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Topic: School of thought!?
fireflysgirl's photo
Tue 12/14/10 01:23 PM







Why do you women always seem to be so guilty and quiet when you have a real orgasm? I mean really? Is it the noises you make inadvertently?


That seems very weird. Guilt is the last feeling I'd have during an orgasm.


That is weird!! The guilt must come from religion or strict parenting from conservative families - or some other mental repression. How very sad. sad2


Either that or he's having sex with women who are cheating on their husbands/boyfriends.


Sadly I have been involved temporarily with two married women in my past and both lied to me about their marriages. I never found out until later talking to their friends. Both finally admitted they were married ending things right then and there. I DON'T play like that knowingly!
Both didn't just like the sex, hey loved it and kept coming back for more until I found out what was up! What a sad statement for the institution of marriage!


That's why they were quiet and guilty then! Hope you find someone unattached to scream your name so loudly that you'll need ear protection to have safe sex with her-LOL!

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Tue 12/14/10 07:26 PM







Why do you women always seem to be so guilty and quiet when you have a real orgasm? I mean really? Is it the noises you make inadvertently?


That seems very weird. Guilt is the last feeling I'd have during an orgasm.


That is weird!! The guilt must come from religion or strict parenting from conservative families - or some other mental repression. How very sad. sad2


Either that or he's having sex with women who are cheating on their husbands/boyfriends.


Sadly I have been involved temporarily with two married women in my past and both lied to me about their marriages. I never found out until later talking to their friends. Both finally admitted they were married ending things right then and there. I DON'T play like that knowingly!
Both didn't just like the sex, hey loved it and kept coming back for more until I found out what was up! What a sad statement for the institution of marriage!


So why are you assuming all women are quiet and guilty because of these women? That doesn't make sense.

TheShadow's photo
Tue 12/14/10 11:47 PM

Me my parents and friends debate about the whole sex in relationships issue. Do you meet and have sex first to see if it is good.Or Get to know a person for say 3 months find you like them but the sex is aweful<what do you do?. Or can you not judge the first encounter and give it a few more tries? any thoughts opinions?

My personal belief is if you like the person, the first time might be awkaward but should only get better as you get to know how to plz your partner better right?


Some women you just cant trainlaugh



fireflysgirl's photo
Thu 12/16/10 12:04 PM


Me my parents and friends debate about the whole sex in relationships issue. Do you meet and have sex first to see if it is good.Or Get to know a person for say 3 months find you like them but the sex is aweful<what do you do?. Or can you not judge the first encounter and give it a few more tries? any thoughts opinions?

My personal belief is if you like the person, the first time might be awkaward but should only get better as you get to know how to plz your partner better right?


Some women you just cant trainlaugh





LOL-yes & some men too are not trainable!

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 12/16/10 01:33 PM

Me my parents and friends debate about the whole sex in relationships issue. Do you meet and have sex first to see if it is good.Or Get to know a person for say 3 months find you like them but the sex is aweful<what do you do?. Or can you not judge the first encounter and give it a few more tries? any thoughts opinions?


My late wife and I waited until our wedding night, and it was good for us. It continued to be good because our relationship was based on love, not sex. The love and permanent commitment to each other made the sex better.

Before meeting my wife, I tried it the other way around with other women, and I ended up with more than one broken relationship.

The answer to the "sex" question depends on what you want out of a relationship.


Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 12/16/10 01:36 PM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Thu 12/16/10 01:36 PM
I believe Ya gotta "dip it in":heart:

ValentinaSS's photo
Thu 12/16/10 01:42 PM

I believe Ya gotta "dip it in":heart:


Agreed,,,

Waiting a little while can`t hurt,,,but waiting a long while CAN
laugh

Dagaz's photo
Sun 12/19/10 01:15 AM
mostly great post you all thanks

msharmony's photo
Sun 12/19/10 01:47 AM


Me my parents and friends debate about the whole sex in relationships issue. Do you meet and have sex first to see if it is good.Or Get to know a person for say 3 months find you like them but the sex is aweful<what do you do?. Or can you not judge the first encounter and give it a few more tries? any thoughts opinions?


My late wife and I waited until our wedding night, and it was good for us. It continued to be good because our relationship was based on love, not sex. The love and permanent commitment to each other made the sex better.

Before meeting my wife, I tried it the other way around with other women, and I ended up with more than one broken relationship.

The answer to the "sex" question depends on what you want out of a relationship.





thats beautiful, thanx

myshell711's photo
Sun 12/19/10 01:52 AM

I think there is not one way that is better - it can all be perfect... or it can all be a mess.

Sex wise I think that if the two parties each enjoy sex, and is turned on by the other, and are curious like a cat (yeah, think of how a cat is curious, it knows what it wants to discover but are in no rush to get there) then it will definitely get better if it is not awesome to begin with.

Conversely I have one time experienced that the sex just didn't pan out. It seemed like all the ingredients were there, but mixing it together was like making a square fit in a circle (not literally eh). We tried for a couple of months and that was it.

So from my point of view, sex in a relationship is as important as it can be, but I also think there is not one formula to follow regarding sex.



Touche'

sharpandpointless's photo
Sun 12/19/10 02:52 AM
Well, would you buy a pair of shoes without at least trying them on first?

TheShadow's photo
Sun 12/19/10 08:31 AM



Me my parents and friends debate about the whole sex in relationships issue. Do you meet and have sex first to see if it is good.Or Get to know a person for say 3 months find you like them but the sex is aweful<what do you do?. Or can you not judge the first encounter and give it a few more tries? any thoughts opinions?

My personal belief is if you like the person, the first time might be awkaward but should only get better as you get to know how to plz your partner better right?


Some women you just cant trainlaugh





LOL-yes & some men too are not trainable!


Then there are men that just don't care, and say. I got what i wantedrofl rofl

Dagaz's photo
Fri 12/24/10 12:38 PM

Well, would you buy a pair of shoes without at least trying them on first?


Haha I like that1, made me laugh, but makes sense.

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