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Topic: Question for the Ladies
Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 05/30/11 08:36 PM
And never....ever....start off with, "Hi! I have huge penis and balls, and....". Only Brad Pitt can get away with that kind of intro.

Holly4459 Joined Sun 06/29/08 Posts: 34785	Mon 05/30/11 08:42 PM
When it comes to the initial message from someone, let's say NOT someone you've talked to in the forums and just someone who's read your profile and decided to write you a message, what sorts of things do you want to see in the message? . . . I burn all my messages- CIA wants it that way

indianadave4 Joined Wed 02/09/11 Posts: 1308	Tue 05/31/11 05:15 PM
When it comes to the initial message from someone, let's say NOT someone you've talked to in the forums and just someone who's read your profile and decided to write you a message, what sorts of things do you want to see in the message? . . . I burn all my messages- CIA wants it that way ... and just what secrets does Holly have to hide?

lori46 Joined Sun 08/16/09 Posts: 16	Tue 05/31/11 08:41 PM
I agree with sulema69.

74Drew Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 4901	Sat 06/04/11 09:59 PM
as i predicted, no response. it sux to be ignored, but i'm reminded of Thin Lizzy's "The Boys Are Back In Town". "If that chick don't wanna know forget her." . . .

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sun 06/05/11 12:36 AM
a simple 'Hi, my name is ........ I saw your profile and I really think we might have alot in common. Id love to chat with you a little more,,,,,' ,,something like that

ujGearhead Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 6612	Sun 06/05/11 01:13 AM
a simple 'Hi, my name is ........ I saw your profile and I really think we might have alot in common. Id love to chat with you a little more,,,,,' ,,something like that That 'form letter' actually works? I get that all the time on a couple of other sites where I have no pic and a basically nonexistant profile! Of course, I respond to ALMOST all mail, so who wants to start guessing what I say?

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sun 06/05/11 01:17 AM
a simple 'Hi, my name is ........ I saw your profile and I really think we might have alot in common. Id love to chat with you a little more,,,,,' ,,something like that That 'form letter' actually works? I get that all the time on a couple of other sites where I have no pic and a basically nonexistant profile! Of course, I respond to ALMOST all mail, so who wants to start guessing what I say? it works with me, if its followed with something indicating they actually READ my profile,, some mention of Robin Thicke , for example,,lol

Troublebug Joined Sat 09/11/10 Posts: 10911	Sun 06/05/11 05:05 PM
How about Hi, I read your profile and you seem like an _________(interesting, fascinatingm fun, etc.) person. I would love to get to know you better. (then mention something relevant to her profile) I look forward to hearing from you, Have a great day.

74Drew Joined Thu 01/22/09 Posts: 4901	Sun 06/05/11 05:11 PM
thanks for all of the useful info. i'll try to use it the next time i decide to attempt contact with the opposite gender. . . .

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 06/05/11 08:44 PM
And never....ever....start off with, "Hi! I have huge penis and balls, and....". Only Brad Pitt can get away with that kind of intro. huh? what ??? u never told us about any of this B4???

2kool2be4gotten Joined Fri 06/03/11 Posts: 55	Tue 06/07/11 05:29 PM
When it comes to the initial message from someone, let's say NOT someone you've talked to in the forums and just someone who's read your profile and decided to write you a message, what sorts of things do you want to see in the message? . . . I like to know that the read my profile And a sense of humor is good

axl_rose40 Joined Mon 08/30/10 Posts: 868	Thu 06/09/11 09:21 AM
When it comes to the initial message from someone, let's say NOT someone you've talked to in the forums and just someone who's read your profile and decided to write you a message, what sorts of things do you want to see in the message? . . . I'd like to see that he really took in consideration what I wrote in my profile. And the reason why he got interested in sending me a message.

misty_57 Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 1618	Thu 06/09/11 09:23 AM
When it comes to the initial message from someone, let's say NOT someone you've talked to in the forums and just someone who's read your profile and decided to write you a message, what sorts of things do you want to see in the message? . . . Not the one I just got that's for sure! Subject: ???? Would you want to?

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Fri 06/10/11 11:14 AM
That we have stuff in common

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Fri 06/10/11 11:16 AM
Or that they genuinly mean what they're saying

RacineGal Joined Sat 03/05/11 Posts: 12	Fri 06/10/11 05:33 PM
as i predicted, no response. it sux to be ignored, but i'm reminded of Thin Lizzy's "The Boys Are Back In Town". "If that chick don't wanna know forget her." . . . I get "no Replies" all the time. We are grown ups here, we all should at least reply no thanks or sorry not interested. I am sick of no replies!!!