Topic: Why do women post such provocative pictures?
READY4FUNN's photo
Tue 12/07/10 09:14 PM
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very welcome..shades

kmarythomas's photo
Tue 12/07/10 10:51 PM

you get tonsss more mail that way.
i doubt any is for good conversation though.
true^^^

yellowrose10's photo
Tue 12/07/10 10:53 PM
<-------cartoons are sexy HAWT drool

Simonedemidova's photo
Tue 12/07/10 11:08 PM
Edited by Simonedemidova on Tue 12/07/10 11:11 PM
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sade75's photo
Tue 12/07/10 11:16 PM
Nice topic and interesting answers ! I love it :)

no photo
Tue 12/07/10 11:16 PM
Stop staring at my zombies.

Jtevans's photo
Tue 12/07/10 11:19 PM
i like tha boobies love love love

Aires24's photo
Tue 12/07/10 11:51 PM
They want 2 and dont care who they hurt in the end. All they care about is theyselves. Behind closed doors thats they business, but for the world 2 c uh-uh.

kc0003's photo
Tue 12/07/10 11:54 PM

They want 2 and dont care who they hurt in the end. All they care about is theyselves. Behind closed doors thats they business, but for the world 2 c uh-uh.


and just who does it hurt?

Simonedemidova's photo
Wed 12/08/10 12:04 AM
the guy with the blue balls. LOL

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 12/08/10 01:39 PM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Wed 12/08/10 01:50 PM
They show provacitive pics

Cause
Well why not!....


Some women are looking for sexual fun

Some feel validation when men slobber and tell them they are hot

Sometimes we don't know if it's really them! Ya know sometimes the visual is so hot to us and the pic isn't even really them. Haha (the Internet is so much fun!)

Sometimes women are looking for only sex and have to advertise the goods

Me.....

I like to look at hot sexy bodies...I do

So I say...

Who cares!!:heart:

mrheartfelt's photo
Wed 12/08/10 01:48 PM

New.. to this site, singles scene.
I fail to understand why so many ladies want to post such pictures.. I want a man to find me attractive because of so many things other than just my body. Maybe there is some low self esteem.. I don't know. I of course want to feel sexy and wanted but feel that should be left in the intimacy of a couple. I feel that this takes away form a person to act this way in public. Please don't be insulted, I mean harm to any persons feelings. Maybe some response can shed some light...



I call it "personal choice". These folks make these choices because they see it as working in their eyes. You can make the choice in posting what you wish and just being You. No one can make choices for you and you can be who you are without any pretense. I guess this goes back to way before we even existed. All I can say is to make the correct choice of pics, be patient and you will draw the type of people you want. Consider that these women are trying to sell themselves with these pics. Not good.:smile: :smile: :smile: waving waving

no photo
Wed 12/08/10 01:49 PM



some interesting insights, and of course not surprised that guys like provocative photos. Personally though, there are plenty of places they can go to look at cleavage. My profile isn't going to be one of them, nor is my cleavage going to be on display for an array of strangers (half prolly underage).

It's not confidence - that's crap (IMO). I actually have a pretty decent rack, but it is for my man. Not the whole world. have some dignity people. How we display ourselves on here says volumes for our own self respect as well as our priorities.

That said, I don't think it hurts to have 1 or 2 sexy pics if someone just wants to show off a little - if they work out, or just lost a bunch of weight - keeping a buff bod after the age of 30 or 40 is a pretty big accomplishment. but there's a difference between a sexy photo to brag with, and showing Just too much skin to be dignified. I also think it helps to have other photos that show different facets of a person too though - just my thoughts


I think it's interesting that your only reasoning for sexy pictures is if someone has lost a bunch of weight and want to show off.

How much is "too much skin to be dignified?"


IDK - that's a good question, and certainly subjective. My reasoning is more an attempt at understanding than justification - at least in my original intent. It is one potential reason I mention perhaps because I have friends who have gone thru serious trauma and surgery including drastic weight loss. I was perhaps thinking of them - but IDK, really.

It's just not something I am into (posting skin of myself). To me it seems undignified. I would have said the same thing when I was 25. You seem contentious tonight. :laughing: that's my final answer, in any caseflowerforyou Singmedrinker waving


Contentious? Nah, I was just wondering why you were so judgmental. :smile:

mrheartfelt's photo
Wed 12/08/10 01:55 PM


New.. to this site, singles scene.
I fail to understand why so many ladies want to post such pictures.. I want a man to find me attractive because of so many things other than just my body. Maybe there is some low self esteem.. I don't know. I of course want to feel sexy and wanted but feel that should be left in the intimacy of a couple. I feel that this takes away form a person to act this way in public. Please don't be insulted, I mean harm to any persons feelings. Maybe some response can shed some light...



I call it "personal choice". These folks make these choices because they see it as working in their eyes. You can make the choice in posting what you wish and just being You. No one can make choices for you and you can be who you are without any pretense. I guess this goes back to way before we even existed. All I can say is to make the correct choice of pics, be patient and you will draw the type of people you want. Consider that these women are trying to sell themselves with these pics. Not good.:smile: :smile: :smile: waving waving



May be low self esteem plays a role in this. Personally, I am turned off by it. Makes me think of legal prostitution and them not caring about anything but themselves nor having any respect for themselves. Human self respect and dignity goes a long way toward attracting those that one wants to.


burgundybry's photo
Wed 12/08/10 02:02 PM

It always strikes me as a sort of subconscious "Well, this is all I've got to offer" mentality....

But you see the same thing with the guys and the shirtless "muscle" pics. Some people can't see past the physical. And if that's all they want, great.

Some of us would like to find someone with a little more to work with intellectually, though....


And, as an afterthought -- a lot of the women who post the provocative pics are the ones who complain the loudest when they get 100,000 messages saying "nice boobs" -- you just can't please some people....!




well said, Lex!:thumbsup:

mrheartfelt's photo
Wed 12/08/10 02:06 PM


It always strikes me as a sort of subconscious "Well, this is all I've got to offer" mentality....

But you see the same thing with the guys and the shirtless "muscle" pics. Some people can't see past the physical. And if that's all they want, great.

Some of us would like to find someone with a little more to work with intellectually, though....


And, as an afterthought -- a lot of the women who post the provocative pics are the ones who complain the loudest when they get 100,000 messages saying "nice boobs" -- you just can't please some people....!




well said, Lex!:thumbsup:



Well said and I agree!!!!:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

TheShadow's photo
Wed 12/08/10 02:22 PM

It always strikes me as a sort of subconscious "Well, this is all I've got to offer" mentality....

But you see the same thing with the guys and the shirtless "muscle" pics. Some people can't see past the physical. And if that's all they want, great.

Some of us would like to find someone with a little more to work with intellectually, though....


And, as an afterthought -- a lot of the women who post the provocative pics are the ones who complain the loudest when they get 100,000 messages saying "nice boobs" -- you just can't please some people....!




It's all about attention as we all know when we see pics that are provocative. The one thing I do agree about what Lex said about women that post these pics. Is they complain about it on the forumhuh

The other thing that hits is, just because a women is attractive. Doesn't mean the conversation is going to go anywhere.




no photo
Wed 12/08/10 02:47 PM


It always strikes me as a sort of subconscious "Well, this is all I've got to offer" mentality....

But you see the same thing with the guys and the shirtless "muscle" pics. Some people can't see past the physical. And if that's all they want, great.

Some of us would like to find someone with a little more to work with intellectually, though....


And, as an afterthought -- a lot of the women who post the provocative pics are the ones who complain the loudest when they get 100,000 messages saying "nice boobs" -- you just can't please some people....!




It's all about attention as we all know when we see pics that are provocative. The one thing I do agree about what Lex said about women that post these pics. Is they complain about it on the forumhuh

The other thing that hits is, just because a women is attractive. Doesn't mean the conversation is going to go anywhere.






And just because she can get a camera to look down her shirt doesn't mean she knows anything about m-theory.


Seakolony's photo
Wed 12/08/10 02:51 PM

It always strikes me as a sort of subconscious "Well, this is all I've got to offer" mentality....

But you see the same thing with the guys and the shirtless "muscle" pics. Some people can't see past the physical. And if that's all they want, great.

Some of us would like to find someone with a little more to work with intellectually, though....


And, as an afterthought -- a lot of the women who post the provocative pics are the ones who complain the loudest when they get 100,000 messages saying "nice boobs" -- you just can't please some people....!



Some women can't help that they are endowed.......they don't try and pronounce it shirts just can't hold it

Gossipmpm's photo
Wed 12/08/10 02:52 PM
Edited by Gossipmpm on Wed 12/08/10 02:53 PM
Yea that's what I say!!!



What the crap is m-theory


(as she positions cam high above to see cleavage-looks up with that" I want you look"....

No frigging way! To much work!!!