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Topic: Every Mistake, We Must Surely Be Learning....
Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 05/26/11 07:03 PM


@winterblue


Were all a work in progress....I guess things would be too easy if we learned the very first time, be nice though. I've gotten better with using intuition, if my gut tells me, I listen. Took a long time to trust it though. Doesn't stop my trials from coming, has helped with handling them.

I enjoy the input, we can all learn from each other, what a gift that is for us... most don't examine their lives at all, just whine about it. Not to make light of people's problems, just watch so many get caught up in the victim mentality forgetting that there may just be some grand reason why they are experiencing what they are experiencing...no accidents.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts flowerforyou

I try to listen too but sometimes my heart gets in the way of my gut slaphead .






well, I don't know...I'm an emotional thinker myself, rarely use my head these days. The heart and the gut work together, I feel.
The heart tells me what to do, I meditate on that and the gut confirms. Sounds to me like your on the right track.

Jess642's photo
Thu 05/26/11 07:05 PM
My heart is fit to burst....my gut is fluttering....


and I can't hear either of them!


...but then, this is only a temporary insanity...cured in 20 minutes when he arrives.:wink:

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 05/26/11 07:08 PM

My heart is fit to burst....my gut is fluttering....


and I can't hear either of them!


...but then, this is only a temporary insanity...cured in 20 minutes when he arrives.:wink:


20 minutes???????

getting butterflies with you!!! : )

winterblue56's photo
Fri 05/27/11 08:07 AM

My heart is fit to burst....my gut is fluttering....


and I can't hear either of them!


...but then, this is only a temporary insanity...cured in 20 minutes when he arrives.:wink:


Awww...Lucky Girl :wink:

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Fri 05/27/11 08:49 AM
Sometimes, The learning curve is a steep one... I've learned valuable lessons from my MANY mistakes. The more you have going on, the more you are exposed to domino-ed effect of your mistakes. I'm at a point in my life where I'm unsure... of myself and my actions for fear of disrupting the flow of goodness I'm enjoying lately.
I have LOTS going on so it's only natural for things to go sideways sometimes. I taper my expectations and I accept the results.

I dream of the day my dumbass decisions won't affect my co-workers, friends and loved ones.(huge sigh)

winterblue56's photo
Sat 05/28/11 09:26 AM



@winterblue


Were all a work in progress....I guess things would be too easy if we learned the very first time, be nice though. I've gotten better with using intuition, if my gut tells me, I listen. Took a long time to trust it though. Doesn't stop my trials from coming, has helped with handling them.

I enjoy the input, we can all learn from each other, what a gift that is for us... most don't examine their lives at all, just whine about it. Not to make light of people's problems, just watch so many get caught up in the victim mentality forgetting that there may just be some grand reason why they are experiencing what they are experiencing...no accidents.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts flowerforyou

I try to listen too but sometimes my heart gets in the way of my gut slaphead .






yes and that is why when someone says "why did she/he do that? all the signs were there!"

I think, for me at least, it's because I do not care for assumptions and prejudice...so I let each new beginning be.... to unfold...waiting for the signs (if they are anything negative) to be wrong

I know this will work in my favor someday

but it prolly sounds crazylaugh


It doesn't sound crazy at all. That is how I am also. Each relationship is a new beginning happy

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 05/30/11 09:20 AM

Sometimes, The learning curve is a steep one... I've learned valuable lessons from my MANY mistakes. The more you have going on, the more you are exposed to domino-ed effect of your mistakes. I'm at a point in my life where I'm unsure... of myself and my actions for fear of disrupting the flow of goodness I'm enjoying lately.
I have LOTS going on so it's only natural for things to go sideways sometimes. I taper my expectations and I accept the results.

I dream of the day my dumbass decisions won't affect my co-workers, friends and loved ones.(huge sigh)


I've found the learning curve to be steep all the time...

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Mon 05/30/11 09:27 AM


Sometimes, The learning curve is a steep one... I've learned valuable lessons from my MANY mistakes. The more you have going on, the more you are exposed to domino-ed effect of your mistakes. I'm at a point in my life where I'm unsure... of myself and my actions for fear of disrupting the flow of goodness I'm enjoying lately.
I have LOTS going on so it's only natural for things to go sideways sometimes. I taper my expectations and I accept the results.

I dream of the day my dumbass decisions won't affect my co-workers, friends and loved ones.(huge sigh)


I've found the learning curve to be steep all the time...


True! BUT

Learning from others mistakes has a way of smoothing out paths as well

Ladylid2012's photo
Mon 05/30/11 09:30 AM



Sometimes, The learning curve is a steep one... I've learned valuable lessons from my MANY mistakes. The more you have going on, the more you are exposed to domino-ed effect of your mistakes. I'm at a point in my life where I'm unsure... of myself and my actions for fear of disrupting the flow of goodness I'm enjoying lately.
I have LOTS going on so it's only natural for things to go sideways sometimes. I taper my expectations and I accept the results.

I dream of the day my dumbass decisions won't affect my co-workers, friends and loved ones.(huge sigh)


I've found the learning curve to be steep all the time...


True! BUT

Learning from others mistakes has a way of smoothing out paths as well


yeah, i never was very good at learning that way....ohwell

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