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Topic: would u date someone with cancer?
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Sat 05/07/11 08:00 PM
What if u knew someone had stage 4 cancer would u take the risk of dating them and falling in love knowing that there maybe a very good chance they are going to die sooner then later?

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Sat 05/07/11 08:03 PM
we r all gonna die sooner or later

so yes

most relationships end at some point - why not enrich your life rather than run away from it

think of how much you could learn from this

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Sat 05/07/11 08:07 PM
hard part is that i am his nurse. We had a mild disagreement so now he is backing away cuz hes afraid its going to be weird when he come in for chemo. The problem is that i am just scared and have realized how much i care for him yet i tend to push people away i care for. So now he is doubting things even though we both know how great we are together and our feelings are so strong.

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Sat 05/07/11 08:10 PM

hard part is that i am his nurse. We had a mild disagreement so now he is backing away cuz hes afraid its going to be weird when he come in for chemo. The problem is that i am just scared and have realized how much i care for him yet i tend to push people away i care for. So now he is doubting things even though we both know how great we are together and our feelings are so strong.


mild disagreements are human - sounds like u guys r OK to me

why do u push those away that u care for?

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Sat 05/07/11 08:13 PM

hard part is that i am his nurse. We had a mild disagreement so now he is backing away cuz hes afraid its going to be weird when he come in for chemo. The problem is that i am just scared and have realized how much i care for him yet i tend to push people away i care for. So now he is doubting things even though we both know how great we are together and our feelings are so strong.



it not any differnt from
someone like me that has kidney dialysis
for i have came across many that dont know how to deal or want to deal with my health issue


it sounds like you need to give him some space
for there is alot of confusion where he scared if he lets things go longer he may feel your going to reject him
he doesnt want to die in your arms

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Sat 05/07/11 08:18 PM
I'm not sure, like i told him tonight, i am not used to someone truely caring about me the way he does. So now he feels he needs to take steps backwards and not sure about things. The hard part is that we both have such strong feelings and its so obvious to us and others around us how much we care for each other. So now i feel i screwed up something good just cuz i was having a few bad days. Not sure how to get it across to him that its not an everyday thing. Any ideas?

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Sat 05/07/11 08:26 PM

I'm not sure, like i told him tonight, i am not used to someone truely caring about me the way he does. So now he feels he needs to take steps backwards and not sure about things. The hard part is that we both have such strong feelings and its so obvious to us and others around us how much we care for each other. So now i feel i screwed up something good just cuz i was having a few bad days. Not sure how to get it across to him that its not an everyday thing. Any ideas?


sex?

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Sat 05/07/11 08:29 PM
We have know each other for about 9months. Just crossed that line a few weeks ago. NO to the sex part yet but the attraction is so there. Sweet girl i tried emailing u but i;m blocked.

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Sat 05/07/11 08:32 PM

We have know each other for about 9months. Just crossed that line a few weeks ago. NO to the sex part yet but the attraction is so there. Sweet girl i tried emailing u but i;m blocked.
ok I will msg u wait a sec

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Sat 05/07/11 08:33 PM

What if u knew someone had stage 4 cancer would u take the risk of dating them and falling in love knowing that there maybe a very good chance they are going to die sooner then later?


For you to ask this question...tells me that it's probably not a good idea to date him.
The love of my life just died from stage 4 cancer...and yes in my arms Queene. If I had it to do over again...I would in a heart beat..why? Because he was the best thing that ever happened to me.
Is my heart breaking now? Of course it is "Big Time" Yet he showed me that no matter how long we have on this earth? The kind of love we shared was priceless. flowerforyou

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Sat 05/07/11 08:36 PM


We have know each other for about 9months. Just crossed that line a few weeks ago. NO to the sex part yet but the attraction is so there. Sweet girl i tried emailing u but i;m blocked.
ok I will msg u wait a sec


I can't msg u either

we're both set up for MEN ONLYlaugh

and that's a good thing!!!! laugh

dolphin14's photo
Sat 05/07/11 08:36 PM


What if u knew someone had stage 4 cancer would u take the risk of dating them and falling in love knowing that there maybe a very good chance they are going to die sooner then later?


For you to ask this question...tells me that it's probably not a good idea to date him.
The love of my life just died from stage 4 cancer...and yes in my arms Queene. If I had it to do over again...I would in a heart beat..why? Because he was the best thing that ever happened to me.
Is my heart breaking now? Of course it is "Big Time" Yet he showed me that no matter how long we have on this earth? The kind of love we shared was priceless. flowerforyou


Its not that, it is just a question what others would do. I know how i feel about him. I feel its better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all. To see him u would never know he's sick. All i know is that when i am with him how good i feel with him and don't want to lose him over stupid stuff i do. Life is too short.

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Sat 05/07/11 08:37 PM



We have know each other for about 9months. Just crossed that line a few weeks ago. NO to the sex part yet but the attraction is so there. Sweet girl i tried emailing u but i;m blocked.
ok I will msg u wait a sec


I can't msg u either

we're both set up for MEN ONLYlaugh

and that's a good thing!!!! laugh


ok let me change my setting for u lol

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Sat 05/07/11 08:42 PM



What if u knew someone had stage 4 cancer would u take the risk of dating them and falling in love knowing that there maybe a very good chance they are going to die sooner then later?


For you to ask this question...tells me that it's probably not a good idea to date him.
The love of my life just died from stage 4 cancer...and yes in my arms Queene. If I had it to do over again...I would in a heart beat..why? Because he was the best thing that ever happened to me.
Is my heart breaking now? Of course it is "Big Time" Yet he showed me that no matter how long we have on this earth? The kind of love we shared was priceless. flowerforyou


Its not that, it is just a question what others would do. I know how i feel about him. I feel its better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all. To see him u would never know he's sick. All i know is that when i am with him how good i feel with him and don't want to lose him over stupid stuff i do. Life is too short.


then that is all that matters

the biggest mistake in life u can make is to let love get away


I always ask myself- what is it that u really want - is it him? than OK do what is needed to be with HIM...so I would take those steps - whether or not they involve intimacy and yes, that is ur private business

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Sat 05/07/11 08:47 PM

What if u knew someone had stage 4 cancer would u take the risk of dating them and falling in love knowing that there maybe a very good chance they are going to die sooner then later?
i already have in the past:) its the heart that matters first when you love someone it comes from the heart of both people not if a person is sick with cancer people can get cancer anytime time any age and my answer is 100% yes i would and would stay with them no matter what if we both were in love ,you don't judge a person by their cancer thats so sad have a beautiful day cheers

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Sat 05/07/11 08:48 PM




What if u knew someone had stage 4 cancer would u take the risk of dating them and falling in love knowing that there maybe a very good chance they are going to die sooner then later?


For you to ask this question...tells me that it's probably not a good idea to date him.
The love of my life just died from stage 4 cancer...and yes in my arms Queene. If I had it to do over again...I would in a heart beat..why? Because he was the best thing that ever happened to me.
Is my heart breaking now? Of course it is "Big Time" Yet he showed me that no matter how long we have on this earth? The kind of love we shared was priceless. flowerforyou


Its not that, it is just a question what others would do. I know how i feel about him. I feel its better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all. To see him u would never know he's sick. All i know is that when i am with him how good i feel with him and don't want to lose him over stupid stuff i do. Life is too short.


then that is all that matters

the biggest mistake in life u can make is to let love get away


I always ask myself- what is it that u really want - is it him? than OK do what is needed to be with HIM...so I would take those steps - whether or not they involve intimacy and yes, that is ur private business


i changed my email settings i could really use to chat if u wouldn't mind.

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Sat 05/07/11 08:54 PM
oh yes! why not. because because that person will turn out to be a............ oh i cant explain but only feel it

Queene123's photo
Sat 05/07/11 09:02 PM


What if u knew someone had stage 4 cancer would u take the risk of dating them and falling in love knowing that there maybe a very good chance they are going to die sooner then later?


For you to ask this question...tells me that it's probably not a good idea to date him.
The love of my life just died from stage 4 cancer...and yes in my arms Queene. If I had it to do over again...I would in a heart beat..why? Because he was the best thing that ever happened to me.
Is my heart breaking now? Of course it is "Big Time" Yet he showed me that no matter how long we have on this earth? The kind of love we shared was priceless. flowerforyou


he showed you the world through his heart and soul
instead of giving diamonds

Cheer_up's photo
Sat 05/07/11 09:09 PM



What if u knew someone had stage 4 cancer would u take the risk of dating them and falling in love knowing that there maybe a very good chance they are going to die sooner then later?


For you to ask this question...tells me that it's probably not a good idea to date him.
The love of my life just died from stage 4 cancer...and yes in my arms Queene. If I had it to do over again...I would in a heart beat..why? Because he was the best thing that ever happened to me.
Is my heart breaking now? Of course it is "Big Time" Yet he showed me that no matter how long we have on this earth? The kind of love we shared was priceless. flowerforyou


he showed you the world through his heart and soul
instead of giving diamonds
100% agree never give up on a person due to health if a person gives up then they don't truly love them for all cause even when people marry its in sickness and health its for better or worse and works both ways and if anyone has a true heart and honestly cares stick with them till the end ,God bless Cheersflowerforyou

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Sat 05/07/11 09:25 PM





What if u knew someone had stage 4 cancer would u take the risk of dating them and falling in love knowing that there maybe a very good chance they are going to die sooner then later?


For you to ask this question...tells me that it's probably not a good idea to date him.
The love of my life just died from stage 4 cancer...and yes in my arms Queene. If I had it to do over again...I would in a heart beat..why? Because he was the best thing that ever happened to me.
Is my heart breaking now? Of course it is "Big Time" Yet he showed me that no matter how long we have on this earth? The kind of love we shared was priceless. flowerforyou


Its not that, it is just a question what others would do. I know how i feel about him. I feel its better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all. To see him u would never know he's sick. All i know is that when i am with him how good i feel with him and don't want to lose him over stupid stuff i do. Life is too short.


then that is all that matters

the biggest mistake in life u can make is to let love get away


I always ask myself- what is it that u really want - is it him? than OK do what is needed to be with HIM...so I would take those steps - whether or not they involve intimacy and yes, that is ur private business


i changed my email settings i could really use to chat if u wouldn't mind.


not a problem hold on a sec

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