Topic: Does anyone come here anymore?
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Wed 02/23/11 06:26 AM



I don't agree. I think the people are alot more friendly than they used to be. It is alot slower than it was and I miss some people that left but that ebbs and flows. As far as a group thinking they made mingle there lies the problem........smokin


Most of the not so friendly people have left and that's definitely a good thing!


I guess the sad part is when some people assume that an entire site "belongs" to them, so much so that they expect others to abide by their standards and rules.


Sadly this happens in a lot of forums, I've seen it happen on quite a few of the horror forums I used to frequent.

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Wed 02/23/11 01:12 PM

i have come on here to get cheered up,
and have hung around to cheer someone up.
there are nice people here, not so nice
people, funny people, not so funny people,
good looking people, not so good looking
people, outgoing people, shy people, and
it does seem like some threads attract
only certain people, but if someone else
ventures onto one of those specific
threads they are still greeted or at the
very least acknowledged by someone on
that thread. mingle isn't for everyone,
but lots of things in this world don't
make everyone happy. give what you want,
take what you want, mingle is here and
will be here if you leave. even if you
post unpopular topics, you still find
someone to back you up. i guess the point
is mingle mojo is alive, sometimes you just
have to go snipe hunting to find it

Cheers :-)
I personally, will invade any thread I
find interesting, and I will engage anyone
who cares to. Male or female.
The incoming tide brings as many new
people as the ebbing tide takes away.
You get what you give.
I cannot pass judgment on the boringness
of the threads as I have never made one.

RowBaby's photo
Wed 02/23/11 02:42 PM

Last couple times i got on here where same 5 topics ?!

is this place loosing it's mojo scared


It's just resting before its big explosion.

buttons's photo
Wed 02/23/11 06:23 PM

There isn't the drama and rude posts or cliques like there used to be. For that I'm VERY glad. Much calmer and friendlier now.:banana:

I am glad to see new faces here and I welcome all new members. Members, whether new or old, make the site
i have to say this is the first time i disagree with you, that i can think of anyway..

for one i believe this post simply meant< as i read it, the original post> where is everyone meaning that dubz felt that there was less people on here that used to be.. and i think that counters with him saying its the same 5 posts as there was 5 days ago.. to me perhaps it is construed as being "cliques" if there are the same 5 posts running?
for me. i believe there has ALWAYS been friendly people on here. i sure would not say the people on here now are any friendlier than others have been in the past. i as well welcome those new people however i do also welcome all old members whom were not on here to cause problems.. hence not to say a "new" one will not come on here and try to cause problems either.. i just dont think it is right to judge someone for the amount of time they have been on here.

lastly.. the thing about cliques.. what the hello are they? i have never seen any cliques on here myself. it is ones choice if they choose to post in only one thread.. if that is their comfort zone so what? and im not saying this to you kim.. im just saying it gets old all the whining i hear about that. we are all unique in our own ways, that is what makes us individuals. it is normal for human beings to be drawn to a person of whom they find interesting rather than someone they are not. EVERYONE is like that.. one will like this person better than that person because they share interests with one and not the other. i have been in many coffee houses, some i stop in, some i chat in, some i have hung out in. i have gone into every area of mingle at least once some 200 times no where did i feel i did not fit in. <to me this would be an issue within ones own mind>.. have i not been acknowledged on something i said somewhere? yes laugh sometimes people dont know who you are talking to, sometimes people are already typing a reply to the person before them, sometimes people leave the room just because they have to go to the bathroom.. or perhaps they got a im going or emails and just miss something. sometimes people never go back to a thread they replied in or even a thread they madelaugh some people talk to each other in posts and reply to only each other. cause there are 4 others in there doing the same thing. some cant carry on conversations with 5 people at once. who knows and why bother with pondering and feeling that you are not a part of a group? i just never understood any of that.

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Wed 02/23/11 06:26 PM
Edited by buttons on Wed 02/23/11 06:28 PM

i have come on here to get cheered up, and have hung around to cheer someone up. there are nice people here, not so nice people, funny people, not so funny people, good looking people, not so good looking people, outgoing people, shy people, and it does seem like some threads attract only certain people, but if someone else ventures onto one of those specific threads they are still greeted or at the very least acknowledged by someone on that thread. mingle isn't for everyone, but lots of things in this world don't make everyone happy. give what you want, take what you want, mingle is here and will be here if you leave. even if you post unpopular topics, you still find someone to back you up. i guess the point is mingle mojo is alive, sometimes you just have to go snipe hunting to find it
i guess i should of read your post first i only read the first few lol! sorry for basically duplicating you... but yea i agree with you totally.... so am in your clique?laugh rofl rofl oops

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Wed 02/23/11 06:26 PM
Edited by buttons on Wed 02/23/11 06:27 PM
double posted me sorry!

Dict8's photo
Wed 02/23/11 06:30 PM
laugh That was a lot of work too....:tongue:

buttons's photo
Wed 02/23/11 06:35 PM


Not near as much as I used too!! Most of the old JSH and early Minglers are on FB and we all agree too many rude people have joined so we all meet there!! We made Mingle and dont like to watch it destroyed by rudeness and cliques, we were once all family on here and now we meet else where!!noway indifferent


I don't agree. I think the people are alot more friendly than they used to be. It is alot slower than it was and I miss some people that left but that ebbs and flows. As far as a group thinking they made mingle there lies the problem........smokin
or perhaps you learned to venture out a bit?laugh laugh and realize there are other friendly people on here than you originally thought?

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Wed 02/23/11 06:35 PM

i have come on here to get cheered up, and have hung around to cheer someone up. there are nice people here, not so nice people, funny people, not so funny people, good looking people, not so good looking people, outgoing people, shy people, and it does seem like some threads attract only certain people, but if someone else ventures onto one of those specific threads they are still greeted or at the very least acknowledged by someone on that thread. mingle isn't for everyone, but lots of things in this world don't make everyone happy. give what you want, take what you want, mingle is here and will be here if you leave. even if you post unpopular topics, you still find someone to back you up. i guess the point is mingle mojo is alive, sometimes you just have to go snipe hunting to find it


Agree...when I can say I rate farts and get a reply..this is my kind of site! laugh . Now about that snipe....that the one that my brother taught me to go in the woods with a brown paper bag, shine a light in the bag and call "here snipe, here snipe"? rofl

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Wed 02/23/11 06:36 PM
Been kinda busy with thangs lately....so you guys are probably not getting your daily recommended amount of stupidity.

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Wed 02/23/11 06:54 PM


i have come on here to get cheered up, and have hung around to cheer someone up. there are nice people here, not so nice people, funny people, not so funny people, good looking people, not so good looking people, outgoing people, shy people, and it does seem like some threads attract only certain people, but if someone else ventures onto one of those specific threads they are still greeted or at the very least acknowledged by someone on that thread. mingle isn't for everyone, but lots of things in this world don't make everyone happy. give what you want, take what you want, mingle is here and will be here if you leave. even if you post unpopular topics, you still find someone to back you up. i guess the point is mingle mojo is alive, sometimes you just have to go snipe hunting to find it
i guess i should of read your post first i only read the first few lol! sorry for basically duplicating you... but yea i agree with you totally.... so am in your clique?laugh rofl rofl oops

looking at the post count, i should ask to be in your clique

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Wed 02/23/11 06:55 PM



Agree...when I can say I rate farts and get a reply..this is my kind of site! laugh . Now about that snipe....that the one that my brother taught me to go in the woods with a brown paper bag, shine a light in the bag and call "here snipe, here snipe"? rofl


brothers sheesh

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Wed 02/23/11 07:01 PM



i have come on here to get cheered up, and have hung around to cheer someone up. there are nice people here, not so nice people, funny people, not so funny people, good looking people, not so good looking people, outgoing people, shy people, and it does seem like some threads attract only certain people, but if someone else ventures onto one of those specific threads they are still greeted or at the very least acknowledged by someone on that thread. mingle isn't for everyone, but lots of things in this world don't make everyone happy. give what you want, take what you want, mingle is here and will be here if you leave. even if you post unpopular topics, you still find someone to back you up. i guess the point is mingle mojo is alive, sometimes you just have to go snipe hunting to find it
i guess i should of read your post first i only read the first few lol! sorry for basically duplicating you... but yea i agree with you totally.... so am in your clique?laugh rofl rofl oops

looking at the post count, i should ask to be in your clique
hey now 22000 was from my first year herelaugh laugh running off to sob now cause im not in a cliquetears only need tissue to wipe one of my eyes though cause you acknowledged melaugh laugh

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Wed 02/23/11 07:04 PM

laugh That was a lot of work too....:tongue:
whats that scorpio a rat?

buttons's photo
Wed 02/23/11 07:05 PM

Last couple times i got on here where same 5 topics ?!

is this place loosing it's mojo scared
did you really want answers dubz?

buttons's photo
Wed 02/23/11 07:07 PM
i only get on here to stalk profiles these dayslaugh have i stalked yours today?laugh laugh

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Wed 02/23/11 07:16 PM

i only get on here to stalk profiles these dayslaugh have i stalked yours today?laugh laugh
nO sad

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Wed 02/23/11 07:17 PM


i only get on here to stalk profiles these dayslaugh have i stalked yours today?laugh laugh
nO sad
yes i did lol! you change your pics so much i forget who you are.. i dont know how many times i perved yours!laugh

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Wed 02/23/11 07:19 PM



i only get on here to stalk profiles these dayslaugh have i stalked yours today?laugh laugh
nO sad
yes i did lol! you change your pics so much i forget who you are.. i dont know how many times i perved yours!laugh
laugh flowers

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Wed 02/23/11 07:23 PM



i only get on here to stalk profiles these dayslaugh have i stalked yours today?laugh laugh
nO sad
yes i did lol! you change your pics so much i forget who you are.. i dont know how many times i perved yours!laugh


I perv in stealth so he doesn't realized just how many times I stop by, Deb....laugh laugh