hello all I'm new to all this, looking to chat with people

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I don't think I really believe in everyone having one soulmate.

For some reasons, I really thought my estranged husband was my soul mate. Turns out I was very much mistaken.

I married twice, I was 19 and wanted to have a wedding, no he was not my soul mate but we where great friends. still are friends.
My next husband I was 23 and wanted security, I didnt know him very well but was attracted to him, Nope that did not go well at all, but we where together for 15 years,

I have found my soul mate and I do believe in it as it is so completely different, and you really cant explain it, but it is like the person is a part of you, like you have known them forever and that they just know and understand you, Yep sounds wierd but you do know, and I will marry him very soon .