I figured Goof was the type to drill holes in the boat lol

Hahahaha......"Drill".....

there is a dirty joke in all of this...but I will bite my tongue

now ya told me Dave

I guess I should have said in my description....I don't rock the boat for the heck of it. I don't like drama myself, but I won't back down from something I see is wrong.

This post comes from my personal life. Most of you know that I live with my sister's family because my sister is disabled and I take care of her. Well her 21 y/o daughter is dating a butt head that does NO work outside of the house or in the house. He never cleans or anything. He has gone as far as telling my sister they should kick the 17 y/o son out of the house for not doing his chores. Hello McFly....he doesn't even pick up after himself either. I am always picking up cigarette butts from the yard (his). He told my son (who is working 2 part time jobs because full time work is hard to find here especially when you are only 20 y/o) and he doesn't have a job himself.

My sister doesn't say much to him about any of this and when she does it's in a "nice" way. I have gone off on him myself and called him a punk (that was a sight to see lol)

So he is still living here and not contributing financially or anything. I take care of my sister, clean houses to help financially (and I can be close to my sister if she needs me) and I do dishes for 6 people (not including any guests) by hand (dishwasher is broken) and I clean up the kitchen. I stopped cleaning the rest of the house since I stay in my room and I refuse to clean up after grown kids that are healthy and can pick up after themselves.

When I got into it with the bf....my sister and brother in law thought I was too harsh. I got onto him for tattling on my nephew when he had NO room to open his mouth.

whew....glad I got that out and that is ONLY the tip of the iceberg lol.

I was having this discussion with a friend. My sister and I are different extremes from each other....as extreme as day and night.

She doesn't like to rock he boat even if she gets walked all over

I'm more of the type that I will rock the boat and even tip it over, if needed

What about you? where do you fall in this?

Thank you cheer. Yes her husband helps. Everything he does is for my sister.

I just stay out of it unless they bring me into it. It's another drama fest tonight. I just stay in my room and listen for my name to be used (behind my back....which is the bf M.O.)

THAT is when boats will be tipping over all over the place. So everyone better grab your life jackets cause ya might feel some rocking

If i need to i can sink a ocean liner battle ship lolll but i look and use reverse psychology you get more with using different ways like say ok you said all them butts are in the yard right
why don't someone just have a big can out there for cig butts,

as for dishes all chip in and fix dishwasher, as for for that guy not paying nothing who owns the house really has the say even if you are right that he should help,

but i think you need to all talk together and not yell cause unless you own the house ,or get your sister to sign a agreement you in charge it will be hard :)

ok...everyone close your ears...I'm about to scream