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I just went on a greet and meet this week.Met a man i had been chatting with for a while from another site.He flew in for a couple days,rented a car and motel room.I agreed to a date new years eve.He emailed me his room number and motel name.When i got there i knocked on the door,he answered it.
I was shocked,had to look real hard to fine the person that i had been chatting with on line.He had to be twenty years older,80 lbs. lighter then the photos he had on his account.Why do people do this,it changed every thing,i felt like he had tricked me.why not be honest up front if you are really serious about meeting someone. Are they in self- denial about their looks,do they think they still look the same 20 years later?Makes no sense to me..  
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First of all you should of met him out in public first and not go to his motel room, alot of people don't say who they really are, a reality, so be careful and lotsa luck
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I agree with WB it's not very safe meeting someone at their house, hotel, etc....
I think you're correct that some are in denial.. Others I think that they think that their personality will win people over so they won't care that the person doesn't look like their pics.. |
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I agree about meeting in public,but i had talked to him long enough i thought it was safe,had my phone and people knew where i was going.Guess you can't trust anyone to be truthful these days.Ty good luck to us all..
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That's the thing you think you can trust people but you never really know if you can or not so you're always better off being safe than sorry...
so out of curiosity, did you leave or did you go through the date? |
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well it mattered to me,he wasn't the person i went to meet...i was polite,went on the date,spent all night,looking at the new him,shaking my head...
 Told him happy new year and went home,blocked him
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Wow that stinks... Sorry that happened to you.. I hear a few people say that they insist on web camming with people so that they know if the pics are current...
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Wow that stinks... Sorry that happened to you.. I hear a few people say that they insist on web camming with people so that they know if the pics are current... Live and learn,no big deal. I asked him about his photos,tried to get him on skype,his web cam was broke he said,the photos were from a wedding,he said they looked just like him. Guess i should have know better,when he never got a new cam. 
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Yeah something was up... that happened to me a long time ago.. I about died.. He was disgusting...
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Edited by
wolfchic
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Sun 01/02/11 08:55 PM
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That is why I tell people up front,if they are not the same in their pic.I will walk away.......
Seams to do the trick.They have been the same person  
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Sounds just like the first guy I met from here right after I
registered. Came here from Missouri, and absolutely Nothing like he was supposed to be...not looks, weight, age, behaviour, nothing. Live and learn, and be a LOT more careful.
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Wow that stinks... Sorry that happened to you.. I hear a few people say that they insist on web camming with people so that they know if the pics are current... I would definitely recommend this. |
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i would not of gone on the date with him honestly.. you owe him no respect whatsoever when he lied to you that way...
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So if I call my place a motel/hotel they will come over? Then I could lure them into my st...err, well, urhm...uh, what they said...
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I just went on a greet and meet this week.Met a man i had been chatting with for a while from another site.He flew in for a couple days,rented a car and motel room.I agreed to a date new years eve.He emailed me his room number and motel name.When i got there i knocked on the door,he answered it. I was shocked,had to look real hard to fine the person that i had been chatting with on line.He had to be twenty years older,80 lbs. lighter then the photos he had on his account.Why do people do this,it changed every thing,i felt like he had tricked me.why not be honest up front if you are really serious about meeting someone. Are they in self- denial about their looks,do they think they still look the same 20 years later?Makes no sense to me.. Been THERE,,,,done THAT,,refuse to do it again,,,I ASK EVERY QUESTION,,and pin down the pic,the time, the age when it was took and NOW a recent one before meeting ANYONE I feel MIGHT be telling tales,,and I AGREE WITH YOU ALL THE WAY as to THEIR WHY???? As YES,,,,,,HELLO,,,THAT WILL TELL ON YA SILLY A$$,,,,wink,lol |
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Man...what a group of superficial people...
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Edited by
IndnPrncs
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Sun 01/02/11 11:08 PM
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Man...what a group of superficial people... Yes, wanting to know the person we've been talking to is the same person and who they're representing themselves to be is extremely superficial  What a judgmental person you are
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Wow that stinks... Sorry that happened to you.. I hear a few people say that they insist on web camming with people so that they know if the pics are current... I web cammed and it didn't matter! He still wanted to meet me -we met-and after a few days passed he felt I didn't measure up to what he wanted ...oh well... |
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Man...what a group of superficial people... and that was very HARD to deal with at the time of meeting her for dinner,,,,,,,so,,,,,,,,nope,,,,won't fall in THAT ONE AGAIN,,,,lol |
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Wow that stinks... Sorry that happened to you.. I hear a few people say that they insist on web camming with people so that they know if the pics are current... I web cammed and it didn't matter! He still wanted to meet me -we met-and after a few days passed he felt I didn't measure up to what he wanted ...oh well... |
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