I myself am at that point, but I could never enjoy what life has to offer alone. I enjoy having someone else around to share the little things with and to see the smile upon their face knowing they're happy.

You don't need to "kick start your social motivation". You need to kick start your life. Being in a "relationship" isn't the be all end all to life. Being into life is.

Have to agree with Motown. Enjoy your life. Do stuff. Run naked in the streets. Moon a Priest. Molest a cop. Live on the edge. And then, ask for bail money from the family.

For me..it has come and gone in waves.

One thing I have noticed to be true for myself (cant speak for others) Just sitting at home and staring at the walls or watching tv is a way to completely eliminate all chances of meeting ANYONE.

When someone gets over being apathetic and jaded...they GOT to crowbar thier despondant @$$es off of the couch and get out of thier house.....to meet someone, you have to go where people are......and they aint gathering for a social in your livingroom I can promise you that.

Even Church is a good place to meet the pent up ones (though I dont feel right about cruising church for a date). MAlls, Theater, Museums, Grocery stores, art galleries.......anywhere but your house will boost the odds.

Well I haven't mooned a priest


yet.


And the last time I asked the family for bail money they changed their phone numbers.

Krupa has got it right...

If you want something, you have to prove it. You have to do the work and get out there...

Kick starting your social life is nothing more than a mind game.

Forget the game and LIVE your life...

Get out and meet people...

Or come here into the Forums cause ya just never know what might happen...

just look at pics of nice boobs.sure the ones i look at,i'll never be able to touch but it's a goal i have set for myself

I have been that way for awhile now, I am still trying to be healthy. Cancer does a lot to you and I just don't think I am ready to be in a relationship. PLUS I really am content with my life, maybe its because I know I could not handle the stress of having someone around right now?
I am just at that point to where I don't NEED a man in my life right now...if it happens OK, if NOT, that is alright too!!

Just get out and enjoy life, rather than worrying about whether you're in a relationship or not. If you're actually enjoying your life, you'll meet others who are doing the same.

I can understand this but what else are ya gonna do?.......