how do u learn to trust again after havin yur heart broke too many times in the past?

With greater caution!

easier said than done, but you can start by not projecting past relationships onto the new. and time, to see the real.

You get better at listening to your instincts.

the thing is simple experience makes way to perfect......just try to think where you have went wrong in last past relationships and dont try to repeat it

It's difficult, but I try to remember that every person is different, a fresh start, and that their behavior has absolutely no connection to the behaviors of the last 94 people before them.

Of course, I'm always shot down in the end, because they all end up doing exactly the same things everyone else did. But that doesn't mean there isn't a possibility of someone truly different coming along....eventually.

Become a psycho chick. Dudes will be leary to phuck with you then.

um no lol thts jus nt my personality

whats the point of sayin '' ok ill trust this person regardless of whats happened before!'' an thn have yur heart broke and yur trust shattered all over again ?

even with the sunglasses on you still don't look 100 years old

ill let u in on a lil secret... i found the fountain of youth! but shhhhhh dnt tell anyone!:)

take your time. make the next one prove himself before you give your heart away.

ok it'll be our secret

wait! did i jus post tht in public!! Crap! wheres the delete button at on this thing?!?!?! haha

my luck ill get the impatient one next time lol

i dunno,i never have been able to

By recognizing that the trust you place is in yourself.

You can never control another ... not should you want to. But you decide how brave you are going to be in putting yourself out there. And you trust yourself to handle whatever happens.

I've always been a 'go big or go home' kinda gurl.

if that happens, dump him and find the one that will be patient. this is not a race, it's your life!

Try to put it (and keep it) in perspective. We are here to experience life. I go into a relationship laughing and I am usually laughing when it's done. I might be laughing at how naive I was or, how I allowed myself to be mistreated in some way or other or, I might even be laughing at him trying to justify infidelity to me while I caught him with his pants down (pun intended).

Humor is an amazing gift and that's how I use it to mend my heart. Try to remember we are all here to learn the same lessons. We are just learning them at different times. Example: I learned in my 20's that infidelity would crush someone. While other people learn this in their 40's or 60's.

Perhaps the guy you are with hasn't learned the same lessons you have already learned, Miss. You can choose to be patient with him and help him get to your level of life education or, you can walk away and find another who has already taken the same classes you have.

Maybe this visual will also help:
Picture yourself holding a tiny baby. That baby is your inner child. You cradle that little one and nurture it. Nobody in this world can love that child more than you. Nobody. So, even when you are let down by the actions of another person, it has no effect on your inner child. You are the only parent that baby has and you are the only parent that baby will ever need.

Hey just cked out ur profile n you seem like a good person trusting some people these days is hard you will know when to trust again trust me I know :-)