First off I would like to make it clear that I am looking for a longterm relationship with someone local ( any women 18-25 that live in LA, Orange, or Riverside counties and are interested in finding a longterm relationship please feel free to post here or send me a message). I have talked to several women on here and just when I think everything will work out they either stop talking to me or say that they are no longer interested, but do not five a reason why. I'm tired of feeling lonely and just want to find someone who will love me as much I will love them. If you think you are up to the task of helping me rectify this dilemma I implore you to either comment here or message me on my profile. Serious responses only please, I feel desperat and vulnerable enough already......

you're not replusive.. you're not experiencing anything different than the majority of people on a dating site... don't let these things get to you.. be confident and secure with you.. if you're not confident in yourself how can you expect a woman to be?

I appreciate your advice. Its just a bit frustrating to see all these happy people in lasting relationships and when I try my hand at talking to someone I am interested in everything goes fine for awhile then it all falls apart and I am left wondering what happened. I know this may sound like a woe is me pity party but I'm starting to feel lost when it comes to relationships and I'm beginning to wonder if find someone, or if its even worth it...

you're not replusive. just relax and have fun, eventually something serious will come along. you cant rush it. it'll happen when it's supposed to happen.

Don't be in such a hurry. You'll end up with the wrong person, most likely. Instead of worrying about when you will find someone, you should enjoy your life and keep your eyes open. It's just my opinion, but trying too hard seems to mess up a lot of people's lives.

doesnt only happen to men or you.. i get the same thing all the time.... one day i hope u find what u are wanting welcome here

You're not repulsive. Just do what I do. Wait for the right one to come to you.

As so many folks here have said, You must be " patient". Patience is a virtue. Things will not happen without it. Rome and Greece were not built in one day, and neither are relationships. Also, don't let people know about desperation. That is a big "turn off". I admire the honesty, but that is not a good thing to do. Scares women off big time!!! Best of luck in your search!!!