Topic: Fayetteville N.C
CVSimpson's photo
Sat 02/05/11 10:13 AM
All the SINGLE people from Fayetteville N.C and close surrounding areas that are really interested in "meeting" new friends, and not just playing computer tag, just say hey and explain the kind of person you want to meet. Good Luck!!!!!

soufiehere's photo
Sat 02/05/11 02:41 PM
That is the best profile pic I have seen.
The profile is short but sweet.
I think you have a winner.

Tessa02's photo
Sat 02/05/11 07:26 PM
You being an electrician & making my toes curl is a tad frigtening & exciting at the same time!!!rofl Great profile!! Usually I'd say more pics but the one you have is very good & closeup at the same time!! Good luck!!

CVSimpson's photo
Sat 02/05/11 08:39 PM
Edited by CVSimpson on Sat 02/05/11 08:54 PM
@ Soufie Wow thanks... Best ever. I might have to put that on my page! Just playing, but I like being the Best! @ Tess .... What ever it takes to send her where she wants to go. LOL And thanks

CVSimpson's photo
Sat 02/05/11 08:45 PM
Sorry about the first message. I was trying talk to Fayetteville people as a completely different topic. But please do rate me... be harsh and honest. I like it aggressive!

Shenaynay's photo
Tue 02/08/11 05:02 AM
Far be it for me to disagree with the masses but I am having an "Am I awake" moment. Big F-word man, this blows all kinds of wrong. First your headline "no games" what not even scrabble? When is the last time you saw someone advertising the wanted a tampon on legs? Ummm survey says never.

And just because you say no games does not mean they will go oooh ok I'll be going now. See bright eyes they don't know they are pond scum, they think they are the answer to your problems. So you deter nothing with that except women who read it and roll their eyes and click next.

And the body if you can call it that of your profile consists of you giving your number out to anyone who sees it? Desperate much? Now at this point you will no doubt be hating me, but I will not be the overall minority in this view.

And you have two friends featured at the bottom, are they not dateable? This is what women will think. All of them, no. But many, many will.

So hide your mates, and redo this pile of doodoo into something worthy of you and the women reading it.

You need a variety of photos, and at least one full body shot.

A great headline and opener and then you just need a few paragraphs. One about you, who you are and where you are in your life right now. Then touch on your interests, what do you like doing? How do you spend a typical day off? What are the weekends filled with in your world?

And finish with who you seek, list at least three traits you find delicious in a woman. Do you like em chatty, shy, outdoorsy, a baking goddess who will feed your sweet tooth? Be descriptive, it allows her to see herself on your page.

no photo
Tue 02/08/11 06:25 AM
Welcome to Mingle2.
Profile drinker

CVSimpson's photo
Tue 02/08/11 07:15 PM
Shenaynay.... hmmmm. after i read your post I went back and read my profile. I felt like yeah maybe the number thing was a bit to much. I dont do the computer every day. I'm one of those that probably has 600 - 700 emails right now. I dont check it. Maybe I should, but...... The point was, when I put my number up there I was thinking if I dont check on mingle often, who knows what I might miss. Ive seen the line that tells how long its been since someone has been on and thought, why leave a message, and I didnt. So that was my attempt to catch "the ones that got away". I dont even know what you meant by tampon on legs but just the fact that you used that word while describing my profile and pic..... I said harsh. "BRING IT ON"!! lol "NO GAMES" was meant as a deterrent, maybe I should rethink that one. The mates are mingle friends. Doesnt mean I have gone out with them or that I will. I may eventually have a guy friend, that certainly doesnt mean I'll date a guy. You are definitely right about the photos. I have been planning on taking more. Body shot huh? You just want to see this sexy body dont you? One day I'll take some time, sit down and write some more about me. And as far the last bit about my writing about what i want in a woman. I like the way you said it, "A delicious goddess that can curb my sweet tooth! Im gonna have to write that one down. LOL ......@2kids..... Drink it up, Mazel Tov!

no photo
Tue 02/08/11 09:32 PM
Your single sentence in your profile would be good as an ice breaker of sorts, because it shows your sense of humor, which I think is important to people. But you may want to add some more details. Expounding on your points of interest may be a good start, then you can further indicate what you're looking for in your potential partner.

I didn't see your friends list, as you must have hidden it, but I don't think it would be a deterrent to other women. They are called "friends" for a reason. The ones I have in mine are men and women who I have met and liked here in the site or the forums. And you were right in stating that having them there does not necessarily mean you have any romantic interest them.

Lastly, add more pictures. I have come to learn, during my stay here that most people tend to look and judge based on what catches their eye first. If you want to hold someone's attention long enough to read your profile, put pictures that would make them look and stay.

Good luck to you and welcome to Mingle. :)

CVSimpson's photo
Sun 02/13/11 09:48 AM
I've made some changes on my profile.... I hope you guys like it!

Shenaynay's photo
Mon 02/14/11 05:18 AM
Well done!