Topic: Older men, younger women...
kissablekiss's photo
Wed 03/16/11 11:50 AM
Edited by kissablekiss on Wed 03/16/11 11:52 AM


Yes the saying goes 'Older Folks are more Experienced' but not older folks can make a decision pertaining to something they experienced ......yet my point is not all older folks are mature , can make snappy decision and still be on top of their game .....

just like how Younger people are seen as immature ...
Not that it matters what you think ,but am far from immature yet am young....




^^this...my exs mom runs around acting like a teenager! You can not plan anything that involves her or she will throw a big monkey wrench in it and either pitch a fit or start trying to guilt trip you when she doesn't get her way. She was in love with her landlord & got his initials tattooed on her neck, not to mention the tramp=stamp at age 55! This man would not even kiss her...WTF was she thinking? She tried treating me like I was one of her kids...that did not go over well since I am about 40 years more mature! This family thinks as long as you have spit out a couple of kids them you are grown, know it all, and get to rule the roost!
Well my point exactly , but having kids can change some people perspective on life ,some older folks are silly they think they are always right because they are older ....but your age doesn't determine the fact on how much you know .

no photo
Wed 03/16/11 12:02 PM
I love women of all ages and races and religions!! Age dont mean crap if the feelings are right and mutual!!!

indianadave4's photo
Wed 03/16/11 12:12 PM
Edited by indianadave4 on Wed 03/16/11 12:15 PM


....but your age doesn't determine the fact on how much you know .


True, however, just by living life and making mistakes one learns "something". The younger generation is exposed to more information and technology than any generation before them.

However, knowledge and wisdom are not the same. Knowledge is a compilation of facts where as wisdom is knowing how to use and interpret those facts correctly. Wisdom is something that comes with time. Trial and error.

amys_profile's photo
Wed 03/16/11 03:57 PM




i like older men


I like you in yer red & white dress!drool


thank you thats sweet

i also like your red and white dress


thank you too, i almost did not post that pic. :smile:

no photo
Wed 03/16/11 04:00 PM
Your picture makes me think of Diane Chambers. (You may be too young to know who that is).

no photo
Wed 03/16/11 04:04 PM
Edited by thor22 on Wed 03/16/11 04:06 PM





i like older men


I like you in yer red & white dress!drool


thank you thats sweet

i also like your red and white dress


thank you too, i almost did not post that pic. :smile:


all thats missing in that photo is me, and some suntan flavored nylons on yer lovely leggzdrool

amys_profile's photo
Wed 03/16/11 04:08 PM






i like older men


I like you in yer red & white dress!drool


thank you thats sweet

i also like your red and white dress


thank you too, i almost did not post that pic. :smile:


all thats missing in that photo is me, and some suntan flavored nylons on yer lovely leggzdrool



ty for the compliement

no photo
Wed 03/16/11 04:10 PM
Edited by thor22 on Wed 03/16/11 04:10 PM







i like older men


I like you in yer red & white dress!drool


thank you thats sweet

i also like your red and white dress


thank you too, i almost did not post that pic. :smile:


all thats missing in that photo is me, and some suntan flavored nylons on yer lovely leggzdrool



ty for the compliement


np...just rememberz next time that suntan, red, and white all look great together, hey

amys_profile's photo
Wed 03/16/11 04:12 PM








i like older men


I like you in yer red & white dress!drool


thank you thats sweet

i also like your red and white dress


thank you too, i almost did not post that pic. :smile:


all thats missing in that photo is me, and some suntan flavored nylons on yer lovely leggzdrool



ty for the compliement


np...just rememberz next time that suntan, red, and white all look great together, hey


okay i will rememeber, unless you want to send me an email and remind me

Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 03/16/11 04:13 PM
I dont mind the white legs....drool

no photo
Wed 03/16/11 04:20 PM









i like older men


I like you in yer red & white dress!drool


thank you thats sweet

i also like your red and white dress


thank you too, i almost did not post that pic. :smile:


all thats missing in that photo is me, and some suntan flavored nylons on yer lovely leggzdrool



ty for the compliement


np...just rememberz next time that suntan, red, and white all look great together, hey


okay i will rememeber, unless you want to send me an email and remind me


omg...but if I sends ya an email I might getz me too excited and wantz to take ya shopping for more flavors

amys_profile's photo
Wed 03/16/11 04:31 PM

Your picture makes me think of Diane Chambers. (You may be too young to know who that is).


no i dont, but i will think of compilment

amys_profile's photo
Wed 03/16/11 04:32 PM










i like older men


I like you in yer red & white dress!drool


thank you thats sweet

i also like your red and white dress


thank you too, i almost did not post that pic. :smile:


all thats missing in that photo is me, and some suntan flavored nylons on yer lovely leggzdrool



ty for the compliement


np...just rememberz next time that suntan, red, and white all look great together, hey


okay i will rememeber, unless you want to send me an email and remind me


omg...but if I sends ya an email I might getz me too excited and wantz to take ya shopping for more flavors



take me shopping i like that!

Simonedemidova's photo
Wed 03/16/11 04:32 PM
Ive always dated older because they are more mature and can carry on a conversation. Although now that I am getting older myself, hahahaha they are getting to be too old. . . and bald. lol. JK. I dont mind a baldy either if they can still make me laugh....

Mayhem_J's photo
Wed 03/16/11 04:34 PM

Ive always dated older because they are more mature and can carry on a conversation. Although now that I am getting older myself, hahahaha they are getting to be too old. . . and bald. lol. JK. I dont mind a baldy either if they can still make me laugh....


There's a first for everything....lol.

no photo
Wed 03/16/11 04:38 PM











i like older men


I like you in yer red & white dress!drool


thank you thats sweet

i also like your red and white dress


thank you too, i almost did not post that pic. :smile:


all thats missing in that photo is me, and some suntan flavored nylons on yer lovely leggzdrool



ty for the compliement


np...just rememberz next time that suntan, red, and white all look great together, hey


okay i will rememeber, unless you want to send me an email and remind me


omg...but if I sends ya an email I might getz me too excited and wantz to take ya shopping for more flavors



take me shopping i like that!


Amscrap arrives Chicago everydaywaving

wux's photo
Wed 03/16/11 04:47 PM

These are general reasons but all may not apply to every man who chases younger women:

1. Wanting to be with an attractive women. Unfortunately as we age the one great advantage women have below the belt begins to dwindle and they have to compete with younger women.

2. In this day of internet communications women have a broader range of competition within their age range and younger.

2. It bolsters older guys' egos. No different than older women continuing to attracting men feel more desireable.

3. Younger women have:
a. More energy
b. More spontaneity
c. Less of lifes baggage: less negativity

4. When meeting a perspective date older women tend to have longer laundry lists of "thou shalt/thou shalt not" than younger women. Sometimes making the date resemble a job performance review.

5. As women age sex becomes less spontaneous and they exhibit less interest. Less open to experiment with new idea's. So some men turn to younger women.

6. "Some" (not all) women: the longer they are single become more "ME" centered. He'll change for me but I won't change for anyone.


This is very true what you wrote, thor, but only if applied to men.

Women do not correspond to certain points here, namely and with explanations:

5. Women only seem to become less spontaneous and to show less interest. Sexual desire in women increases with age, because oestrogen makes them beautiful and fertile, but their own testosterone makes them enjoy sex. As women age, they lose the looks, but the ratio of their testosterone/oestrogen production increases. This effects in greater joy of sex for women as they age.

Some women gain spontaneity when they have a sexual encounter again later in life. I shall NOT go into details, you have to take my word for it.

Women also have an ability to lose interest in sex if the practice is interrupted for longer periods. I can't explain it hormonally. But I think most people know this.

So what happens is that women don't lose interest, but their partners lose interest, and there are fewer potential partners left to replace the lost-interest partners, so women peter out too, and this is NOT their doing.

Other things you said apply generally to both sexes equally, and some inferences are not even valid. For instance, more baggage / more negativity. It often happens that way, but equally as often happens the other way. Trials and tribulations in life can make a person tougher or sweeter. It's a toss-up.

6. Some women... etc.
Well, young women do not have to have spent a long time alone to become "me" centered. There is a scale of desirability and demands met, and that is constant. True, older people become less flexible in their habits and lifestyles, as well as in their values (so what am I trying to accomnplish with writing this direct response to you? is a good question to ask), but younger people experiment with their power and how to exercise it over others, and the net effect of both behaviour (rigidity of values, and experimentation with behaviour) often results in the very same "me" centered response. This also results in predcitable behaviour by older women, and unpredictable by the younger (not to misconstrue that this would be "spontaneity"), and that makes the life of a man harder, in either cases, depending on the temperament of the man.

I, as an older man, prefer spontaneity, agility of thought, sense of humour, and good humour, but that can come more likely in a relationship with a stably acting and behaving subject, than with a fickly, unruly young woman who does unsuspected (but not spontaneous) things that she does not know why she does them, other than to irritate the man, which she knows she is successful in doing.

Simonedemidova's photo
Wed 03/16/11 06:34 PM
There are very few younger guys that can hold their own, but they are out there and very good catches.....

amy_loves_life's photo
Wed 03/16/11 07:03 PM












i like older men


I like you in yer red & white dress!drool


thank you thats sweet

i also like your red and white dress


thank you too, i almost did not post that pic. :smile:


all thats missing in that photo is me, and some suntan flavored nylons on yer lovely leggzdrool



ty for the compliement


np...just rememberz next time that suntan, red, and white all look great together, hey


okay i will rememeber, unless you want to send me an email and remind me


omg...but if I sends ya an email I might getz me too excited and wantz to take ya shopping for more flavors



take me shopping i like that!


Amscrap arrives Chicago everydaywaving



what would you pick out for me blushing

kissablekiss's photo
Wed 03/16/11 07:06 PM
Younger Man and Older Woman Relationships

Older woman with younger man romance or marriage is not a matter of awe anymore. Many men have found love, harmony and happiness with older women. Nowadays age is no more a criteria when it comes to matters of the heart. Earlier that was not the case and the woman involved in such a relationship was considered a ‘cradle snatcher’. Actually what makes guys attracted to older woman?

reasons why some younger guys are attracted to older women

*Maturity and confidence

*Older women are Taboo

*Lesser competition

*Taking charge

*Intelligence and confident

*Independence

*The need of mothering

*Attraction and love

*and the list goes on :)