Well, where am i gonna begin ?since this is the first forum ive signed up on in the past 14 years.. i might as well get it of my chest...im a Very,Very lonely guy.
hard as it may be for some to believe iv not had a date(or even been laid for that matter...) in a little over 12 years 4 months.
extremely difficult to believe, i know...but.
true.
ive just been very very very shy.
+ like any guy ive got more than my fair share of emotional/financial hangups...mine just managed to prevent me from finding any true happiness for the past decade or so.
im scared of what a girl/woman will think of me when they find out im on disability, i dont own a car( havent needed one for 15 years...living in lincoln,ne i didnt see a need...a bike gets me where i need to go.)+ im not too sure how many chicks are cool with a pot smoker.
i havent had much luck with finding work( kinda frustrating..but i deal.)
naturally being a dork i turned to video-games (among other things..) to pass time and have something to do..
ultimately my friends saw how deeply unhappy i was so.. they pushed me into doing the online dating thing.
took a lot of courage just getting this far.
ya wanna hear the sad part? ( im well aware how unhealthy this sounds..)
i have almost totally forgotten what sex even felt like...( all i really have are vague memories of the past..)
so.. i decided instead of match.com, or zoosk or any of the other sites ( which annoyingly require some form of payment...im not a cheapskate btw im just careful with my money.) id go with mingle2.for the fact its free (as far as i know.)
but like i said b4 im ****ing tired of being alone..& since i cant seem to find work (been looking for 2 years now...) i might as well try to fulfill a emptiness in my heart ive been missing for a VERY LONG ****ING TIME !

luckily smoking cannabis really helps my depression of being alone for so long
that,& 1 of my buddies said that i shouldnt be unhappy for so long a time.
i finally realize i was just way to deep in denial.
everybody needs someone .................even the self-styled loners.

please help me...ill do ( almost ) anything. well, within reason.

well...you do know how to make an entry.

i had to try something...im at the point of desperation in the extreme.

will you play WOW for 72 hours straight? welcome, the forums await you...and the 420 clubhouse -----> http://mingle2.com/topic/show/288284?page=38 (but most of us stoners are prolly passed out now)

well hang out for a while, join in the forums (be active) and tone down the use of the word "desperate" a bit...you should be just fine.

oh, and welcome!

Gee...I hope it helps to get it off your chest.
err...welcome to mingle :)

You are not alone on Mingle, there is the forums to take part in and well? you can message someone if you wanted too.

See you at the forums :)

i dont know about that i own a ps3 and i used to own a 360 but world of warcrack ? much as i may be a hard-core gamer,im afraid of that one.

Wow snap out of it
Lol

well, i see you know it by its true name. of course, i would nothing about that game...

I was just gonna say that Bastet

nah, i just know the name simply cause my pot dealer is horribly addicted to it.

am a gamer 2 ! Hey Row hugs

Hey kiss

The forums will help skoot, really.

yeah row believes so too
HRU .Gfriend

(((kiss))) gnite

First off, welcome.

Second, I know your plight.

I took myself out of the dating realm for about 10 years. Mostly because of my financial situation, but also because of the type of women that I tended to attract. In any case, I had nothing to focus my energy on but work. Without any outlet, and struggling to pay bills while still having some kind of a social life on a low income, I began to hate my life. I just couldn't find a way to be happy. Now things are better, so after some pressure from friends, I threw myself back into the dating arena.

Relax. Don't beg. You're probably a great guy who's just a little lost. You need to find yourself again. Listen to the advice in the previous posts: jump into the forums and get to know people by sharing your thoughts, opinions, and sense of humor. It will help you to become yourself again, and women will become interested in you. As this happens, you might edit your profile accordingly which may draw even more interest. Trust me, it works. It may take a few months, maybe longer, but it will work. It has for me.

Be honest. Be yourself. Have fun.

Happy hunting!

ok nite .

Nice, action so true.

thank u all for the warm welcome ill take the advice to heart. but in the meantime till tommorrow.. i gotta crash.( been playing the new dead rising 2...killing zombies is so much fun.)

You need to figure out how to stop feeling sorry for you and be happy with yourself. If you can't do that, you're going to have issues with dating. Dating is not going to automatically turn your life around and make everything wonderful. Step away from the video games a bit and get out and meet new people. Start doing things you enjoy and go from there.