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Topic: the joy of attention whores!
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Sun 05/22/11 04:06 PM

I am doing absolutely nothing to inspire the drama. I don't call him, don't see him & don't post on his FB page which is the reason for the recent drama. I don't wanna argue with him or explain anything because to me, that is causing more drama. Wasn't complaining here...simply amused by his efforts to annoy me!


bask in your self confidence girl!! it's funny to hear how he's stumbling over himself at losing you. flowerforyou

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Sun 05/22/11 04:09 PM
Have you tried deleting him from FB. Making your profile a bit more private? I know of am ex like that too. Ignored it for some time and it went away. At least from my experience.

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Sun 05/22/11 04:17 PM

Have you tried deleting him from FB. Making your profile a bit more private? I know of am ex like that too. Ignored it for some time and it went away. At least from my experience.


yeah...I just blocked him and took his sisters off my friends list as well! I even told him last weekend on the phone that if he kept the chit up I was gonna just stop all contact. He never did listen well!

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Sun 05/22/11 05:48 PM


Have you tried deleting him from FB. Making your profile a bit more private? I know of am ex like that too. Ignored it for some time and it went away. At least from my experience.


yeah...I just blocked him and took his sisters off my friends list as well! I even told him last weekend on the phone that if he kept the chit up I was gonna just stop all contact. He never did listen well!


You have to be a little more honest, and a little more brutal.

If he sends you emails, then don't read them. Just delete them.

You have blocked him from facebook, that's great :)

I am just a little confused.

He is your ex, but are you two friends as well?

If he's your friend, then it's going to be difficult for you both. I can tell you don't hate him (or at least, not completely).

If you don't want any further contact with him. Then you must say goodbye properly to him. Tell him how you feel, and that you are sure you will be fine, without anymore of his supportive friendship. Tell him there will be no futher contact from you (Make sure you stick to your word). And you are wanting to move on and your life is going in a new direction. Wish him well.

After that, you have just ended your friendship. He will get the picture or at least should. Make sure you don't read any futher, messages and just delete them.

But if he really isn't your friend, then the cold shoulder is fine :)

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Sun 05/22/11 06:14 PM
fireflys he sounds kinda like my ex, lives off the drama. I say unfriend him, and break all ties, if he can;t behave and wants to act like a child.

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Sun 05/22/11 06:21 PM

fireflys he sounds kinda like my ex, lives off the drama. I say unfriend him, and break all ties, if he can;t behave and wants to act like a child.


You read my mind trouble! I do still care for him as a friend, but I feel that he will never move on if we stay in contact.

Thanks mrbiscuit! He was a good friend to me & he knows how I feel. We have discussed it already, he just isn't able to let go & move on so I need to be the mature one & give him no choice!

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