Topic: Shy Women are Boring.
ArtGurl's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:02 PM
wow pepper! That seems a little harsh and judgmental.

Perhaps the shy women would feel more confident in presenting themselves if they didn't feel pre-judged.

Just a thought :wink:

Pepper2007's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:03 PM
I don,t know unsure, you,re pretty chatty here!

Differentkindofwench's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:05 PM
Pepper, ever listen to Jeff Foxworthy? He compares some women to diesel motors (sexually they may take a long time to warm up, but well worth the effort 'cause they can run for hours) - I think the same may well apply to shy women. Just an idea.

Pepper2007's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:06 PM
harsh, judgmental, just an observation and thought I,d share it
so the shy girls can perk up.

iceprincess's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:06 PM
shy girls are usually the one that will make your head spin behind closed doors pepper you may have to work a little harder to get her but she's worth it in the end.same goes for shy men. you on the other hand really have nothing to offer your completely out there and in everyones face but there is no substance behind you.......

unsure's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:07 PM
In the right situation, I do talk. I have been told I am shy. I am shy until I get to know someone.
I can talk to someone on here just fine....but in person, thats a different story. I am always the quiet one in the corner. BUT I am always watching...watching and learning!!!

Pepper2007's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:08 PM
well, jeff also degrades people with his ratty humor, so I can,t take him seriously.

s1owhand's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:09 PM
ahem.

"shy women are boring to you"
^^^^^^

wrack your brain, ponder, cogitate this
and many answers are bound to come to you....

or, just read the thread, i think it'll get
covered pretty well soon enough!

nothin personal, just observation
you provacateur!

unsure's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:09 PM
Oh but it is true....have you ever dated a shy women?? If not, maybe you should try it?? Now the issue is...would a shy women want to date you?? Just a thought!!:wink:

slowtogetit's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:10 PM
ouch ice that was a shot.............lolol

ArtGurl's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:10 PM
your perspective pepper...I've known some shy guys too-some were boring some weren't. Don't see the correlation myself but yes a nice opportunity for the shy ladies to speak up.

I am not very shy - and like to make people feel at ease. It makes it easier for shy people to open up. :smile:

iceprincess's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:12 PM
no just an observation i've yet to hear (read) anything intelligent.........I personally am not shy but i'm not completely out there either. the quite ones are the one's you watch out for they usually have the most to offer.......

HangedMan's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:12 PM
As one of the shy guys, I can tell ya it'll take some time to get me to relax and open up, but in the end it is worth it.

Unsure, I tend to do the same thing til I get comfortable...so no worries.

Pepper2007's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:13 PM
Unsure, shy, boring chicks always send messages that they want to meet me, I always reject them, Artgurl life isn,t suppose to be easy, and neither am I.

ArtGurl's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:18 PM
Oh please pepper!

Life isn't easy - why make it harder?

unsure's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:20 PM
Pepper...you might have turned down your Ms. Right...now wouldn't that be a shame???
HangedMan...its alright that I am always in the corner, I have met a few guys that way, they come up to me and tell me that they have watched me. I am the shy one that always goes home alone
:wink:

Pepper2007's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:22 PM
well, unsure thats something to think about.

ehxsnohs's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:22 PM
Im a very shy person, thats why I want an outgoing guy.
It takes awhile for me to warm up and feel ok with someone.

southerngirl0719's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:35 PM
I am shy but once I get to know you I am fine...

Differentkindofwench's photo
Wed 07/04/07 06:41 PM
Harsh moment perhaps, Jeff degrades? and Pepper does what?