Topic: Is there social Life after Divorce?!?
a2jpman's photo
Tue 12/21/10 07:04 PM
Hello Im new to this kinda thing. but I cant stand the deafing silence anymore, Im divorced 6months, after a 23 yr marriage. she filed I left and came back home. I was born in lawton, raised in Cache and a few surrounding towns,till I was 15 and moved away. anyway here i am ! what do I do now?!? D.

Meg8771's photo
Tue 12/21/10 07:12 PM
Hello and welcome. I wish you all the luck in the world in finding all you seek flowerforyou

a2jpman's photo
Tue 12/21/10 07:24 PM
Thanks I hope to meet lots of new friends to "mingle " with LOL!!!

Paging_Bettie's photo
Tue 12/21/10 07:38 PM
Well, This! This is what you do! Searching ppl online is a great way to talk & weed out, etc. You don't always get the truth from ppl but it does help to pass the time & start to rebuild confidence & social skills. So, just take it one day at a time. don't stress on any one thing or person too heavily. Just try to enjoy & take it as it comes! :-D Best of luck to you!

markc48's photo
Tue 12/21/10 07:50 PM
Edited by markc48 on Tue 12/21/10 07:52 PM
It's not online a2jpman it's right outside your door. Ive been on a roll ever since shea left back to Arizona. Seems like all her friends wanted a piece of me.

no photo
Tue 12/21/10 08:47 PM
Welcome!drinks

Queene123's photo
Tue 12/21/10 09:19 PM

Hello Im new to this kinda thing. but I cant stand the deafing silence anymore, Im divorced 6months, after a 23 yr marriage. she filed I left and came back home. I was born in lawton, raised in Cache and a few surrounding towns,till I was 15 and moved away. anyway here i am ! what do I do now?!? D.


i have been divorced for 21yrs
i was with my ex hubby on and off for 2yrs before we got married
and when we finally did i kicked him out of the house 4 differnt times and the 4th was the last.. we didnt even celebrate our first annerversary together

you have to go forward and reopen your surroundings knowing there is something better ahead for you, where the empty of your soul will bring a better beganing

mssilverfox's photo
Tue 12/21/10 09:49 PM
Welcome.....join the forums here so people can get to know you.. Don't be in a hurry, relax and do one day at a time...flowerforyou

Simonedemidova's photo
Tue 12/21/10 09:52 PM
hello, there is plenty of socializing on this site. come one come all. . . i dont know about getting your hanky panky on but ya never know. heehee.

a2jpman's photo
Wed 12/22/10 04:18 PM

It's not online a2jpman it's right outside your door. Ive been on a roll ever since shea left back to Arizona. Seems like all her friends wanted a piece of me.


Well you my friend are the kinda guy that give men a bad rep as being a dog, we were divorced 2 days and she was boning my best buddy, Its just like the girls you dont do you your buddies ex, ever!!

a2jpman's photo
Wed 12/22/10 04:22 PM
sorry about that mark , just a sore subject with me

davidben1's photo
Wed 12/22/10 04:26 PM
listen...

listen...

listen...

to people.

the one's you feel "compassion for", listen harder...

say nothing.

speak as little as you can about you.

about what you want.

about what you seek.

about HOW YOU FEEL.

and learn and FEEL OTHER PEOPLE...

friends will THEN SEEK YOU OUT.

and one will have to find HOW TO DIVIDE IT'S TIME FROM SO MANY.

peace.

and no luck wished for you.

because if you heed the words.

you WILL NOT NEED LUCK.

for to FIND, is just a matter of KNOWING HOW TO FIND.




alookat101's photo
Wed 12/22/10 04:27 PM
Welcome a2jpman.., Just jump right into the many theards they have here on Mingle2, it would feel as though you been on this site for years just ask these Guys:laugh mad drinker sad drinks yawn offtopic whoa drool waving

metalwing's photo
Wed 12/22/10 04:29 PM
Join the forums. Meet some people. Make some friends.

seamac's photo
Wed 12/22/10 05:09 PM
What they said - jump into the forums, get known and get to know us. One thing though...bring your sense of humor, it is an important tool here. We support each other when it counts BUT this is an open site and until you get to know us...well just take some things with a grain of salt and some humor. You'll do fine, just post often and know that you are welcome here!