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Topic: Do you ever tire of complaints?
Totage's photo
Fri 04/15/11 05:23 PM
Tell her if money is such a problem, she should give it to you, and you'll suffer so she doesn't have to.

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Fri 04/15/11 05:24 PM
Edited by MisKim323 on Fri 04/15/11 05:26 PM

Tell her if money is such a problem, she should give it to you, and you'll suffer so she doesn't have to.
never thought of that!.....lol. I could sure use it...and the insurance.....lol

Her actual response was " I have earned the right to whine by busting my azz everyday at work and paying for insurance to go to the doctor!"noway

Jess642's photo
Fri 04/15/11 05:36 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Fri 04/15/11 05:39 PM


Tell her if money is such a problem, she should give it to you, and you'll suffer so she doesn't have to.
never thought of that!.....lol. I could sure use it...and the insurance.....lol

Her actual response was " I have earned the right to whine by busting my azz everyday at work and paying for insurance to go to the doctor!"noway



My response would have been to that...
" That will $250 an hour, or part thereof, paid to my account immediately, for your right to whinge to me"

"Go whine somewhere else, kid, before I bust your arse for you, for free."


and my neices know I would if they dare whined.

Totage's photo
Fri 04/15/11 05:37 PM
Good point. She could pay someone to listen to her whine.

It's not a right, it's a privilege.

Jess642's photo
Fri 04/15/11 05:41 PM
Yeah....but I don't play 'nice', Totage...


all my family know if they need genuine assistance of any kind I am here, and will do whatever I can to support them through their challenges...

...but it's delivered in a fairly straight forward, no hold's barred way.

Totage's photo
Fri 04/15/11 05:43 PM
That's why I love you Jess, that's my kind of people.

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Fri 04/15/11 05:46 PM



Tell her if money is such a problem, she should give it to you, and you'll suffer so she doesn't have to.
never thought of that!.....lol. I could sure use it...and the insurance.....lol

Her actual response was " I have earned the right to whine by busting my azz everyday at work and paying for insurance to go to the doctor!"noway



My response would have been to that...
" That will $250 an hour, or part thereof, paid to my account immediately, for your right to whinge to me"

"Go whine somewhere else, kid, before I bust your arse for you, for free."


and my neices know I would if they dare whined.
I took the easy way out...blocked her so I don't have to see it anymore :-)...if it weren't a daily thing, it would have been no big deal, but seems she's done this since she was little....32....time to mature and stop being so selfish...and be thankful that you have the life you have. I have struggled tremendously since I got laid of nearly 3 years ago...but I always kbnow that no matter how bad it gets...it could be worse...and for some...it is.

Totage's photo
Fri 04/15/11 05:48 PM
Sounds like you're actually the more sucessful one Kim.

Jess642's photo
Fri 04/15/11 05:52 PM
Edited by Jess642 on Fri 04/15/11 05:53 PM




Tell her if money is such a problem, she should give it to you, and you'll suffer so she doesn't have to.
never thought of that!.....lol. I could sure use it...and the insurance.....lol

Her actual response was " I have earned the right to whine by busting my azz everyday at work and paying for insurance to go to the doctor!"noway



My response would have been to that...
" That will $250 an hour, or part thereof, paid to my account immediately, for your right to whinge to me"

"Go whine somewhere else, kid, before I bust your arse for you, for free."


and my neices know I would if they dare whined.
I took the easy way out...blocked her so I don't have to see it anymore :-)...if it weren't a daily thing, it would have been no big deal, but seems she's done this since she was little....32....time to mature and stop being so selfish...and be thankful that you have the life you have. I have struggled tremendously since I got laid of nearly 3 years ago...but I always kbnow that no matter how bad it gets...it could be worse...and for some...it is.



Well done Kim....let her mother sort it out.

I do feel concern for so many of you over there...while I sit in my perfect little paradise, with a roof over our heads, food on the table, and the knowledge there will be another meal tomorrow, I have it easy.

I know so many are struggling....and although so many have always struggled...(theirs and their family's very safety is a constant concern)....to be living in a wealthy affluent country, and to have it taken away from you, by no fault of your own, is to feel vulnerable.

It's the ones who make the most of what they have, and continue to move forward, even if it is only inch by inch...that usually never complain.

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Fri 04/15/11 05:54 PM

Sounds like you're actually the more sucessful one Kim.
flowers maybe a more mature way of looking at things...but thank you:wink:

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Fri 04/15/11 05:59 PM





Tell her if money is such a problem, she should give it to you, and you'll suffer so she doesn't have to.
never thought of that!.....lol. I could sure use it...and the insurance.....lol

Her actual response was " I have earned the right to whine by busting my azz everyday at work and paying for insurance to go to the doctor!"noway



My response would have been to that...
" That will $250 an hour, or part thereof, paid to my account immediately, for your right to whinge to me"

"Go whine somewhere else, kid, before I bust your arse for you, for free."


and my neices know I would if they dare whined.
I took the easy way out...blocked her so I don't have to see it anymore :-)...if it weren't a daily thing, it would have been no big deal, but seems she's done this since she was little....32....time to mature and stop being so selfish...and be thankful that you have the life you have. I have struggled tremendously since I got laid of nearly 3 years ago...but I always kbnow that no matter how bad it gets...it could be worse...and for some...it is.



Well done Kim....let her mother sort it out.

I do feel concern for so many of you over there...while I sit in my perfect little paradise, with a roof over our heads, food on the table, and the knowledge there will be another meal tomorrow, I have it easy.

I know so many are struggling....and although so many have always struggled...(theirs and their family's very safety is a constant concern)....to be living in a wealthy affluent country, and to have it taken away from you, by no fault of your own, is to feel vulnerable.

It's the ones who make the most of what they have, and continue to move forward, even if it is only inch by inch...that usually never complain.
You are so sweet. We do have trouble right now, but it will get better someday as it has several times. We had 30,000 people put out of work in our city through General Motors...half our population...and then the trickle down went crazy. I sat here last night with nothing to eat in my house but pudding...as I ate it...I wondered how many out there would love to have some pudding to ease the hunger pangs. It's sad and frightening...but through it all, those that suffer most grow to appreciate every moment in life.

Jess642's photo
Fri 04/15/11 06:09 PM

You are so sweet. We do have trouble right now, but it will get better someday as it has several times. We had 30,000 people put out of work in our city through General Motors...half our population...and then the trickle down went crazy. I sat here last night with nothing to eat in my house but pudding...as I ate it...I wondered how many out there would love to have some pudding to ease the hunger pangs. It's sad and frightening...but through it all, those that suffer most grow to appreciate every moment in life.




...."but through it all, those that suffer most grow to appreciate every moment in life...."



What about today Kim?.....what do you eat today?...How do you eat today?

I don't know what your social welfare system looks like...so don't know how to help...

I can send money...which gets you a feed in what, a week?...and I can send you ten of my dollars, which gives you about twelve, of yours...what would that buy you?..is that a meal...or three?

What would $120 buy you?


F * ck Kim....what can I do, to help?





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Fri 04/15/11 06:11 PM





Tell her if money is such a problem, she should give it to you, and you'll suffer so she doesn't have to.
never thought of that!.....lol. I could sure use it...and the insurance.....lol

Her actual response was " I have earned the right to whine by busting my azz everyday at work and paying for insurance to go to the doctor!"noway



My response would have been to that...
" That will $250 an hour, or part thereof, paid to my account immediately, for your right to whinge to me"

"Go whine somewhere else, kid, before I bust your arse for you, for free."


and my neices know I would if they dare whined.
I took the easy way out...blocked her so I don't have to see it anymore :-)...if it weren't a daily thing, it would have been no big deal, but seems she's done this since she was little....32....time to mature and stop being so selfish...and be thankful that you have the life you have. I have struggled tremendously since I got laid of nearly 3 years ago...but I always kbnow that no matter how bad it gets...it could be worse...and for some...it is.



Well done Kim....let her mother sort it out.

I do feel concern for so many of you over there...while I sit in my perfect little paradise, with a roof over our heads, food on the table, and the knowledge there will be another meal tomorrow, I have it easy.

I know so many are struggling....and although so many have always struggled...(theirs and their family's very safety is a constant concern)....to be living in a wealthy affluent country, and to have it taken away from you, by no fault of your own, is to feel vulnerable.

It's the ones who make the most of what they have, and continue to move forward, even if it is only inch by inch...that usually never complain.


Yeh Jess our country is so very lucky and we just dont realise how lucky we are..

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Fri 04/15/11 06:25 PM


You are so sweet. We do have trouble right now, but it will get better someday as it has several times. We had 30,000 people put out of work in our city through General Motors...half our population...and then the trickle down went crazy. I sat here last night with nothing to eat in my house but pudding...as I ate it...I wondered how many out there would love to have some pudding to ease the hunger pangs. It's sad and frightening...but through it all, those that suffer most grow to appreciate every moment in life.




...."but through it all, those that suffer most grow to appreciate every moment in life...."



What about today Kim?.....what do you eat today?...How do you eat today?

I don't know what your social welfare system looks like...so don't know how to help...

I can send money...which gets you a feed in what, a week?...and I can send you ten of my dollars, which gives you about twelve, of yours...what would that buy you?..is that a meal...or three?

What would $120 buy you?


F * ck Kim....what can I do, to help?





You are sweet, kind and caring....that is more than enough. I do appreciate the concern, and the offer, but I am fine today. Just hit a little thin spot is all. I have had tougher times than these and may see more...but I have struggled all of my adult life, raising five kids alone, carrying hod to raise them sufficiently...and made it through, and I will get through this. God Bless you for being such a wonderful ladyflowers flowers flowers flowers

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