Topic: Why is it so hard
germanangel's photo
Mon 02/28/11 05:01 PM
I dont understand why it is so hard to find someone special out there? I have been on dating sides for the last month and i just dont have any luck. Is there anything wrong with me? Do man get scared when you posted that you have kids?...this is just so weird for me. noway Anyone else having this problem? ohwell

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Mon 02/28/11 05:02 PM
Edited by esebulldog on Mon 02/28/11 05:07 PM


you are rocking those pig tails girl drinker

msharmony's photo
Mon 02/28/11 05:03 PM

I dont understand why it is so hard to find someone special out there? I have been on dating sides for the last month and i just dont have any luck. Is there anything wrong with me? Do man get scared when you posted that you have kids?...this is just so weird for me. noway Anyone else having this problem? ohwell



my priority for nearly two years has been finding work, I expect a man to stick with me longer than any job so I kind of expect that(finding a man) to take a bit longer and I dont sweat it,,,,lol



look at it this way, the longer it takes to find each other, the more likely you will both be to appreciate what you have once you have found it,,,

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Mon 02/28/11 05:09 PM
First of all, welcome to the site! I think you will find it is a great place, with the best people of any dating site there is.

I say that because I've been using dating sites, on and off, since around 1998.

And I haven't found "the one" yet. I did find "the one who keeps coming back every few years" though!

Best thing to do is get active in the forums. This is where you will get to know people, and where they will get to know you.

As for your question about having kids, this is all a matter of preferences. We all have them. I know, for example, that I wouldn't date anyone who has kids or who drinks alcohol. But that's just me. There are lots of people on this site, and you may run into someone who matches your criteria.

Don't give up after a month! There are people who have met "the one" right on this site! So it can happen!

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Mon 02/28/11 05:30 PM

First of all, welcome to the site! I think you will find it is a great place, with the best people of any dating site there is.

I say that because I've been using dating sites, on and off, since around 1998.

And I haven't found "the one" yet. I did find "the one who keeps coming back every few years" though!

Best thing to do is get active in the forums. This is where you will get to know people, and where they will get to know you.

As for your question about having kids, this is all a matter of preferences. We all have them. I know, for example, that I wouldn't date anyone who has kids or who drinks alcohol. But that's just me. There are lots of people on this site, and you may run into someone who matches your criteria.

Don't give up after a month! There are people who have met "the one" right on this site! So it can happen!

wow Lex they had them back then didn't know that lol kidding

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Mon 02/28/11 05:31 PM

I dont understand why it is so hard to find someone special out there? I have been on dating sides for the last month and i just dont have any luck. Is there anything wrong with me? Do man get scared when you posted that you have kids?...this is just so weird for me. noway Anyone else having this problem? ohwell
i posted the same thing u said like 2 months ago and my answer to you is you just have to promote yourself.... on a dating site is no different from a music site......... you have to promote your self so people will b interested in you

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Mon 02/28/11 05:55 PM

I dont understand why it is so hard to find someone special out there? I have been on dating sides for the last month and i just dont have any luck. Is there anything wrong with me? Do man get scared when you posted that you have kids?...this is just so weird for me. noway Anyone else having this problem? ohwell


bestimmt - yes- I've been tooling around on here for ages - no one will do the virtual world the favor of taking me off their handslaugh

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Mon 02/28/11 06:37 PM


First of all, welcome to the site! I think you will find it is a great place, with the best people of any dating site there is.

I say that because I've been using dating sites, on and off, since around 1998.

And I haven't found "the one" yet. I did find "the one who keeps coming back every few years" though!

Best thing to do is get active in the forums. This is where you will get to know people, and where they will get to know you.

As for your question about having kids, this is all a matter of preferences. We all have them. I know, for example, that I wouldn't date anyone who has kids or who drinks alcohol. But that's just me. There are lots of people on this site, and you may run into someone who matches your criteria.

Don't give up after a month! There are people who have met "the one" right on this site! So it can happen!

wow Lex they had them back then didn't know that lol kidding


The worst part was having to write the whole profile in hieroglyphics.


Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Mon 02/28/11 06:41 PM



First of all, welcome to the site! I think you will find it is a great place, with the best people of any dating site there is.

I say that because I've been using dating sites, on and off, since around 1998.

And I haven't found "the one" yet. I did find "the one who keeps coming back every few years" though!

Best thing to do is get active in the forums. This is where you will get to know people, and where they will get to know you.

As for your question about having kids, this is all a matter of preferences. We all have them. I know, for example, that I wouldn't date anyone who has kids or who drinks alcohol. But that's just me. There are lots of people on this site, and you may run into someone who matches your criteria.

Don't give up after a month! There are people who have met "the one" right on this site! So it can happen!

wow Lex they had them back then didn't know that lol kidding


The worst part was having to write the whole profile in hieroglyphics.


think that is when i got my first computer lol

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Mon 02/28/11 06:42 PM
the worst part was that 300 baud modem...laugh

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Mon 02/28/11 06:43 PM



First of all, welcome to the site! I think you will find it is a great place, with the best people of any dating site there is.

I say that because I've been using dating sites, on and off, since around 1998.

And I haven't found "the one" yet. I did find "the one who keeps coming back every few years" though!

Best thing to do is get active in the forums. This is where you will get to know people, and where they will get to know you.

As for your question about having kids, this is all a matter of preferences. We all have them. I know, for example, that I wouldn't date anyone who has kids or who drinks alcohol. But that's just me. There are lots of people on this site, and you may run into someone who matches your criteria.

Don't give up after a month! There are people who have met "the one" right on this site! So it can happen!

wow Lex they had them back then didn't know that lol kidding


The worst part was having to write the whole profile in hieroglyphics.


rofl rofl flowerforyou

DreamweaverOne21's photo
Mon 02/28/11 09:39 PM
A wise man once told me good things cant be found, they just tend tohappen. SO i stopped looking and next thing i know I found someone :). worked for me but hey im just a kid lol