If this was within a relationship with a spoken, agreed on committment to monogamy, I would confront him in as nice a way as possible and find out whether he wished to continue our relationship, and then work together to set down basic tenets of fidelity - but have it be something we do together so neither of us feels "bossed"

If we can't do that wihtin the parameters of a committed relationship then, eh...we prolly won't make it


If we didn't have a commitment (just dating) - I decide within myself how I feel about him seeing other females & choose a course of action from there

^ always how I've handeld these things

Been there.

He cheated on me while I was pregnant found out when I was gave him a second chance by the time our daughter was 2 1/2 months old I found out talked about things. I walked away instead of beating the sh^t out of him. I had his sh^t waiting for him at the door that weekend.

So don't cheat or lie to me.

His loss not mine.
Someday I will find my kind and I will be his queen!

waste 15 years of my life thinking it was the right thing to do for the kids, then finally wake the hell up drop the man. Then start living life again

Get with her frind or sister or if the mom's a milf sweet =)

Doing all three at the same time = legendary!

wow you took it to another level of awsomeness props man props

I think outside the box!

no bro you thought outside the box then you took it to another level and went to another box ..sweet =)

Puke in my mouth

..tell him to close the door he's letting all the stank out... or take pictures or film it and post it on youtube with me in the background yelling she has herpes or AIDS or some other incurable shyt..
or sic the dog on him..he's always lookin' for some strange..

..kick in the door run in with a big broom stck in my hand and yell ...BANZAI....

I'll take a wild guess and say leave the bastard or bastardess.

.... toss them a quarter, and walk away... forever.

$.02

The same thing I did the last time......kick his azz to the curb!

it seems kicking to curb or violence are the the choices people here have expressed but is there not the thought that things could be worked out between them. In my opinion it is the dishonesty that is where the hurt and betrayal is not the third person. So if the couple talks to each other preferably before the act agreeing that one person can not meet all the needs of another person there it is not cheating.
it is about honest communication.

Just make sure to record it and email her a copy, and make sure you're doing it in her bed.

Tell him he can go ~F~ himself and that i hope he gets aids and dies a slow and painful death decrepit GAS-TURD!!!!!
(no issues here)

I've had that experience only once so far, he left on a Friday to drink with the guys and never came home until Sunday. When he arrived he was given 5-minutes to grab what he could and to see his way back to her.

He was livid and spitefully took approximately 4.5 years to divorce me, since then he has never spoken to me again that was 12 years ago. Till this day he is still angry.....mmmmmm can't quite understand that.....well they did end up becoming husband and wife, Kudos for them....

Donkey Punch!

Really? is cheating "honest communication"?? It seems to me if my partner cheats thats all that needs to be said. Its about self respect and boundaries. If my partner cheats theres not much to say about it and nothing I want to hear anyway. As for myself I only have two words...good bye!