Why are people so fickle ( don't know if that is spelt properly) why can't people get together and be friends, why is it so hard to find someone to care about. I don't understand the rules, or I don't fit into the human race because I am not a god of a man, I am handsome but that is not good enough, I am loyal, but that is not good enough, I am very loving and lovable, but that is definately not good enough, I have a good paying job, but who cares. What is good enough, can anyone tell me why I am not good enough. Because ( excuse my french) IT IS GIVING ME THE TROTS.
Chris.

Ps. I am sorry if I offended anyone, but you know I just not good enough.

hmmm... i ponder the same thing lol
i dont feel like i fit in now a days either, and im only 21 :/
it seems like everyone is to wrapped around themselves and what they want to look outside themselves from time to time. i dont know, it really frustrates me sometimes, thinking that what i have to offer is exactly what women are looking for but they would rather not have it... just for selfish and egocentric reasons... dont know what is wrong with the world now a days...

You spelled it correctly.

Chris,,let me first say YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its that place you have in your brain,,THAT SHOULDN'T BE THERE...

DON'T EVER FEEL YOUR NOT WORTH EVERYTHING,,to SOMEONE!!!!

Its just having that SOMEONE find YOU man....


Life is foll of wading through the ****,,,but at the clearing
of it swept aside,,your see her and she shall see you...

And then,,,,,,,,,,that MOMENT,,,your KNOW!!!!

YOU ARE DA'MAN DUDE!!!!!!! So as we ALL get down in our DUMPS,
and feel its all US,,,,its really just a phase of thought that
materializes through our own frustrations of being and feeling ALONE

I'm GLAD your here and women in general our all into ""MUCH""of everything we're NOT,,,,lol,so just hang in there and she will
find ya,,or you her,,and life WILL TURN AROUND,,because it ALWAYS DOES,,,,so cheer up and stand up,,and be THAT DUDE,,CHRIS to HEART
FELT COOL GUY WHO EVERYONE THINKS IS GREAT!!!!

OK,,,that will be twenty bucks for the pep-talk,and thirty for all this attention I just gave you here,,,,,,,lol,lol

HAVE SOME FUM MAN,,and SMILE AT THE WORLD...

Oi man I feel your pain Brother and I know I am young but I understand it must get harder to meet women as you get older brother but chip up and go out and go places where you think would be good and look all over Mingle this is a great site I am sure you can meet some one ehh

Nah man, its not you. That's Life! I feel the same way and I'm forty-six years old. I have alot to offer, but that's not good enough. I work full time, I have my own small business, and I have earned a degree in Digital Graphic Art. I plan on going back to school to further my education. I am a christian, and that's not good enough either! I'm caring, decent, honest, dependable, creative, have a wild sense of humor and yet that's not good enough. I live by myself and I'm buying my home. I'm not rich, but I'm not poor either. I'm not too tall but I'm not too short either. I have turned down plenty of women because in my heart I knew she wasn't right (No Offense ladies). I choose this site so that I could meet some real new friends.

I hear what you are saying, but you probably have not been a memeber of six, free sites and put out over 300 invitations of friendship. And do you know how many people have answered my requests, go on guess, well I will save you the trouble, none, bugger all total silence, so that brings me to the idea that I don't belong in the human race. When you think of it if over three hundred people, think you are a looser, I start to think that they must be right.
Oh don't worry I don't intend to do something stupid, not yet anyway, I get around the silence, by getting paralytic, down at the pub. And no offence elder ladies, I want someone that is better looking than, me. Another thing that happened the other day, I was walking my dog, along the street, and a car screeched to a halt beside me, and a lady learnt out and threw a cup of coke in my face, shouting, why don't you get lost, you make me sick, I can't print what she really said, (although she was the first woman that had spoken to me for the month) the site won't let me swear.
Oh well isn't life a charm.
Chris ( The Looser)

Don't give up man, its gnna change for you when you least expect it. Meanwhile be your own best friend!!!!!!!

Your subject line mentions dating, yet you keep talking about being friends. Which are you really talking about?

And if you look down on yourself so much that you're calling yourself a loser, how do you think that's going to look to anyone you're trying to get to know?

Friendship, or dating, is the same the silence is deafening, not a single person is willing to talk to me, let alone go on a date, I would presume that you would want a person to get to know you as a friend, before asking you on a date, if You don't then I don't understand woman. I come on too strong, and the answer is no, I come to slow, the answer is no, I ask for a date straight up and the answer is bugger off. So you tell me what to do. Inspire me, make me a deal I can't miss out on, or is the answer BUGGER OFF.

Chris.

There is no one answer that works. It's going to depend on each person you talk to. But, if none of your emails are working, then look at your approach and change it.

Nothing changes tried different approach, tried different attitude, tried getting pissed. What is the point. So what next, don't know. Don't care really. I don't see the point on writing this cow plops anymore. Don't see the point of being here anymore. See you in the funny papers. Look under the obits.
Chris.

Chris,,man,,,PLEASE,,step back,,,clear your mind,,

NOW READ AND THINK YOUR THOUGHTS HERE,,,don't be you,,,,read you as a stranger with your mind reading their words here....

Your depressed damn it,,,and you have that right..
but GIVING UP,,,in the short time you been on here,,WHY??

THIS SITE IS """""""""""""""NOT""""""""""""OTHER SITES''''

Mingle CAN bring you a female friend,,,,YOU CAN FIND SOME
I KNOW SOME WHO WOULD BE YOU FRIEND HERE,,and REAL FRIENDS NOT PRETEND FRIENDS,,,if you leave here and keep running into and out of places to find women,,,which one can ever find you then?


If your this short with YOURSELF,,,,maybe thats why you haven't found a female yet? IT TAKES TIME EVEN IF YOUR A MALE WHO'S HOT AND 21 YEARS OLD,,,,,Friends don't come to others very fast,,it takes time for them to feel THEY LIKE YOU,,,and the ONLY WAY they can feel that is through reading your nice voiced words in the posts and forums on here....
Are you so conceited that you THINK just an email to a strange woman is going to produce a email back with HER ALL ABOUT YOU???
Thats ferry tale stuff man,,,,,IT TAKES WORK AND TIME, MUCH TIME.
Like a dedication of at least three weeks being on here talking on the posts,,,,let the ladies see and hear your mind...
Coming in with WANTING TO RUN AWAY,,,IS NOT how your going to attract them...

IF you need a real friend,,I am HERE and in email or on the phone with YOU,,and I don't lie to anyone,,I do know many women on here who would love to have a new friend,,,if YOUR cool with being easy going and normal in talking with them and on here,,,women expect nothing less....thats any lady,,,so what would ya want me to do.
Say hello to ya in email,,or say goodbye here in post.
LIFE is not this bad man,,,but depression can make you not see or feel the way you should,,,Please,,give US on here a shot at helping you find some friends....COOL????

I would enjoy meeting people as friends, I have a diverse lot of friends though work and other walks of life, but a lot of them are married, and I feel that it is inapropriate to be to fresh with a married woman, I have always been taught that you have to be a friend with someone before they can call you anything else, My grandma used to say, it is a doomed marriage, if you only love your partner, and You don't like them. It sounds crazy, but I work with woman, who rant and rave about their bloody husbands, but I won't leave him. I asked if she liked him, and she said she loved him, and I said do you like him, and she addmitted she probably didn't, she was just in it for the kids. Their marriage lasted a total of four years. friends are important, loved partners are also important. Having someone that you enjoy being with, and you don't get the impression that they are only there as a charity case. Do you really think it is worth the heartach. I don't know. I have just finished chatting with a person from America, she had a lot of things to say, nice things, and it was going like a house on fire, and then she asked for money, well nice knowing you, I can't print what she said, because a. I don't talk like that, b. I can't swear on this site. isn't life full of mongrels.
Chris.

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Maybe it's just internet dating is not for you, or maybe dating at all isn't for you. Dosen't mean you don't belong in the human race and are not good enough. Maybe you just need to find a good friend that could turn into more, not a date. Maybe you just need a friend.

Sounds like you have a lot of positive things going for you, apperciate what you have and be proud of yourself for your accomplishments. Validate yourself, don't look for others to validate you.

youre good enough, youre smart enough and gosh darn it..people like you...