Do you think it is ok for a believer to be in a relationship with someone who is not? What are some of the ways one can end this relationship? All ideas are welcome...thank you...

why not if is hot

Just my opinion.

As long as you both respect each others belief's... and not try to make them change who they are

I had a lot of issues with my ex husband, because of my belief's.

He was raised Lutheran, and walked away from the church, like many do.
I was raised with no religion, and became a Christian at 25.

Since he hated everything to do with the subject and did not respect how I felt, there was a wall built between us that never came down.

I would suggest that you sit and discuss this issue "completely"

in terms of labels, I think we can often mislabel others and even ourself, so I wouldnt look so much at ones religious 'label' as how they carry themself

I dont think it 'wise' to be unevenly yoked,
but, in rare cases, you may find an individual who can completely put aside their 'value system' while they are with you,,,

I wouldnt risk it, but I dont think I would say its impossible to do or 'wrong'

Yes, god will understand.

Hi lyndahnmt,

Thank you for sharing your cares with us. I don't consider myself a relationship expert at all.
But at a glance I can see that you are presently in a relationship with a "non-believer"
since you asked if we thought it ok for a "believer" to be in relationship
with someone who is not.

And I believe it is safe to assume that he is Muslim (the title of your post).

Seems you already have decided that it must end or someone else has advised you to end it.

I pray that you are not going through any physical or mental threat.

But if you are then that would be reason in itself to end it.

And if the contrast of it all is very frustrating and you see no resolution
to your differences...then...

Assuming you are hoping to marry...
I'd say...The Lord would have you in a peaceful relationship with a mate...
never start a relationship knowing there are serious differences that may affect your worship,
& possibly your freedom and the rearing of your children.

"ways to end it"?

I don't mean to sound dramatic...but...

Let your family know what you are going through and if you feel threatened
you should take legal action and make yourself scarce.

Hopefully, he can handle a simple goodbye?

Lovingly in Christ,
CeriseRose

If you choose to follow one path I don't think it would be wise to be with someone who chooses to follow another path. If you choose to end the relationship, what's wrong with being honest?

God also understands rape and murder, but that doesn't mean we should go out and do those things. My point is just because we want to do something, and God may understand does not make it OK necessarily. The Bible even cautions to be careful of how close you get to non-believers.

1 Corinthians 7:10-16
New King James Version (NKJV)


10 Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. 11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.
12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her. 13 And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace. 16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?

Yeah, that's what I meant.

Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers.

Lord I pray that you will see Lynda safely through this trial into a place of peace.. And may her departure be an eye opener to the young man she is having a hard time leaving behind. Lord nothing is impossible for you, You can penetrate the most callous of hearts and turn even the worlds worse sinner into a man after your own heart. May it be done Father. These things I pray in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazereth...

Welcome to the Mingle2 Christian Singles Forum, buck0524!

Thank you for sharing your blessings today.

You do realize that islam and judiasm were the first real orginized religions that provided the foundations of christanity correct?
Have you throughly read the Quar'an, or even any of the orthodox scriptures? If you have, you'll notice that the christan bible has many of the same stories, but excluded and changed many passages of god's word. Which is what god expressly stated NOT to do.
Remember, we're all just critters to him, it's not a competition.

Light nd darkness has nothin in common, whoever does not belive in Jesus is in darkness!

lyda why a non-believer or muslim.l have been reading all da comments frm all over well thats fine.but why a christian and muslim.put two dogs together a white and a black dog.a white dog has changed to do good thngs and a black dog does knw what is good or bad,u cant change it to be white.now its ur future u can ruine it or make.no matter what u never change da heart of muslim to be christian.u will regret it my frind.it be like a pain in da blood.remember gods words are true.forget about him and move on.darkness and light will never be one.bt da problem with u ladies u a quickly taken by evil thng satan easyly decieve eve by sweet words changing da words to be his l hate muslim with their belief.beware

lyda why a non-believer or muslim.l have been reading all da comments frm all over well thats fine.but why a christian and muslim.put two dogs together a white and a black dog.a white dog has changed to do good thngs and a black dog does knw what is good or bad,u cant change it to be white.now its ur future u can ruine it or make.no matter what u never change da heart of muslim to be christian.u will regret it my frind.it be like a pain in da blood.remember gods words are true.forget about him and move on.darkness and light will never be one.bt da problem with u ladies u a quickly taken by evil thng satan easyly decieve eve by sweet words changing da words to be his l hate muslim with their belief.beware

I suppose I might consider this following scripture in making your decision.

2nd Corinthians 6:14-18

v14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
v15 And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
v 16 And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
v17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,
v18 And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.

This scripture does not apply at all... the very first four words state ...v10 "Now to the married..."

This woman is not married to this Muslim man.

The correct scripture for this occassion is 2nd Cor. 6:14...

I v heard of a muslim broda who bcos he likes one xtian sista,he went 2 join her church,2 caught d story short afta mariage,he bound d sista neva 2go 2 church all d days of her lif,dat is hw d girls xtianity dies,so if u lik ur soul,ur salvation nd heavenly contious dont do it.tnx