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Topic: Am I attractive enough?
cuzdog's photo
Sun 01/30/11 11:19 PM
Im tired of being told that I cant be with someone because of what im wearing or what I look like! I thought it was it doesnt matter what you are on the outside but on the inside.!

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Sun 01/30/11 11:36 PM
If YOU want to change something on the outside for someone in
particular or to attract a certain type of person...that's up to
you, but to attract ones that are going to be better for you as in
true, honest, and liking YOU for YOU...don't change anything on the
outside, just be yourself. :smile:


btw...hello and welcome.:banana:

Randy350R's photo
Sun 01/30/11 11:43 PM
I thought lots of girls liked the hip hop look. Try being a metal head that doesn't feel comfortable in any color but black. Its pretty difficult to find someone who gives a **** beyond whats on the outside.

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Sun 01/30/11 11:53 PM

I thought lots of girls liked the hip hop look. Try being a metal head that doesn't feel comfortable in any color but black. Its pretty difficult to find someone who gives a **** beyond whats on the outside.




I came across a saying a couple years back that I though rang pretty
true...

the ones that mind don't matter, and the ones that matter...don't
mind. :wink:



blackcherryroze's photo
Mon 01/31/11 12:00 AM
If they don't want to be with you for what you're wearing or look like they're not worth your time and you're better off not being with them. Who would want to be with someone that shallow anyway?

Randy350R's photo
Mon 01/31/11 12:18 AM
True. Thats why I won't sell myself out.

cuzdog's photo
Mon 01/31/11 12:21 AM
Im just mainly tired of all the time iv waisted on females, all the time iv givin to them and iv havent gotten a single thing in return. Just want someone who is guna be real with me for once., you know what im tryn to say?

Randy350R's photo
Mon 01/31/11 12:21 AM


I thought lots of girls liked the hip hop look. Try being a metal head that doesn't feel comfortable in any color but black. Its pretty difficult to find someone who gives a **** beyond whats on the outside.




I came across a saying a couple years back that I though rang pretty
true...

the ones that mind don't matter, and the ones that matter...don't
mind. :wink:





Very true.

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Mon 01/31/11 12:28 AM

Im just mainly tired of all the time iv waisted on females, all the time iv givin to them and iv havent gotten a single thing in return. Just want someone who is guna be real with me for once., you know what im tryn to say?



You'll get that a lot in this life, from various people. Just
don't look at it as "wasting time", look at it as gaining
experience, and for every "wrong" one you get past...brings you
closer to the "right" one. :wink:

Randy350R's photo
Mon 01/31/11 12:32 AM
So many people are not real at all. They're all detached from reality, everyones f**kin crazy!

A wise man once said "we're made to believe that we're consumers when really we are the products"

Thats getting into a whole new can of worms though and will slide off topic..

IndnPrncs's photo
Mon 01/31/11 12:37 AM
Everyone has their preferences.. It doesn't mean your look is wrong it might mean that you're choosing women that have different preferences than you.. It doesn't make them wrong and it doesn't make you wrong... Maybe you need to re-evaluate your "type" and look for women that will appreciate your style...

Totage's photo
Mon 01/31/11 04:16 AM

Im tired of being told that I cant be with someone because of what im wearing or what I look like! I thought it was it doesnt matter what you are on the outside but on the inside.!


What's on the outside does matter. It's like your billboard.

kaadeshka's photo
Mon 01/31/11 04:25 AM
To some people it will matter, but maybe those are the people you'll want to stay away from in the future.

I don't appeciate when guys constantly wear baseball caps. I want to see the person not what team they worship in their free time- it's just a personal preference. Course, that does not mean all caps are bad or anything...

Also, what is it you're looking for in return of your "wasted time"?

Okami04's photo
Mon 01/31/11 04:49 AM
yo CuzDog don't take this the wrong way but I know plenty of good ole southern girls down here in Florida in college away from there parents for the first time looking to rebel by shakking up with a brother lol why don't you try down here

cuzdog's photo
Mon 01/31/11 09:55 AM
See I would try down in Florida but I wouldnt have anyway to get there. See since im only 18 and still in school im kinda limited to my mobility till I graduate.

Totage's photo
Mon 01/31/11 09:59 AM

See I would try down in Florida but I wouldnt have anyway to get there. See since im only 18 and still in school im kinda limited to my mobility till I graduate.


The good thing is you still have a few years, but I wouldn't procastenate on anything, time sneaks up on you quick, especially if you take a break.

Okami04's photo
Mon 01/31/11 09:59 AM
haha I gotchya bro graduation party your fruit will be all ripe then

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Mon 01/31/11 09:59 AM


I thought lots of girls liked the hip hop look. Try being a metal head that doesn't feel comfortable in any color but black. Its pretty difficult to find someone who gives a **** beyond whats on the outside.




I came across a saying a couple years back that I though rang pretty
true...

the ones that mind don't matter, and the ones that matter...don't
mind. :wink:



it matters that I mind :wink:

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Mon 01/31/11 10:04 AM

Im just mainly tired of all the time iv waisted on females, all the time iv givin to them and iv havent gotten a single thing in return. Just want someone who is guna be real with me for once., you know what im tryn to say?


Why do you think they're not being real? You have to remember that everyone has different preferences. And for the most part, there has to be some attraction there for anything to start.

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Mon 01/31/11 11:32 AM
wewt a metalhead, umm still in school, screw a relationship, hang out with ur bros til some1 comes along, once u find them, things might change so live it up til then

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