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Topic: MILFs & Younger Men
Totage's photo
Thu 02/03/11 05:08 PM
If they're not purring, just scratch them behind the ears, that usually gets them purring. :tongue:

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Thu 02/03/11 05:47 PM

If they're not purring, just scratch them behind the ears, that usually gets them purring. :tongue:


true. u also find out if they washed behind their ears that waylaugh

ive1988's photo
Thu 02/03/11 05:51 PM
when a person knows how to do something that person gust gets better....if your a women i would love to take a chance.

Totage's photo
Thu 02/03/11 06:03 PM


If they're not purring, just scratch them behind the ears, that usually gets them purring. :tongue:


true. u also find out if they washed behind their ears that waylaugh


:tongue:

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Thu 02/03/11 06:27 PM



If they're not purring, just scratch them behind the ears, that usually gets them purring. :tongue:


true. u also find out if they washed behind their ears that waylaugh


:tongue:


r u offerring to lick the backs of my ears??/


I didn't think there were any firsts left for melaugh

Totage's photo
Thu 02/03/11 06:29 PM
laugh

DixieDoodle's photo
Thu 02/03/11 09:57 PM
If you're close enough to lick a cougar behind the ears, you're close enough to get your throat ripped out.

Just an observation....

spock

Totage's photo
Thu 02/03/11 10:03 PM
They act mean, but deep down they're really cuddly.

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Thu 02/03/11 10:07 PM

They act mean, but deep down they're really cuddly.


and pouncy

cougars are nice to their preyflowerforyou

Totage's photo
Thu 02/03/11 10:25 PM
They are very affectionate.

WhoIAm's photo
Fri 02/04/11 12:39 AM

ahh hell, there are MILFs, cougars, and pumas. MILFs are either married or considered by most to be off-limits. Cougars are women 40+ that are actively seeking a night in the sack. Pumas are women that have a kid or more and are actively seeking a night in the sack. I prefer cougars because they don't have to have any kids and therefore extinguish the possibility of getting roped into a family situation. Thank you, thank you


Ok cool. I'm not any of those things either so I'm still just me. Phew. Dig it. bigsmile

WhoIAm's photo
Fri 02/04/11 12:59 AM

he did that because he is 20 and not as readily able, experienced or mature as you are in knowing how to express his feelings in an adult love relationship. Last year he was a teenager - can't expect him to have an adult level of maturity at this point. he sounds sincere so I guess my question is why you didn't find out where he stood before looking? Are you afraid to go on because he might get tired of you in the future, or would you really rather be with this older guy? Your 20yo doesn't sound like he wanted to be a boytoy.

well, good luck I hope you guys can stay friends if u don't get back together


Thanks for that reality filled response. I know he doesn't know what he wants. He's been back and forth a few times, telling me that he couldn't see me anymore, that it wasn't right, then coming back. I tried to find out where he stood. He told me that I couldn't be his girlfriend, that I should find someone closer to my own age. I didn't go out and look. I never go out and look. It just happens. We meet who we meet when we are supposed to meet them, though we may not know why at the time, or ever for that matter. I wasn't afraid to continue, but I did pull back some emotionally after his departure just after New Years.

Thomas wasn't just a boytoy. He knew that. I never viewed him that way. The first night I didn't take him home to **** him. I thought he was cool and interesting and I wanted to talk to him and show him my wood because he was as into nature as I was. I honestly didn't think he'd have any interest in getting physical with me. But he did. And then I figured I'd never hear from him after that. But I did. And then it was up/down/back/forth for three months. When we finally reached what I thought was our agreement...IT IS WHAT IT IS...things were smooth until this. And now I wonder...maybe I don't really know what I want either.

I'm getting confused. But I refuse to get sad. It will all work out the way it's supposed to. I surrender to the Universe. What will be will be.

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Fri 02/04/11 06:55 PM
:heart:


he did that because he is 20 and not as readily able, experienced or mature as you are in knowing how to express his feelings in an adult love relationship. Last year he was a teenager - can't expect him to have an adult level of maturity at this point. he sounds sincere so I guess my question is why you didn't find out where he stood before looking? Are you afraid to go on because he might get tired of you in the future, or would you really rather be with this older guy? Your 20yo doesn't sound like he wanted to be a boytoy.

well, good luck I hope you guys can stay friends if u don't get back together


Thanks for that reality filled response. I know he doesn't know what he wants. He's been back and forth a few times, telling me that he couldn't see me anymore, that it wasn't right, then coming back. I tried to find out where he stood. He told me that I couldn't be his girlfriend, that I should find someone closer to my own age. I didn't go out and look. I never go out and look. It just happens. We meet who we meet when we are supposed to meet them, though we may not know why at the time, or ever for that matter. I wasn't afraid to continue, but I did pull back some emotionally after his departure just after New Years.

Thomas wasn't just a boytoy. He knew that. I never viewed him that way. The first night I didn't take him home to **** him. I thought he was cool and interesting and I wanted to talk to him and show him my wood because he was as into nature as I was. I honestly didn't think he'd have any interest in getting physical with me. But he did. And then I figured I'd never hear from him after that. But I did. And then it was up/down/back/forth for three months. When we finally reached what I thought was our agreement...IT IS WHAT IT IS...things were smooth until this. And now I wonder...maybe I don't really know what I want either.

I'm getting confused. But I refuse to get sad. It will all work out the way it's supposed to. I surrender to the Universe. What will be will be.



in a lot of ways u guys sound like any 2 people in love at a cross roads - irrespective of ur ages. maybe there are trade offs - what u bring to the table in maturity - he contributes by bringing u joy (at least usually):heart: and:heart: this what I am seeing here

WhoIAm's photo
Fri 02/04/11 08:26 PM

in a lot of ways u guys sound like any 2 people in love at a cross roads - irrespective of ur ages. maybe there are trade offs - what u bring to the table in maturity - he contributes by bringing u joy (at least usually):heart: and :heart: this what I am seeing here


we were absolutely in love with each other right from the beginning. then the message started in his head that he shouldn't be with me because of the age difference. and so he fought it. he fought us. and he went back and forth because of it. i understood what he was going through. so when he came back, i accepted it. i understand why he felt the need to flee. and after he came back the second time, i knew that he would always come back.

in fact...after i began typing this, i sent him a text. and now we are communicating again. and i'll just see how it goes. so thank you. flowerforyou

WhoIAm's photo
Fri 02/04/11 08:42 PM
It looks as though we may be having a late night meeting. To talk. And whatever else we want to do. blushing

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Fri 02/04/11 09:16 PM

It looks as though we may be having a late night meeting. To talk. And whatever else we want to do. blushing
nice! :heart: < the real human brainflowerforyou

WhoIAm's photo
Sun 02/06/11 03:06 AM
so what's up peeps?

WhoIAm's photo
Tue 02/08/11 03:23 PM
I think I'm going to up my age requirement. These really young ones are making me crazy.

How's everyone doing?

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Tue 02/08/11 06:58 PM

I think I'm going to up my age requirement. These really young ones are making me crazy.

How's everyone doing?


how did the late night talk go? Is he driving you crazy?

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Tue 02/08/11 07:00 PM

They act mean, but deep down they're really cuddly.


that's middle age spread (aka body fat), but it is cuddly and squishy

Even now that I am shedding some pounds YAY - I dont ever wanna loose the cuddles completely:wink:

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