i got sick of being pried and prodded... by people in my family for dating a 32 yr old... for what it may have been, i dont know.... but ill tell u this................ he was grand to me! 14 yrs younger for the yr i was with him...he treated me like a princess! and still does show he cares! he might not be the perfect one for me.< because of his age>.. but to this day no guy compares i have to say! and seriously this thread is about teasing someone..... for their choices! and im thinking i dont regret mine!

if anything..... sure he was a lover... but will be a friend for life as i see it at this point..

you should never let what people think bother you. if you were happy, thats all that matters, Deb

Hummm sooooooooooooo Deb why did ya let him go? Or was it a mutual thing?

Absolute truth. Happiness matters and other people's opinions have no long term effect on your life.

"pried and prodded": Its to bad our peers have so much impact on our actions. Been like that since we were kids huh? Learning who to ignore or not is way to hard. Thats where your heart comes in. Age is a minor thing to be worried about. Think about the ones that are drawn to their same sex! How have we all begun to take that? Hmmmm? Its accepted by some and getting to be more all the time...

Age differences are nothing. When your heart feels "love", follow it!...

For sure heck if I find someone that the connection is that strong and we are good for each other to hell with what everyone else thinks......

Nobody even believes I was dating a 24 year old. except the guy across the street.

I believe you. Lots of women feel more secure with older men.

heck i was with someone 17 yrs older then i was for 10yrs an my family really hated him still do lol but he treated me well were just only friends now

is this one of those may/december threads

Makes me glad I don't give a damn what anyone else thinks about what I do.

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Of course, and the cats here agree! Sometimes ya jus gotta feel what the cats feel.....