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Topic: frustrated!!!
shyprincess2062's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:04 PM
just this once i wish someone could keep their damn word is a few hours with my dad really that much to ask? whats wrong with parents these days its like their totally oblivious to the fact that when promises aren't kept our hearts are broken!sad

LibbyLu101's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:06 PM
Oh princess ((HUGS)) i feel your pain they just don't understand even if they say they do

cancer715's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:07 PM
I know sooo know what you mean! My parents do that to me all the time. So i've learned not to get excited for anything until i'm staring at it.

needagoodlaugh's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:07 PM
Sorry to hear it, shy. Hugs!!

bayliner1102's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:08 PM
Hey I'm a parent who cares about their kids

YeaBigsexy's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:09 PM
ummm!clears his throat..SORRY BABY GIRL.flowerforyou for you..:tongue:

joshyfox's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:09 PM
What happened to the days where a promise was a binding contract that you could count on... My parents rarely ever promised anything, because a Promise is supposed to mean something and when they did make a promise, they always kept it.

They taught me the value of honesty and reliability and I always believed everything they said because of it. Could they have been lying to me, sure, but if they did I never found out.

newtosatsuma's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:11 PM




Bay ...... So am I.

Shy I wish there was some words to say that would make it all better but I am at a loss for them and I do feel bad for you.flowerforyou

bayliner1102's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:13 PM
well shy.... when i promise my kids that im going to do something with them I do it my kids are my love and always will be, I just sorry I'm not your dad because you wouldn't be frustrated

bayliner1102's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:14 PM
I have 3 boys 32,29 and 13 and 3 grandkids

bayliner1102's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:15 PM
here in awhile im taking my son night fishing............. Try talking to your dad

cancer715's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:16 PM
wow bayliner... thats alot of promises to keep up with!!!

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Sat 07/07/07 05:17 PM
Hey Shy, that is a real rough one. Have you talked to yur dad about it? Perhaps he isn't aware how badly he hurt you! Try to keep it mellow and ask why.

bayliner1102's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:18 PM
well cancer my kids mean alot maybe that why I dont have a relationship with the opposite sex

bayliner1102's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:20 PM
Yes shy talk to him my dad promised to do something with me on my birthday when I was young and never did and it still is in my memory

shyprincess2062's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:22 PM
hes not my real dad hes a friend of my moms but still hes been like a father to me since 7th grade so im not sure if i have a right to be angry i mean hell the guy even called to check on my grades b4 i graduated...he sent me birthday and christmas cards because more often than not my real father was too damn drunk to remember!

cancer715's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:26 PM
well i'm glad you have been able to keep all your promises to your kids/grandkids. I'm sure they appreciate it and they'll remember it forever!

cancer715's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:27 PM
Shy just tell him how you feel. Once it's out in the open he'll see just how much you look forward to what he has promised and will then in return try harder to keep them.
Good luck!

bayliner1102's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:53 PM
Hey Shy he may not even know how you feel tell him he is more important to you than he thinks, he does sound like he's more of a dad than your real one and Shy tell him that everyone needs a dad. My dad is 83 and the other day he was using a walker to get around man did that bother me alot

bayliner1102's photo
Sat 07/07/07 05:53 PM
hey just got a call my son who is 29 is going to go fishing with us

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