really. I thought that means you've been freind zoned???? now all u have done is confuse me

^^This.

Also, if he goes the extra mile to make you feel special, like by figuring out the things you love, actually sending you letters by snail mail, or little things he'd make just for you.

He makes the effort to be with you despite any odds.

GREAT ANSWER!! I agree. When you being happy is as important or more important to him than his own happiness.

there is actually a fair amount of truth here....

When he is being totally respectful. And he is giving hints

When he never stops staring at you....


But then again- that could be lust...

And thats a bad thing? Sometimes lust turns into love. BUT then again sometimes lust turns into stalking too.

or how bout when he sees only you, even when he's not looking.

i think it's in the question, if you have to ask it, it's not there yet.

I do that alot, but most of the time I'm just admiring her beauty. If it was all love, then I'd say I love every Girl in the world ^_^

(That's a lot of hunnies to see too )

I don't know the answer to this one?

It always seems to happen to both at the dame time.

A felling ...... Unspoken

Which part? The listening or smacking?

A woman can tell his man loves her when the man treats her so extra special -- he makes her feel so cared about, he makes things for her that he doesn't usually do to others, he can't help but sigh when he stares at her longingly, he whispers 'I love you' to her during lovemaking in such a way she hasn't heard it from someone else, he can't seem to get enough of her when he hugs her, always tries to please her in whatever small thing that pleases her... oh great! those are the indications that make me feel my man loves me. But then, different strokes for different folks.

...the look across the room, the unconscious brush of his fingertips across my shoulder, his soft sweet smile.....the glow in his eyes, the rumble of his pleasure deep in his chest....the wonderment of his own surprise at how deeply he feels connected...

the moments that stretch for hours, and were only ten tics on the clock...


I know he loves the him that he sees in me, and I know that he loves the me that he sees....the Who, not the What.

I know he loves me....it's in the thoughtfulness of his vision....even in the peripheral..

Rose,,this was truly vividly felt as though,,you also do this in return,,and THAT is a balanced Harmony of true love in this mans thoughts,,YOUR man in this world,,is very lucky to have found you,,,,Be forever Blessed,,,

Okay I'm done being silly now to answer this with a bit more seriousness.

When I love a woman she is the first thing I think of in the morning and the last thing on my mind when I go to sleep.

you r the only one in the room he has eyes for. period.

(chat room, thread or real room- any room)

if he's chasin skirt even a little bit - he don't


this is the only thing in all my experience that I tell u ladies is 100% tell tale every time

so accept nothing less

I like that answer & and I think it's universal for women too.....

I`m in lust with (((bastet)))

I`m in lust with (((Rosemarie)))

Because they both love my camel toe.

Could be that they both love my Led Zeppelin avatars too.

Or do they "lust" after me too?

Terry, these are really the things I love from a loving man and is more than willing to give back the same to express my love. May you find the same love your heart desires, my friend