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most people aren't ready for a serious relationship. no matter age some people are confused and reject great chances at real relationships and love. lol and sleeping with just anybody or everybody isn't helping though most people are happy bieng single and having many sex partners... only one persons opinion... nobody is happy bieng alone! :) |
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Hmmm...22 years old and has already met and interviewed "most" people on their readiness for a serious relationship. How did you accomplish all that, Honey? No different than any of us when we were that age or younger. Would it of made you feel good if someone asked you the same question when you were younger and knew everything? Anyway, I generally think most people are just testing the water of online dating, even in real life I think most people are just testing the water. Taking an average of the age range here on this site we have a median of probably about 25, at 25 I think the last thing anyone wants to do is jump into something without being entirely sure of what it is...coupled with the rather new age of dating online, it can be an awkward position for just about anyone of any age. Humans really are quite predictable if you study their habits while they are locked in a glass cage with a wheel for excercise.  this is Fear's habit of cutting to the core and zinging the truth out there wh ywe luv him, but Fear I think some of us R ready to jump in - but it can be hard to tell ITT if the other person is too. IRL we have body l-i-n-g-o  so I think online is a little harder |
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Doll, you didn't change the thread, I did....  You asked a question that others would have asked if you had not beaten us to the punch....and the OP made such a generalized statement that by asking these questions, we wanted to know how she came to her conclusions. I said "I" in my post because I am not the type to try to speak for others by saying "we". Thanks for backing me though.
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I like how some people decide it's ALL about them.....   Is this aimed at me?????????????   You crack me up! and no lovely, sometimes it isn't ALL about you.... 
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I like how some people decide it's ALL about them..... are you talking to me? you lot are so naughty in your narcissism...
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Hmmm...22 years old and has already met and interviewed "most" people on their readiness for a serious relationship. How did you accomplish all that, Honey? No different than any of us when we were that age or younger. Would it of made you feel good if someone asked you the same question when you were younger and knew everything? Anyway, I generally think most people are just testing the water of online dating, even in real life I think most people are just testing the water. Taking an average of the age range here on this site we have a median of probably about 25, at 25 I think the last thing anyone wants to do is jump into something without being entirely sure of what it is...coupled with the rather new age of dating online, it can be an awkward position for just about anyone of any age. Humans really are quite predictable if you study their habits while they are locked in a glass cage with a wheel for excercise. this is Fear's habit of cutting to the core and zinging the truth out there wh ywe luv him, but Fear I think some of us R ready to jump in - but it can be hard to tell ITT if the other person is too. IRL we have body l-i-n-g-o so I think online is a little harder That's why I pooled the average age of 25, different for all ages as far as what they want out of a relationship. Even the age 25 is going to vary from person to person, I just personally think that most people going into dating in this day and age are going into it for the wrong reason and rushing things along at such a pace that the only end result capable is failure. All I'm saying is, essentially, take your time on any platform whether it be online or in the real world. And of course logically defying arguments from people that used to know everything, and suddenly realizing they don't know everything decide to turn the table on people that know everything at the same age they were when they knew everything. A logical impasse, if you will. |
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Hmmm...22 years old and has already met and interviewed "most" people on their readiness for a serious relationship. How did you accomplish all that, Honey? No different than any of us when we were that age or younger. Would it of made you feel good if someone asked you the same question when you were younger and knew everything? Anyway, I generally think most people are just testing the water of online dating, even in real life I think most people are just testing the water. Taking an average of the age range here on this site we have a median of probably about 25, at 25 I think the last thing anyone wants to do is jump into something without being entirely sure of what it is...coupled with the rather new age of dating online, it can be an awkward position for just about anyone of any age. Humans really are quite predictable if you study their habits while they are locked in a glass cage with a wheel for excercise. this is Fear's habit of cutting to the core and zinging the truth out there wh ywe luv him, but Fear I think some of us R ready to jump in - but it can be hard to tell ITT if the other person is too. IRL we have body l-i-n-g-o so I think online is a little harder That's why I pooled the average age of 25, different for all ages as far as what they want out of a relationship. Even the age 25 is going to vary from person to person, I just personally think that most people going into dating in this day and age are going into it for the wrong reason and rushing things along at such a pace that the only end result capable is failure. All I'm saying is, essentially, take your time on any platform whether it be online or in the real world. And of course logically defying arguments from people that used to know everything, and suddenly realizing they don't know everything decide to turn the table on people that know everything at the same age they were when they knew everything. A logical impasse, if you will. I agree it's best to take ur time. Also I think it's possible to learn from each other - I've had younger women clue me in to modern dating expectations after my divorce as I hadn't date in 20 yrs!! And I've shared knowledge gained about man habits w/ some of my younger counterparts |
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most people aren't ready for a serious relationship. no matter age some people are confused and reject great chances at real relationships and love. lol and sleeping with just anybody or everybody isn't helping though most people are happy bieng single and having many sex partners... only one persons opinion... nobody is happy bieng alone! :) Hmm, what about those who chose to be hermits? How about those who chose thir pets over humans? Maybe some just don't believe in love. Being with someone isn't going to complete you or make your life complete. Some people were just meant to be alone whether society accepts it or not. |
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yeah you are absolutely correct. People , they are interested in love but really confuse about relation ship.
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most people aren't ready for a serious relationship. no matter age some people are confused and reject great chances at real relationships and love. lol and sleeping with just anybody or everybody isn't helping though most people are happy bieng single and having many sex partners... only one persons opinion... nobody is happy bieng alone! :)  Hey! This is the first post, The first sharing with strangers, I remember mines. Lets be nice, at least welcome, while sharing our feelings.  |
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She's young, put her feet in it, got rapped good on the fingers, now let it go ppl, you're making her feel awful. I mean MOST ppl were like that.. erhm, just one persons opinion... I mean I was like that at that age, thought I knew it all..... wait, I still do
and there ain't no thinking twice about it  |
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The obvious answer to your posed thought is that you've been looking in the wrong places, and that the actions of some should not tar the actions of all.
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I know I know, we're all just a bunch of people that have loose morals, don't care about really finding a good companion, selfish, and walled off from getting really close to anyone because of synosism, fear, or inability to care...... ........ Was that steeped in to much sarcasm? Needless categorizing and labeling people you don't know could be the reason your jaded... Let go of that luggage hun.... |
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Personally, I feel people have a learning curve. Everyone makes mistakes. Some learn faster than others. Some never learn. In the end, whether or not a person is ready for a serious relationship is up to themselves.
Nobody likes to be alone, but if we want to have something lasting, it's up to us to find a way to make it happen, just like anything else in life. |
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why do most girls talk to u for awhile like 2 days and then they wont talk to u and u did nothing wrong but she says its hard to keep a guy with the kids and that didnt scare me away becouse i have 2 kids myself.
what should i do becouse i really like her |
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