That many men are very serious in their seach for ms. perfect,,and therein lies the problem,,,nobody is perfect,,,One fellow wrote that just to talk to him you have to meet his criteria.A certain height, weight, ect,,,even a certain eye color,,, It makes me think they arent looking for a real person,,,they want that fantacy,,, I want a real person, with reality as a basis,,,If you have a bump on your nose, and a winning smile and personality, no one should notice the bump! The point being what actually makes the attraction,,,

But...what if it is a really, really big bump on the nose?

go buy a new nose?

so anyway when i look at other profiles on others sites ive come across a few profiles that say im a sweet caring and romantic guy and im like well if your so wonderful then why are you on a dating site.maybe because some of those guys stretch the truth?

It's no good trying to want someone you aren't attracted to. Add to that, that a lot of us older folks have been through relationships wherein we did a lot of TOLERANCE, and PUTTING UP WITH, and we don't want to do that anymore. So we set high standards, both to get what we want, AND (especially in my case) so as not to DISAPPOINT someone again, by being less than completely happy with them.
Anyway, it's pretty pointless to call for people you are interested in to change themselves so that you can spend time with them. Just keep looking until you find someone within your parameters, who considers you to be within theirs.

ok zombies you buy a new nose and attach it to your nose...or maybe buy a different bump....hahaha peace zombies

your being literal there is a more deeper meaning with it. it could be the physical and the inner personality. nobodys perfect. God dont creates human perfectly.

Date me or I will run over your car!

haha YELLOW well there is that new show that these brides have to under go all this plastic surgery or something so yet again people are for the most part are getting more shallow and stupid and i like my nose its a part of me lol..

i may be just 26 but im not shallow either or try not to be ive dated people that have been considered less then attractive but they were awesome people..

I got a kick out of the fella who posted, the big monster ,and demanded a date,,,talking about ex's is not a good idea,, forget the past,,trying to find a more compatable mate is a good idea,, keep in mind love is blind anyways,,,Ok, any Gerard Butler look alikes out there? hehee!

Good luck with that one! grin:)

well. as long as his nose wasnt attached to his chin it would be ok,,,mmmm,,mmmmm,,,mm

What I find amusing is, I will get a nudge,
or an email from a fellow.

So I will read their profile.
In it they set their minimum requirements,
like age, location, etc.
Which I do not meet.
But they want to hook up anyway.

So, I have gathered, based on experience,
that they start out with a grand shopping
list, but when they get no action, they
compromise their own standards.

Do you think I would reply?