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Totage, I don't understand why a person would be unhappy. If you are unhappy you will not have the ability to attract what you want in your life, and instead you will attract what you don't want. Joy is the natural state of your inner being because that is your connection to source. Don't worry, be happy. It is very important that you direct your attention to things that make you feel happy.  If there's nothing that makes you happy, what do you direct your attention to? |
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Edited by
josie68
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Tue 04/19/11 06:02 PM
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Happiness is a fairytale. Well, true happiness is. There are moments that I feel happy, but it's not a real feeling. It's kinda like my depression. I have constant suicidal urges, but I would never really kill myself, though I have seriously tried in the past. Totage, you are wonderful. I think we are probably at totally opposite ends of the scale. I find it easy to live in a fairytale happiness. I am not sure why some of us are born laughing and some are born struggling. but I guess the world would not survive if it was made up of just either of us. If the world was filled with people like me, there would be no reality, nothing would get done, we would probably have all died out long ago as I wouldnt see anything bad comeing and we would have all been eaten by dinosaurs that I tried to make friends with.. But if the world was made up of people like you, we would struggle as well, Maybe thats why so often people who are serious end up with people like me who see very little that is bad and if they do see it ignore it. I wish I could give you some happiness, cuase it is like you have a whole family of little things jumping around inside you that just make you want to bounce around and giggle with them... Yes I know I sound strange but I'm not, well maybe I am but i dont really care, I like it. Anyway I thinkyou are a special bloke, and love reading your posts. they make me happy,  except when you say you are not happy Ok somehow I quot4ed my own words, not sure how that happened |
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Edited by
Jeanniebean
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Tue 04/19/11 06:07 PM
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Totage, I don't understand why a person would be unhappy. If you are unhappy you will not have the ability to attract what you want in your life, and instead you will attract what you don't want. Joy is the natural state of your inner being because that is your connection to source. Don't worry, be happy. It is very important that you direct your attention to things that make you feel happy. If there's nothing that makes you happy, what do you direct your attention to? Any small thing or thought that makes you feel happy will attract another small thing or thought that will add to that and it will grow. It is important to feel good and to do things that help you to feel good. It is important to notice what you are feeling. Your emotions are your guidance system and if you follow the things that feel good and make you feel happy, you will discover your purpose in life. If you don't know what will make you feel good or be happy, then you need to say out loud: "I want to know what makes me happy. I want to know what I want." God will hear this prayer from your inner being and show you the way. When you see something that makes you feel bad, don't go there, and when you see something that causes you to feel better or good, that is where you should go. |
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Do you feel happy? What do you do to feel happy? What gets me through with a good attitude is that I appreciate all facets of living and when bad things happen I always remember it could be worse so it doesn't seem as bad. |
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Edited by
Totage
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Tue 04/19/11 06:27 PM
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Happiness is a fairytale. Well, true happiness is. There are moments that I feel happy, but it's not a real feeling. It's kinda like my depression. I have constant suicidal urges, but I would never really kill myself, though I have seriously tried in the past. Totage, you are wonderful. I think we are probably at totally opposite ends of the scale. I find it easy to live in a fairytale happiness. I am not sure why some of us are born laughing and some are born struggling. but I guess the world would not survive if it was made up of just either of us. If the world was filled with people like me, there would be no reality, nothing would get done, we would probably have all died out long ago as I wouldnt see anything bad comeing and we would have all been eaten by dinosaurs that I tried to make friends with.. But if the world was made up of people like you, we would struggle as well, Maybe thats why so often people who are serious end up with people like me who see very little that is bad and if they do see it ignore it. I wish I could give you some happiness, cuase it is like you have a whole family of little things jumping around inside you that just make you want to bounce around and giggle with them... Yes I know I sound strange but I'm not, well maybe I am but i dont really care, I like it. Anyway I thinkyou are a special bloke, and love reading your posts. they make me happy, except when you say you are not happy Ok somehow I quot4ed my own words, not sure how that happened I could definetly see myself falling for someone like you. Oh and the reason your post was quoted is because there was an open quote tag, that wasn't closed. lol |
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Happiness is a fairytale. Well, true happiness is. There are moments that I feel happy, but it's not a real feeling. It's kinda like my depression. I have constant suicidal urges, but I would never really kill myself, though I have seriously tried in the past. Totage, you are wonderful. I think we are probably at totally opposite ends of the scale. I find it easy to live in a fairytale happiness. I am not sure why some of us are born laughing and some are born struggling. but I guess the world would not survive if it was made up of just either of us. If the world was filled with people like me, there would be no reality, nothing would get done, we would probably have all died out long ago as I wouldnt see anything bad comeing and we would have all been eaten by dinosaurs that I tried to make friends with.. But if the world was made up of people like you, we would struggle as well, Maybe thats why so often people who are serious end up with people like me who see very little that is bad and if they do see it ignore it. I wish I could give you some happiness, cuase it is like you have a whole family of little things jumping around inside you that just make you want to bounce around and giggle with them... Yes I know I sound strange but I'm not, well maybe I am but i dont really care, I like it. Anyway I thinkyou are a special bloke, and love reading your posts. they make me happy, except when you say you are not happy Ok somehow I quot4ed my own words, not sure how that happened I could definetly see myself falling for someone like you. Oh and the reason your post was quoted is because there was an open quote tag, that wasn't closed. lol Yep you need someone, close to you , who lives in a fairy world and can take you there with her.. Now you need to change your profile page to looking for a fairy princess.  Then you see, someone like me will have to look, and then she can drive you crazy like I do anaconda.. I dont mean to do it, but I have to , For some reason it does work, if you both like the same things, but have differences that can balance each other out it's great. Just be preapared for her to come up with one crazy idea atfter another, and to just shake your head and smile, as there is nothing else that you can do. Your world will have no order, hmmm and if she is like me, anything that can go wrong will. So just shake you head, smile and fix it... |
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I am a happy person, in general. Sometimes I may feel frustrated in a traffic jam, overly tired at work, hungry, irritated when my children bicker, etc. But, overall, I am happy in spite of other emotions that may come through due to temporary circumstances.
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Totage, I don't understand why a person would be unhappy. If you are unhappy you will not have the ability to attract what you want in your life, and instead you will attract what you don't want. Joy is the natural state of your inner being because that is your connection to source. Don't worry, be happy. It is very important that you direct your attention to things that make you feel happy. If there's nothing that makes you happy, what do you direct your attention to? Surround yourself with happiness making things like funny movies, lots of light, feel good music, feel good movies or shows, learning to enjoy all the little gifts of life like the smell of the seasons in the air, the motion of the trees in the wind, the cuteness of the dog or cat down the street or up the block, finding laughter anywhere you can, etc... Right now I have been laughing my butt off watching Trump, he is a hoot.  But if you are not prone to that kind of humor, I watch Jim Carrey movies Liar Liar is hilarious as are all of the Pet Detective movies. And even if I don't laugh while I am watching them the environmental influence is infectious. When I was grieving I used to put the movies on repeat play and let them play while I slept and all during the day to ease that empty feeling in my heart. I made sure that I kept lights on. Also I wasn't hard on myself for how I felt, I gave myself a pass to be down with the agreement that I would make it short. I hope that helps. |
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Edited by
wux
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Tue 04/19/11 08:51 PM
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I am generally don't know.
Sometimes I am happy, sometimes I am not. I drink coffee, that makes me laugh. I listen to music, that makes me cry. I fall in love, I am happy. I don't "make" myself fall in love. I don't think that is possible for me. So the question to the second part is "nothing". I do nothing to myself to feel happy, coz it would be a futile endeavour. I am only happy when I am in love, and that can't be made to happen all by myself. I am happy when I get or write down a new insight, or when I write a story I really like, or when I crack a joke and it makes me laugh with the surprise of its point. |
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Edited by
wux
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Tue 04/19/11 08:53 PM
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Happy ^ . . . . . . . . Joyful . . . . . . . . Blissful . . . . . x . v Content I seem to hang around the x mostimes... If I hung arund the ex most times, I'd be defying court order. |
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Happy ^ . . . . . . . . Joyful . . . . . . . . Blissful . . . . . x . v Content I seem to hang around the x mostimes... If I hung arund the ex most times, I'd be defying court order.  If I hung around the ex I might be up for murder... NAH but I would sure like to kick his butt. Well only if he wasnt looking, and didnt know it was me.. Nah would probably hurt my foot or get it stuck..And I would hate having my foot stuck up his butt then I would be stuck with him again.  
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