im not sure i agree totally anyway, maybe some are happy with the single life.. though i dont think everyone just sleeps around

this is Fear's habit of cutting to the core and zinging the truth out there wh ywe luv him, but Fear I think some of us R ready to jump in - but it can be hard to tell ITT if the other person is too. IRL we have body l-i-n-g-o

so I think online is a little harder

I said "I" in my post because I am not the type to try to speak for others by saying "we". Thanks for backing me though.

You crack me up!


and no lovely, sometimes it isn't ALL about you....

you lot are so naughty in your narcissism...

That's why I pooled the average age of 25, different for all ages as far as what they want out of a relationship. Even the age 25 is going to vary from person to person, I just personally think that most people going into dating in this day and age are going into it for the wrong reason and rushing things along at such a pace that the only end result capable is failure.

All I'm saying is, essentially, take your time on any platform whether it be online or in the real world.

And of course logically defying arguments from people that used to know everything, and suddenly realizing they don't know everything decide to turn the table on people that know everything at the same age they were when they knew everything. A logical impasse, if you will.

well I didn't mean to give the impression that I think I know everything. 20- somethings certainly have a lot to learn, but so do I. Every relationship - every chance we have to connect is a learning curve imo. When we are a little older we may be more able to identify what will or won't work for us as far as compatability, and we are usually past the pressure of the ticking biological clock for child bearing so we can relax a little - other than that I don't see age as a real issue in terms of knowledge.

I agree it's best to take ur time. Also I think it's possible to learn from each other - I've had younger women clue me in to modern dating expectations after my divorce as I hadn't date in 20 yrs!! And I've shared knowledge gained about man habits w/ some of my younger counterparts

Hmm, what about those who chose to be hermits? How about those who chose thir pets over humans? Maybe some just don't believe in love. Being with someone isn't going to complete you or make your life complete. Some people were just meant to be alone whether society accepts it or not.

yeah you are absolutely correct. People , they are interested in love but really confuse about relation ship.

Hey!

This is the first post,
The first sharing with strangers, I remember mines.
Lets be nice, at least welcome, while sharing our feelings.

She's young, put her feet in it, got rapped good on the fingers, now let it go ppl, you're making her feel awful. I mean MOST ppl were like that.. erhm, just one persons opinion... I mean I was like that at that age, thought I knew it all..... wait, I still do and there ain't no thinking twice about it

The obvious answer to your posed thought is that you've been looking in the wrong places, and that the actions of some should not tar the actions of all.

im sorry, I didn't realize my post was about you...not every thing is....lmao

Personally, I feel people have a learning curve. Everyone makes mistakes. Some learn faster than others. Some never learn. In the end, whether or not a person is ready for a serious relationship is up to themselves.

Nobody likes to be alone, but if we want to have something lasting, it's up to us to find a way to make it happen, just like anything else in life.

why do most girls talk to u for awhile like 2 days and then they wont talk to u and u did nothing wrong but she says its hard to keep a guy with the kids and that didnt scare me away becouse i have 2 kids myself.

what should i do becouse i really like her