I've never contacted someone first by asking them where they were from or what they were doing. I always read profiles. If there's nothing there, very little there, no or unclear pictures, I just pass them by. If I'm going to contact them first, there needs to be something in their profile for me to be able to comment on.

Your profile doesn't tell much about you. You say you're happy with who you are, yet you don't really tell much at all about who you are. Write more about yourself, what you like and enjoy and what you're looking for. Give the people who are looking at your profile a reason to contact you.