Your on a dating site right, and your kind of hoping this site will lead you to someone. Then you start posting on the forum hoping to have some kind of conversation with the people that are on there. Nothing wrong in that, we all do it. But everyone is looking at your pic, your a women, and your main pic is you breast feeding your child to where you can see everything but what the baby is feeding on.



So ladies, what would you actually be getting out of this by posting a pic like that on a dating site if you were the one doing it?


As a man, i'm confused

I saw that picture too and was wondering what she was thinking..

I seen this on the other site I'm on last night, this morning I looked at the thread and she don't have any pic up now.


I don't understand some people

Now that's funny.

i haven't seen the picture in question...but i nursed my kids everywhere i went, so it probably wouldn't bother me any.

This is what she was thinking, "See, I put out! I am desperate, I also do not have much going on between my ears!"


See, I can read minds...

Not really cause I am guessing here!

There is nothing wrong in that, but being on a dating site and using it as a main pic. Someone has a loose screw

Did you try asking the person with the pic you're talking about?

Yeah i did, I asked her what she was expecting out of this. Never got an answer.

Well, we can all guess, but only she's going to know the reason she used the picture.

perhaps the same reason some post pics of their cars or with their shirt off, it may be that she is proud of this particular bond with her child and wants to show it off,,,

I've definitely seen some men's profiles where they had several pictures of their cars, yet one or no pictures of themselves. That's something I'll never get.

lol, I just wonder if the ladies are permitted to post shirtless pics too,,

<....I think its pretty clear what Im communicating...

yeah, that whole first impressions thing can be a killer,,lol

talking about being a family man/woman and posting a pic with boobs out or falling over drunk in a bar

or talking about being health minded and posting a pic smoking a cigarette next to a keg,,,lol

I dont think people put alot of thought sometimes into how well their picture reflects their profile


or that most will probably receive them as the way their picture displays ,,,

After seeing some of the responses here I can make a different guess from the male perspective. Either the kid is number one and any man in her life is number 2, or she is out for more kids!

Either way to me that is a, need I say it?



I will give a plural picture instead!

I am sorry, are we really talking a breast feeding pic on a dating web site????

Ok I get that if she is breast feeding, she is new and undrstandably and hopefully consumed by her new baby. So if she is in need of the chat and support we good people here can offer then a breast feeding pic would work in the right forum. If she is trolling for 'love' then The Shadow I am as confused as you are!


There is a time and place for everything!

Thats The thing though, she is not new to the site. I didn't know who it was till I looked at the profile and all her pics are like from ten years ago, other then the breast feeding pic. Either way whether she was trolling or not. Like you said, there is a time and place for everything.

Well what else can I add? Have you thought to ask her? I just am thinking that if you know her pics from ten years ago, perhaps you could ask her "what is up with this pic" or words, kinder, to that effect.


I still say there is a time and place....for every purpose under heaven.

I did ask her what she was thinking, she didn't give an answer other then taking the pick off for the night. Later she put it back up so who knows

You can set it to where if you don't want to see the others person post, you have the option not to. At the same time though it doesn't delete her post either. So I chose not to see. It's not something that chose to look at and being on a forum, you can't get away from something like that when the person post a lot.

To sum this up, she is not a nice person either.