Topic: Ladies, dating at your workplace?
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Thu 11/25/10 07:31 AM
Hi ladies. There's a woman at my job that I want to ask out on a date, but before I ask her out, I want to make sure she's interested in me first, because I don't want to make her uncomfortable. I have a few questions:

1. Why would you consider dating a man from your job, rather than dating a man from the bar or club?

2. Have you ever dated a guy from your workplace? How did he ask you out on a date? What was it about him that made you attracted to him in the first place? Or can you recommend some ways I should conduct myself at work that will make her more receptive to me when I ask her out on a date? Thanks.

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Thu 11/25/10 08:36 AM
I want to add another question to my original post:

3. Is there anything you say or do to indicate to the guy that you like him and want to go out with him? Maybe smiling more or something?

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Thu 11/25/10 09:10 AM
My ex got me a job where he worked. Now we had already been dating a while. Sometimes it got hard on our relationship but overall it didn't really affect it. You have to be careful that you don't let it affect your work.

I recommened that you get a bunch of people together from work including the lady you like. As suggested by klc.

You want to get to know each other really well before asking her out. You should definitely start out as friends and then if there is a spark you will know for sure. Take it slow.

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Thu 11/25/10 09:38 AM

Hi ladies. There's a woman at my job that I want to ask out on a date, but before I ask her out, I want to make sure she's interested in me first, because I don't want to make her uncomfortable. I have a few questions:

1. Why would you consider dating a man from your job, rather than dating a man from the bar or club?

2. Have you ever dated a guy from your workplace? How did he ask you out on a date? What was it about him that made you attracted to him in the first place? Or can you recommend some ways I should conduct myself at work that will make her more receptive to me when I ask her out on a date? Thanks.


I wouldn't date anyone I worked with it can create controversy in the jobsite if it doesn't work out.....and make an uncomfortable atmosphere.....also you should check policy and procedure to see if dating in the work place is even allowed.....if its not one or both of you could lose your job

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Thu 11/25/10 07:19 PM

Hi ladies. There's a woman at my job that I want to ask out on a date, but before I ask her out, I want to make sure she's interested in me first, because I don't want to make her uncomfortable. I have a few questions:

1. Why would you consider dating a man from your job, rather than dating a man from the bar or club?

2. Have you ever dated a guy from your workplace? How did he ask you out on a date? What was it about him that made you attracted to him in the first place? Or can you recommend some ways I should conduct myself at work that will make her more receptive to me when I ask her out on a date? Thanks.



well someone at work has a job rather than a permanent stool in front of the bar at The Korner Klub: ALways Open Just Knock