Some women pose as men, but they are frightened by the prospect of coming out of the closet. Female homosexuality is just as rampant as male, but there are 20 times more male homosexuals on count. Despite AIDS. This means that more than 96 percent of gay women can't live out their true desires.

Women are less adventurous, generally speaking, than men, so they are less likely to risk being a social outcast. So they stay being housewives, or spinsters, and frigid ones at that. The husband is going bonkers, and he beats the kids a lot. Meanwhile, his wife is not frigid, but gay. She knows that too, but she'd first die before she'd let anyone know.

While it is true that in our North American societies being gay is not a great stigma, but it is still not the norm, so people shy away from openly admitting to it, since it comes with social handicaps. Not big or grave handicaps, but indelible, constant, heavy handicaps.

Sometimes the sent of desperation leaks through even the LCDs of the interweb.

There's a really huge leap of faith from chatting online to face to face meeting.

Especially if there has been 'embellishment' of one's finer points...selling one's self too high....pretty difficult to walk your talk if you are not who you said you are.

Perhaps there are many who project themselves to be something they WISH they were, but in reality are not, so for them to share face to face space is a set up for them falling flat on theirs.

People too, can hide behind laziness, safe in their own home, pretending to be a superhero, on the stage of the internet, but unwilling to step out into the harsh light of day, knowing they will be less.


be you, be discerning, attach little to the internet time, listen to the words behind the words, and ask the questions....set a time limit...3 emails move to phone calls...3 phone calls move to coffee on a sunday afternoon.


or....NEXT.

you were dupped!!....brb going to pick up the russian girl that i paid for at the airport...............j/k