Goodie :) How are you feeling about it now? Still the same? Or no?

While you're both single, now would be a good opportunity. As you'd probably regret not telling her if she was already with someone. I know it seems so black or white, or glass half full and glass half empty. At least you told her. You should be proud of that. As there's nothing worse than a man who can't just be upfront about his feelings. I bet you felt a weight off your shoulders. The tension leaving. I know i did when i told a guy in the past. Lol

I'm not sure I totally follow what you're saying here. Maybe I'm missing something but can you elaborate a little? Do you mean me telling her I don't know what is up or what?


Sorry again, dude xD. I was a little tired. All i meant was some men are too worried about their pride, to let a woman know how they really feel, so are women, not all. I was saying that you should be proud that you were brave enough to tell her. It takes a lot of courage. You did a good thing there :)

what about just waiting until ya meet in person...
don't put expectations out there
stay open to all possibilities
be grateful the universe has sent this
wonderful person into your life

everything will fall into place as it should

I am trying to be as patient as I can, but for someone who tends to wear their heart on their sleeve, it is hard. I think she is coming around a little bit to what we have more, we've had a few talks about it some yet, and the last time when I asked her if she wanted to try this, she said not yet, which would indicate eventually she will be willing to give it a shot I am thinking, just now isn't the time yet.

She's also remarked about the idea of taking breaks from talking (which actually led to the conversation in which she said not yet when asked if she wanted to give this a shot), but then said she didn't think she could stay away very long, that she'd miss me too much. Also has said that if we stopped talking, she'd probably cry. So......for what that may be worth.

I think really the one thing standing in the way is not having met yet, that's the last step really in this I think. Once that happens we'll know for certain what we have even more than we do now.

Whatever happens though, I know one thing. No other girl has EVER given me the feeling I have with her. To where, no matter what, I still love her. No one.

I really have a feeling this may well be it for me based on that. But shall see.

Oh i remember this. Yeah. Can we possibly get an update on what happened between you both, OP? A year later. So, how did it all pan out? :)