well, being only 25 and not having dated as much as some people. Still I could write a pretty good book about who I dated.

I still ask myself 'why?' and I can't figure it out.

But I would love to be in love again. Even thoug hme falling in love takes time after meeting the person.

i'll take true love for a thousand alex

I've said it once I'll say it again...

I don't wanna just find someone I can live with...
I wanna find the one I can't live without... and if I have to die trying, so be it...

I'm not settling for anything less!

Sounds crazy, I'm in my late to mid 20's, and never been on a so called real date, never had fun and everything every body else here or off of here has done.

I did however have my first kiss once, I wish I didn't but that was a long time ago and it meant noting then and just looking to move on and hopefully sooner or later find somebody that I really want to have fun with go to music events, window shop, stay at home watch tv etc, go for a long or short drive, whatever.

singingmyheartout sounds like close to what I would like to find.

Sometimes you wish for it, you pray for it, you even try little things to see if it works.

Other times you see how bad it can get and you don;t want it.

When I finaly find the one that I will grow old with, I will be there for the good and the bad. I don't care if when we get old we both loose our hair. I will find mer.

I dunno. Good friends and people to talk to are all I've had for quite a while. It's not so bad. Those long winter nights do get a bit lonely though.

Hi Harry

Nice new pic

Thanks Sherrie

It's not often that I wear a tie. Weddings and funerals. Last weekend was a wedding(the pic) and this week it's a funeral.

oh dear ((((Harry))))

my condolences

Thanks Sherrie

It's funny how short I look standing next to my baby brother. I'm over 6' tall!

One day I will ahve my happily ever after... though I pride myself on NOT being a princess. Kissing frogs sucks ass... and I think the fact that they have stayed frogs might have something to do with the fact that I am NOT a princess... LOL.

I used to be all depressed and sulky about being alone and unloved...
And then I realized that in order to be loved, I had to first love myself (seriously, guys... it sounds cliche, but it's true). So I decided to be he person who I wanted to be, regardless of what other people thought. So far so good.

I'm a pretty deep person. I scare most people because I tell you how it is... without the sugar coating. Love can mean many things to many different people...

I think my biggest problem is finding a guy that can keep up with me... not be intimidated by me... and put up with my crap (not drama... but just me being in control of my life and me being determined not to settle)... stuff like that seems to scare guys away... not to mention my kids... who will always be the loves of my life... it's an awkward thing to accept... especially for guys my age who have no kids.

Lol... although, I'm so lucky that this other site I'm on, the 45-50 year olds send me messages... is this where life's headed? That more guys old enough to be my father than guys my age are interested? (it seriously makes me shiver with disgust).

I was thinking that guy must be really tall or you 'stretched' the size of inches when you said 6 feet on your profile.

singingmyheartout, damn your 27 too. and you get people 40 - 50 wanting to date you, dang.

I'm 27, never had any body like that yet, I don't think I would either, want to hear from any body that old.

singingmyheartout you have the right idea.. You GO Girl!!!! I'll be your cheerleader!! Don't settle for less than you deserve!!


I'd definitely love to find that special person I can't live without and who can't live without me. I seem to be finding only horny old men who want to jump my bones on the first date. NO WAY!!! I have much more self-respect than that and if it means spending the rest of my life alone, so be it. I like myself and I'm good company.

The horrible part is the pics they post of themselves look like poloroids from the 1980's all fuzzy and pixelated...

Come on buddy... who you trying to kid?

Lol....

I think heartache is essential to a well-rounded life. It makes us appreciate love... but it also in a sense lets us know that we are alive. Good and bad emotions go hand-in-hand.

You'll never find the perfect relationship. You'll disagree, you'll argue... you'll love and laugh... the key is to never let the flame die... and to always WANT to work at it.

I'm at a point where I don't NEED a guy... my life will continue on in an existence that is comfortable...

but I truly believe that while "LOVE ISN'T THE REASON FOR LIFE, BUT IT MAKES THE RIDE WORTHWHILE"....

We all need to be loved and to give love... it is human nature... but stick it out guys and gals... I've never had a decent relationship... but I know someday I will... and you will too... ya just gotta have a little faith and a lotta patience! :)