Topic: Helpful suggestions?
Darrick777's photo
Tue 03/08/11 02:27 PM
I always feel like I have to promote myself in order to actually meet someone. This makes me a bit umcomfortable. In the past I've always relied on simply meeting and talking in a kind of casual atmosphere. But I guess that hasn't been such a good option for me of late. Guess I'm too middle-aged or something. Been out of (dare I say it) "the game". Hate to think of it that way. Don't want it to be that way.

I am most definetly still a romantic.

eileena9's photo
Wed 03/09/11 11:51 AM
Of course you have to promote yourself when looking for someone, whether it be online or in "real life". You wouldn't think of going out somewhere hoping to meet a special someone looking like you haven't taken a shower, washed your hair or brushed your teeth in weeks. That is a form of self-promoting, making yourself look good...on here it would be to talk about your good points, what you are looking for, and showing your fun side here in the forums.

Good luck to you!flowerforyou

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Thu 03/10/11 02:09 AM
waving Welcome to mingle.
I have to say the thrid picture-- you look likeyour strangling your poor cat. whoa slaphead kinda funny. Nice pics, and short and to the point. Good Luck on your search.

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Thu 03/10/11 09:33 AM

I have to say the thrid picture-- you look likeyour strangling your poor cat.


Had to look when I read this. laugh

Darrick777's photo
Thu 03/10/11 09:47 AM
I wanted to strangle him. He had just crapped on my couch. I do love him though. Thanks for the input.

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Thu 03/10/11 11:03 AM
welcome..cute pics.flowers