 06/12/11 07:53 PM

huh I signed up yesterday and several hot young girls wanted to talk immediately, which threw up warning signs(see pic). they all wanted to IM on yahoo. yahoo wanted me to pay to talk to them. Do all the cuties work for vYahoo or what


No, but most of the scammers do!


EquusDancer's photo
Sun 06/12/11 07:58 PM
I ignore the friend invites here unless I know ya via emails or forums. Ditto with Facebook though I will add friends of friends if I've interacted on others pages. I go through every couple of months and clear out those who I haven't dealt with frequently on FB and remove them. Everyone on the FB are people I have met or would be willing to invite to my place, which says a lot right there. And one day, I hope to meet everyone on my friends list there.

burgundybry's photo
Sun 06/12/11 08:17 PM
Edited by burgundybry on Sun 06/12/11 08:19 PM

Well, I'm glad you guys are figuring this out cause I want to be my friend and my favorite. In fact I want a new category "my favorite friend". I don't come up on myself for myself anywhere. Why would I want somebody else to be my favorite when I clearly like myself better. I mean all of you are great and I love you but I still pick myself. Heck if I could pick myself as favorite friend I'd hardly be on the community at all cause I'd just be clicking away. Think about it. How many favorites friends do you have? 3762. Really who are they? Me. I'd be the most popular guy I know, to myself.


Hey Michael...I'm on my friends list!!smokin laugh :tongue:

I've also given myself testimonials...After all, I'm the greatest guy I knowsmokin smokin :laughing: (two of them, to be precise)

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Sun 06/12/11 08:24 PM
Edited by mg1959 on Sun 06/12/11 08:25 PM
That's what I need. I need a testimonial. I have to confess, at first I thought they did this to bulls, but then I did more research. I can have a testimonial also. Yes! That is what I need.


A testimonial

burgundybry's photo
Sun 06/12/11 08:26 PM

That's what I need. I need a testimonial. I have to confess, at first I thought they did this to bulls, but then I did more research. I can have a testimonial also. Yes! That is what I need.


A testimonial



rofl rofl rofl

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Sun 06/12/11 08:31 PM
I think every guy on here should get one, or two. I have no more desires to move my hips and I can speak about myself at the same time. Try that women! Us guys have our testimonials.


freedom!

burgundybry's photo
Sun 06/12/11 08:34 PM

I think every guy on here should get one, or two. I have no more desires to move my hips and I can speak about myself at the same time. Try that women! Us guys have our testimonials.


freedom!


Bravo!!!!(Applaudes)...oooo, that reminds me, I'm about overdue to give myself another testimonial...I've been slacking.

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Sun 06/12/11 08:37 PM
Don't worry I've seen in done on PBS and I'm sure with practice you can give yourself one.

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Sun 06/12/11 08:38 PM
I never accept friend requests from someone i haven't known for at least a time. If i've never spoken with a person, why would i want to call them "friend"?

If the friend request includes a yahoo addy, or msn, or any other venue of contact, then please copy and paste it on the report user link, or mail me the user name.

If the user turns out to be legit, then no harm, no foul.

Have a pleasant evening, everyone. :smile:

Mark

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Sun 06/12/11 08:40 PM
Yeah, but come on Mark, your secretly dying to make us friends aren't you?

Ankit5025's photo
Wed 08/22/12 10:11 PM
hi dear please add me. plz it is a request

Ankit5025's photo
Wed 08/22/12 10:12 PM
hi please send me request dear. plz

oldhippie1952's photo
Wed 08/22/12 10:17 PM
I get friend requests out of the blue too. Never seen them post so I turn them down, hate to seem cold or anything. But post in the forums some so I can "know" you.

pyxxie13's photo
Thu 08/23/12 03:57 PM
Them blind friend requests...
Obviously they have no clue what a friend really is.

killerblueyes's photo
Thu 08/23/12 04:27 PM
Like myself, I came onto this site in error, and have found it pretty interesting. I have numerous friends online who I talk to frequently, and just feel that this is another way to meet people. Can have some interesting chats.

justme659's photo
Thu 08/23/12 05:16 PM
Edited by justme659 on Thu 08/23/12 05:17 PM
I have been favorited, friend requested and nudged by people that do not write even a quick howdy do. They all get ignored. I have not been on here much lately AND I am in stealth mode, so it probably says I have not been on in over a month. But when the moon is full and the planets are lined up like a pool shot then I get an email. Whoot whoot. It shows up in my other email address that I got mail. As long as they are respectfull I will answer. So I guess the moral of my long winded rambling is just WRITE TO THE FOLKS YOU ARE INTERESTED in already! If they do not respond within a week, move on with your life.

Friend requesting, nudging or other such stuff, without follow up email is like ringing the doorbell and running.

Kahurangi's photo
Thu 08/23/12 06:46 PM
I've got 5 friends on my friend list....3 of whom i've chatted to briefly. The other 2 i've only interacted with here in the forums, so i don't know why they bothered with the request at all *shrugs*