Well said babygirl!!!!

hahhahhhahahhhahhahh

awww & krupa could show her some moves after rockband...

(but I like the spankings.... ....and so do you!! )

I always say hi and smile..


And it helps if they have a pet with them that way u can say "omg she/he is so cute!! can i pet it!"

Go ahead and bend over and touch your toes for me doll.

Thankfully I know how to take care of that.

I'll spank both Krupa and Bella too.......

She is right...and I have no idea what your boobs look like....so stow all that talk about guys are only interested in boobs....that is your idea honey....not the guys.

If guys were interested only in boobs I would be alone for the rest of my life!! I know they like them but I have a found a few men that were pleased enough with my tiny ones because they are attached to me, my intelligence, sense of humor...If you like yourself and let that show, looks really do become much less important.

Help is available, you might want to seek some out for yourself. In the states it can be had for little or no cost if you can't pay. Is this true there also?

Trust me when I say that I was in a very, very deep hole. It took a lot of hard work, sweat and many tears but the hole is behind me now. I still tremble at it's edge from time to time but I stay on firm ground. I hope you do get what you need and learn to love yourself. You are worthy of self love and when that is real for you flirting and all the rest will come to you. Best to you. Hey look you made a start by posting this to us! Keep on posting and see if that helps but look elsewhere too.

Whoa there sailor....

Lucky for you I was in the navy so, I aint all that freaked out.

I could just picture you now in your dress whites......

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Haha

haha, Hey chica! How ya been? Just comin back.

Nothing to worry about... I will take the paddle from him when it is your turn, Krupa....

it should be natural and flow easily

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6tKt4KTfppA

Glad you are back Earth..........

And Eillen...I am gonna feel bad about whacking your old man upside the back of the head with a paddle so...dont hand it over till he has really earned an @$$ kickin.....(I got no problem with the guy cept for the fact that he STOLE you...sigh)
gimme that damned paddle and tape a cinder brick to it....

Best advice a person can give you is just be yourself and be open to how you feel about the topic you discuss with the person you want to know and everyone can tell you to do this or do that but really if you doing what others tell you to do then thats not you:))) and there nothing wrong if you blush or feel hard to chat it come natural and people should accept you for you not for what someone else tells you how to be cause thats not you:) hugsssssss my friend see you open on this topic so you don;t seem to be that shy:) have a beautiful weekend

*falls over laughing*

You remind me of me when I was your age, Rozauka. So I can honestly tell you that eventually, you will be able to overcome your shyness since I experienced this myself. I was even worse, because I would literally freeze up when a guy I liked even looks at my direction. On hindsight, I probably looked like a frozen tomato.

I guess the tips I can give you, off the bat, are the following:

1. Develop confidence in yourself. Through the years, I learned that the reason why I felt so awkward with people was because I wasn't confident with how I looked or who I was. This is normal and everyone passes through this stage, so don't be so hard on yourself. You said that you were given a hard time for 10 years of your life. In my younger years, I lived a very hard life too. But you have to realize that these "hard times" are the things that makes or breaks a person's character. So instead of letting these experiences defeat you, use it to mold yourself into a better, wiser person. After you gain insight, confidence will follow, and the awkwardness to interact with guys or anyone else, for that matter, will disappear.

2. When you approach a guy or he approaches you, don't think of flirting or trying to get him to like you. Talking from personal experience, when I was your age, I wanted a particular guy to like me so bad, I completely blanked out when he did approach me and lost my opportunity to let him see what kind of person I am. In short, don't pressure yourself. A guy worth knowing takes time to get to know and vice versa. Give him time to get to know you too. He's not required to like you the minute he talks to you and you're not required to have him like you in the span of the hello's you two exchange. If you pressure yourself, you will make mistakes.

3. Be yourself. Yes, that is probably the most used cliche in the world, but it is true. If a guy doesn't like you for who you really are, then there really is no point to the whole thing. Yes, you can catch their eye by wearing something sexy, but if he doesn't like what's inside, then the connection will be hollow and tenuous, at best. The most rewarding and lasting relationships are with people who know and accept each other for who they are regardless of flaws and imperfections.

Well, those are the things I can tell you for now. I did look at your profile and from your pictures, I can see that you are a very pretty girl. From the way you interacted here in the forums so far, I would also say you have a good head on your shoulders. So cheer up! You are young and you have a whole world to explore and all the time to do so. Don't even think of quitting. :)

Oh, and welcome to Mingle.