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Topic: Love or Lust?
flawlessmeans's photo
Tue 12/07/10 03:08 PM
Well that’s the best reply I've herd yet Goof, and I know that your 100% dedicated to this "type" of lust
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fb0B8UQOLVg&feature=player_detailpage#t=26s

And all for the love of


flawlessmeans's photo
Tue 12/07/10 03:09 PM
ahhh having isues uploading content. never mined.

vivian2981's photo
Tue 12/07/10 03:16 PM

Ah bulognie, everyone longs for LOVE, even those whove loved and lost. Its just that people surpess their true longing for LOVE and settle withen the confound safty of lust. But if people or too scared to cross the street due to fear how will anyone get anywhere in life?


You really believe that huh? Good luck to you in your search for LOVE.

flawlessmeans's photo
Tue 12/07/10 03:26 PM
LMAO, I guess I do need the luck though. Thanx!

vivian2981's photo
Tue 12/07/10 03:30 PM
Anyone looking for love needs the luck...but don't worry y'all will find it..it's everywhere. And hopefully it will stay with you instead of leaving like a scalded catlaugh laugh

flawlessmeans's photo
Tue 12/07/10 03:34 PM
:thumbsup:

chelsea466's photo
Tue 12/07/10 04:25 PM
Love. I want someone who is going to love me for who I am and be there no matter what. Someone who is most happiest with me and no one else. Someone who wants to grow old together. Lust fades and then what?

vivian2981's photo
Tue 12/07/10 05:20 PM
More often than not love fades, just as lust does. It is the lucky person that finds what you are looking for. It's sad, but true. I've lived for awhile and have noticed that the long term loves from the past just aren't happening anymore. Maybe it's the times we live in. Who knows..But it has dwindled drastically.

Goofball73's photo
Tue 12/07/10 06:07 PM

Lust fades and then what?


Threesomes. Orgies. Public sex. Auction of the kids. Ya know. The norm. :wink:

xio126's photo
Tue 12/07/10 06:11 PM
inorder to keep your love alive you MUST always carrying the lust side by side, "its the spark in a relationship"

MizzBrooklyn's photo
Tue 12/07/10 06:50 PM

i think in my case there has to be lust for a chance at love drinker


what comes 1st? sort of like the chicken or the egg type thing. i d k. i'd like to have both but it seems lust comes b4 love so i guess id like to have love follow yet be just a strong as the lust we have for each other,Naw id rather love be stronger then lust but lust be a close 2nd!

bastet126's photo
Tue 12/07/10 08:00 PM
i have lust on the brain right now and i proudly admit it bigsmile

Goofball73's photo
Tue 12/07/10 08:11 PM

i have lust on the brain right now and i proudly admit it bigsmile


You'll be getting a ton of emails tonight. :tongue: laugh

bastet126's photo
Tue 12/07/10 08:53 PM
Edited by bastet126 on Tue 12/07/10 08:54 PM


i have lust on the brain right now and i proudly admit it bigsmile


You'll be getting a ton of emails tonight. :tongue: laugh


laugh too late to edit! mebbe i will go see if i wanna shower with the person above me in the S&I forums... laugh :tongue:

TuTesoro's photo
Wed 12/08/10 09:43 AM
Love. lust is easier to come by.

no photo
Wed 12/08/10 12:06 PM
If you have to choose between them then your relationship has not a solid foundation - its the choice rather than prioritization

~Stevie

fireflysgirl's photo
Wed 12/08/10 12:11 PM

Love. I want someone who is going to love me for who I am and be there no matter what. Someone who is most happiest with me and no one else. Someone who wants to grow old together. Lust fades and then what?


I disagree & think with true/real love lust never fades! Heck the ex hubby & I beat the hell outta our love for each other, but the lust seems immune to the trauma! drool

MelodyGirl's photo
Wed 12/08/10 12:12 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Wed 12/08/10 12:17 PM
A solid relationship has both love and lust. I don't think a relationship can last unless both feelings are present.

Lust is fleeting; you also need deep love.

Love can fade into apathy unless you also lust your partner and want to rip their clothes off everyday and do naughty things to them. pitchfork

Each feeling fosters the other. When lust fades a little, love can bring back the spark. If love is lessening, a good romp in the hay can restore things too.

Sometimes we "think" too much, and over analyze very simple solutions. The third element to solidify a relationship is COMMITMENT. Some people give up too easily or give into the "grass is always greener" myth.

You need each equally. :thumbsup:

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