Topic: I am confused
TxsSun's photo
Mon 01/24/11 07:45 PM
Edited by TxsSun on Mon 01/24/11 08:19 PM

Txssun..i can give you my number..and please tell me you will while i clean my pole


I had your number. Where did that leave me grumble


laugh laugh laugh

Just giving you a hard time :tongue:

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 01/24/11 07:47 PM
In MY professional opinion laugh

I think some people have been beaten down so much in life it's hard to get to that secure place where it doesn't bother them.

Then again....it could just be for attention.

Kinda hard to know why anyone does anything that they do, but you are right (can't believe I'm saying that to you laugh )people have to love themselves

TxsSun's photo
Mon 01/24/11 07:51 PM

In MY professional opinion laugh

I think some people have been beaten down so much in life it's hard to get to that secure place where it doesn't bother them.

Then again....it could just be for attention.

Kinda hard to know why anyone does anything that they do, but you are right (can't believe I'm saying that to you laugh )people have to love themselves


I agree, they DO have to love themselves before anyone else can. Isn't that what taking your time to get to know you, is about?

Why use this site to validate yourself? It will never work if it is just validation. We need reality!

wraithme66's photo
Mon 01/24/11 07:53 PM
Gotta remember... Even rocks can crack. My self-confidence has been a little off lately. I'm usually right as rain.

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 01/24/11 07:54 PM
who knows Tami. I guess for many reasons...dunno.

maybe they feel it's "safer" to vent (or whatever) online than in real life.

I just vent to select few that will at least nod and pretend they are listening laugh

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Mon 01/24/11 07:55 PM


Txssun..i can give you my number..and please tell me you will while i clean my pole


I had your number. Where did that live me grumble


laugh laugh laugh

Just giving you a hard time :tongue:
ya lost it..didnt give a ****..about me and my pole..but yeah id rather give you a HARD timeslaphead

TxsSun's photo
Mon 01/24/11 07:59 PM

Gotta remember... Even rocks can crack. My self-confidence has been a little off lately. I'm usually right as rain.


Mine too, but I took years to fix "me". Shouldn't most people do that?

wraithme66's photo
Mon 01/24/11 08:03 PM


Gotta remember... Even rocks can crack. My self-confidence has been a little off lately. I'm usually right as rain.


Mine too, but I took years to fix "me". Shouldn't most people do that?



The only way to fix self-confidence... Is done on your own. That's why it's "SELF" confidence... Some people leave out the key point in a definition. Or misconstrue the entire meaning all together.

TxsSun's photo
Mon 01/24/11 08:25 PM



Gotta remember... Even rocks can crack. My self-confidence has been a little off lately. I'm usually right as rain.


Mine too, but I took years to fix "me". Shouldn't most people do that?



The only way to fix self-confidence... Is done on your own. That's why it's "SELF" confidence... Some people leave out the key point in a definition. Or misconstrue the entire meaning all together.


You are a very wise man!

delilady's photo
Mon 01/24/11 08:27 PM
Nice thread Tami!

I look at it this way---I am the only one that is with "me" 24/7 so as long as I think I'm OK who cares what anyone else thinks!

TxsSun's photo
Mon 01/24/11 08:33 PM

Nice thread Tami!

I look at it this way---I am the only one that is with "me" 24/7 so as long as I think I'm OK who cares what anyone else thinks!


Thanks Jayne!

I so agree with you :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

wraithme66's photo
Mon 01/24/11 09:25 PM




Gotta remember... Even rocks can crack. My self-confidence has been a little off lately. I'm usually right as rain.


Mine too, but I took years to fix "me". Shouldn't most people do that?



The only way to fix self-confidence... Is done on your own. That's why it's "SELF" confidence... Some people leave out the key point in a definition. Or misconstrue the entire meaning all together.


You are a very wise man!


Thank you very much! I just try to know what's coming before it hits me right between the eyes... Lol!

no photo
Mon 01/24/11 09:30 PM

Why do people feel they have to be validated to fit in?
"Am I hot", "Am I Pretty", and "Do Men Like A Little Meat On The Bones" etc.....

I read these threads and wonder, why does no one tell them there is no need to be validated other than me?

Isn't the number one rule for a successful life and relationship "to love thy self"?







great post
good point

f@ck if I knowflowerforyou :angel:

gummykiss's photo
Mon 01/24/11 09:30 PM
I agree. But I don't think it's for validation all the time, maybe just for some attention or an ego boost. tongue2 It happens.

TxsSun's photo
Tue 01/25/11 05:03 PM

I agree. But I don't think it's for validation all the time, maybe just for some attention or an ego boost. tongue2 It happens.


laugh laugh

Ego boost/attention is a very good point :banana:

Finally a straight answer bigsmile

no photo
Tue 01/25/11 05:10 PM
Edited by esebulldog on Tue 01/25/11 05:12 PM


I agree. But I don't think it's for validation all the time, maybe just for some attention or an ego boost. tongue2 It happens.


laugh laugh

Ego boost/attention is a very good point :banana:

Finally a straight answer bigsmile


so am i pretty

krupa's photo
Tue 01/25/11 05:11 PM
Oh please!!!!!

Like ANYONE is loser enough to use this place to get attention.....





sparkey01's photo
Tue 01/25/11 05:12 PM



I agree. But I don't think it's for validation all the time, maybe just for some attention or an ego boost. tongue2 It happens.


laugh laugh

Ego boost/attention is a very good point :banana:

Finally a straight answer bigsmile


so am i pretty

To far away to tell, the bike looks pretty:tongue:

TxsSun's photo
Tue 01/25/11 05:30 PM
Ok, this isn't the attention whore thread guys :tongue:


Ese you are sexy bigsmile

Krupa, love the wind blown hair and the self grabbing there love

seamac's photo
Tue 01/25/11 05:32 PM



Txssun..i can give you my number..and please tell me you will while i clean my pole


I had your number. Where did that live me grumble


laugh laugh laugh

Just giving you a hard time :tongue:
ya lost it..didnt give a ****..about me and my pole..but yeah id rather give you a HARD timeslaphead



Wanna, relax!!! flowers